(Maybe one of you guys can help me out/have experience with this)

I’ve noticed a pattern in myself where if I REALLY feel a connection with a girl, I get sucked in and become way too attached. This is bad, I know.

Partly I think this comes from a lack of attention from girls when I was in middle/high school (I’m in college now).

I’m not weird at all, not bad looking (white, 6’1, very skinny though) but I still crave that validation that I am “enough.”

Any experiences with this? Any responses would be greatly appreciated!