How to handle agressive, violent men?

warburgio · 2019-08-31T10:06:11+00:00

Be calm and non-reactive. If he touches you- put thumbs in his eyes.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2019-08-31T12:27:51+00:00

They are all talk, just let them blow hot air. Dont engage. A genuine tough guy dosent have to say it. He just waits until it's just the 2 if you and he punches you out. You will here his words then.

He does it this way from experience. Because hes pounded the shit out of countless people.

I have never won a fight. I have a close friend who had pounded the shit out of people.

Mazohist · 2019-08-31T12:04:01+00:00

its a constant problem how to handle assholes like that

Where on earth do you live? A constant problem? I barely meet aggressive guys and I approach tonnes. I'm not that big of a guy either.

Anyway I recommend you pick up Muay Thai. It's a great martial art, will improve your confidence, but most of the time you should just ignore him.

Cody_Silver · 2019-08-31T13:09:36+00:00

“Fuck off” is how I usually handle it.

If I am feeling playful or the wife is around, “Do I know you?”, him:”No”, me: “Fuck off then”. The wife really likes that exchange. It doesn’t heppen often, maybe once a year, but it seems to work. Usually at a casino or other activity where people like to give unsolicted advise.

Most males like this really do not know how to fight. That’s good if you do. It’s bad because these are the dumbasses that accidentally kill people. Personally, I never hit anyone in the head because it is too risky. There are too many ways to hurt them.

35ish years ago, I had about 7 years of martial arts training and competed. My real life nick name is a girls name, a blessing and a curse from my patents. They really liked Johnny Cash’s A boy named sue song. We also moved everytime the rent was due. So, I went to a lot of new schools and got into many fights. I was 50% losses before martial arts and about 10% losses after. I highly recommend everyone take some real martial arts that do not require body manipulation.

My life experience is that it does not matter if you win or lose a fight, just that people know you are willing to fight. Also, if others are around, you are not going to get hurt too bad. My scars are from being caught alone with no witnesses at the wrong place and time.

FereallyRed · 2019-08-31T17:09:05+00:00

Step to the side and watch them crash into the wall.

masterpiece00 · 2019-08-31T10:28:01+00:00

Avoid fighting what ever you do unless it's self defense, fighting is fucking dumb and for the weak minded.

Throwaway-242424 · 2019-09-02T01:23:37+00:00

im 1.75m and 73kg, never was on the athletic side

Lift more. These dudes are seeing you as an easy target.

misls · 2019-09-01T01:33:12+00:00

Look. A lot of people on Asktrp will tell you to ignore and be calm against aggressive and violent men, and they're partially right. You need to know how to fight, period.

Ignoring/being calm will work to your benefit if you know that you'll be able to fuck the guy up. If the guy calls your bluff, and decides to hit you and you don't know how to fight, you'll get your ass beat. We live in a society driven by primal interactions, aggressive beta-males exist in a lot of species at the top of the food chain.

Example;

I was at the club last night, dancing with this persian chick who was attracting a lot of attention. She was grinding on me and this black dude came up and tried to get her to dance with him. She kept pulling away and I was ignoring his advances and letting the girl make her choice. He then decided to grab my arm, I stopped what I was doing and looked him dead in his eyes for about 5 seconds. The only way I have the confidence to do that is because I train in Muay Thai/Jiu Jitsu and I powerlift. The guy then offered me a sip of his beer, I kindly declined and he left on his own. Me prior to any Martial arts knowledge/pre-lifting Misls would've had anxiety deep down about not being able to protect myself and to cower like a beta-bitch.

If this situation had gone the other way and the black guy had thought I was a sheep in wolf's clothing, and he'd decided to throw hands.. He would've gotten fucked up unless he was also into Martial arts and a better fighter than me (Not likely at all as most people don't lift or do Martial arts let alone both together).

Title	How to handle agressive, violent men?
Author	Mazohist
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	August 31, 2019 9:47 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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