I play in a sports league one night a week, and a small group of us go to the same bar each week afterwards. I started gaming the bartender a few weeks ago and things have gone very well. I asked her out for drinks, she agreed and we exchanged numbers 2 weeks ago. We haven't hung out yet due to conflicting schedules, but have been texting every few days, and we've talked about going out when I go to the bar. She seemed very interested and we have a pretty good vibe going. Flirtatious, covertly sexual, etc.

We planned on hanging out at my house this week for drinks. The night before, when I left the bar I told her I was leaving and to come outside and give me a kiss. She did. She texted me afterwards, and everything was good to go. The next day I texted her and asked what's up with tonight. She said "I can't I'm going to x lol". No apology, no explanation, no offer to reschedule...

This was completely out of the blue and unexpected. Now I'm not sure how to proceed from here. Obviously I ghost now and go no contact.

But should I continue going to the bar each week after my games or should I take a week or two off? If she does text again, how do I address this? Or just leave it all be and ignore her unless she brings it up?