So I had few dates with Asian girls but nothing happened afterwards.

My problem is that my dates are usually boring. For example, I always have dates over lunch/dinner.

I eat and talk. I tried to stay in fun or sexual topics. However, I can't help but fall into more comfortable topics, like job, hobby, friends, etc.

It seems that I have no problem spending time with a girl that way. But it leads to nothing. I get bored, and I notice the girl losing interest.

I feel like I get boxed into a frame that I need to stay as a nice guy and treat her like princess.

I know that the action dates are recommended. How does one usually set it up?

Also, how do I make the date much more focused to be sexual? I don't want to frame the date such that I end up in LJBF zone.

I rather be obviously show my intent that if the girl is not upto it, she will just leave and stop wasting my time. But then again, I don't want to be too obnoxious and scare girls away. Asian girls are easily scared too.