Never been in this situation before. Made my first plate spin not long ago. She did mention her ex-boyfriend a few times. He definitely doesn't sound like he is over her . ( constantly calls, texts, sends her gifts).

He is also aware that this girl has been spending a lot of time with me and probably has the hint that something is up. What I do not understand is why the heck would he know so much and still want to travel coast to coast to spend the weekend with her?

All the same , this puts me in an unfamiliar situation. She lives in the same community and practically shares the same friend circle. How do I deal with this guy on his visit?