I think I was an idiot with some girls. They show me interests but I interpret them normally. Maybe I'm wrong. I still talk to some of these girls. None of them ask for a favor. They all pay for what they eat. We hangout and do shit together, have fun, be friendly. We don't touch each other. They often initiate touching. I'm usually distant because I'm insecure or I'm just new to this level of interest. I want to covertly flirt. "plausible deniability" I believe? I want to do that. How do I do that with these girls? I want to understand if they want me sexually. If yes, good, I escalate. If no, I want to do what I have been doing with them.