How to maintain frame when she's teasing?

TRP8myfeels · 2019-03-01T00:34:50+00:00

Never. Laugh it off and do what is right by your actions.

Always be entertained by it, even if it's so rude that you next her. Laugh all the way out the door.

Hyper_Sonik · 2019-03-01T04:06:34+00:00

Son, don't ever begin a sentence, phrase or statement with "Like". Also, delete the use of "I felt" "I feel" from your vocabulary. This chick was fishing using the classic beta bait. "If you do x, ill give you y" It's a negotiation tactic with her offering the reward for compliance. And she most Def hands that shit out for free...... Here beta beta beta..... Good job on not falling for it, it's obvious.

MattyAnon · 2019-03-01T17:50:46+00:00

I felt it as a shit test and didn't want to lose frame but where do you draw the line when girls are obviously teasing you?

Laugh off everything you can, but if you stop enjoying it you say "Enough". After that you walk away or ignore which is the one thing women understand and respond to.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-03-01T01:30:48+00:00

In this specific situation, soft next. She's straight trying to manipulate and use sex as a weapon. There is no bargaining or trying to talk her into it.

If it was just generally trying to escalate, sure. When she offers the 'I'll do this, only if you do that'? That's a big withdraw of all attention right there. The medium is the message.

amwfhunter · 2019-03-01T01:03:47+00:00

I usually draw the line when I know what I said via a text can be taken so out of context due to my naturally savagery that it could be used in the future against me?

rugged79 · 2019-03-01T01:11:45+00:00

Yoda, is that you?

dontlike-hotz · 2019-03-01T02:20:18+00:00

Sounds like a request on your resources in exchange for something that is minimal effort for her that she thinks you will value equal to the resources of the request.

You can counter offer too, what would you like in exchange for her request

dirk_conrad · 2019-03-01T03:25:04+00:00

What if you attempted engaging with women of higher caliber intellectual status

Title	How to maintain frame when she's teasing?
Author	mrBatata
Upvotes	5
Comments	10
Date	March 1, 2019 12:32 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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