We all got that ex. Mine and I back then had a bad weird relationship. It ended with us not talking for a few years. I was a certain way, so was she. And we made peace on it once. Recently we said hi, she was single again exchanged numbers. Figured hey, why not we can try talking nothing else, let's be cool here its been years... Well from there on she added me on SC after other social medias. And it started out with heavy talking to flirting to seekng a few snaps of her with her ex... and well the rest is history. Contact was ceased, it ended up being one worded replies. Eventually haven't talked. I stopped replying overall.
Boys this is a routine this lady has done since we were youngins. She's single she'll tug at memories and heart strings. Then somehow things with her ex are ok so men are whatever to her. Nothing feels like its changed and I am not repeating that history where i was a chaser. I simply did this as a way of just letting go of the past... but i now know this wasn't the right way. I will admit it to you all. She'll send me random useless snaps out of nowhere but it feels like I'm being watched if i open them or not... Friends suggested unadding her on everything and Hard nexting. Others say if its nothing youre after with her just soft it. I know I made the mistake of letting my ex in my life again, but I need to know for once the proper way of handling it. I never had anyone teach me so guys, I'm reaching out here.