All right gents here is something I really really struggle with.

How are you supposed to deal with insults ( words or behavior ) from a woman you bang ?

My problem is that I cannot reconciliate " when she violates your integrity walk away" with " when she has displeased you punish switfly" ( Commandments of Poon).

Is it acceptable per TRP tenets to get angry at your bitch and give her hell when she gets bad on you or do you simply stay above the fray and ghost her for a while ?

Both options could be perceived as beta. First could make you look like butthurt and that you care too much second as a doormat.

Case in point : a plate has forgotten to wish me a happy birthday. Yes I know how it looks like when you see it written like this by a stranger on the nenenet but she does know the date of my birthday so I take it as a massive shit test or as a form of a "break up" ( but you should not " play by her rules") : if I do not reply she can say " well he has understood I did not want to continue with him".

If I ask why she did it she can say she wants to end us. If she says she forgot it shows she does not care shit about me.

My gut reaction is to to flak her as this is a real insult on my ego. Forgetting someone's birthday is really something I do not tolerate so I am constraining myself here.

A&A is out of the question IMO. You do not joke with someone who just spit on your face.

What would you do ? Open to everything. Not afraid to lose her.