Not at all satisfied with my dating life and my work life is probably worse. No big deal, just got out of jail and I'm working on it. I have this chick I picked up from my last job, she's 33, probably a 7 and on the first date she was trying all sorts of things to please me - saying she's not interested in kids (lies), paying for both our tabs without asking, but no sex. Likely can get it next time but who knows. Been approaching chicks infrequently but I am doing it. About once a week. Lifting 3 times a week and trying to spend my free time not doing shitty, pointless things.

One thing I've noticed with women shit testing/showing interest left right and center is that I care a whole lot less that they do it.

It seems less essential to game chicks rather than get my life to a spot I want it in. My worth is still low, still living at moms with close to no friends and without much of a purpose.

What can I do to not get complacent and retain that fire I had a month ago? Has anyone else experienced laziness when getting a first plate?