So I just started hanging out with this girl, she’s not very experienced. She’s had one bf before but they didn’t do too much, and he was super beta and cringy. I don’t usually give girls credit, but she honestly dealt with his beta shit way longer than I would imagine possible, she’s got decent patience. With that said, AWALT.

So anyway, this girl is really into me, initiated first contact, our first date was just to check if she was crazy, she seemed pretty chill. I gave her just a kiss goodbye, mainly because I was sick. Didn’t really care about the outcome of it very much.

Both before and after the first date she’s giving me a ton of compliments and flirty texts, so I tell her I’ll have to kiss her more next time, and she says she’d like that. I then set up another date for today, which went great. I picked her up at her place, we went to a park for a bit, and then came back to my place so we could “help each other warm up” (We both live at home and we’re both pretty young).

Long story short, put on a movie and the making out and touching was game on. Passed last minute resistance on unbuttoning her pants, after that she loved everything that I did to her. She kept telling me how hot I am and how good everything feels, and stuff like “wow you really know what you’re doing”, she was non stop smiling, couldn’t stop herself from it. It was obvious she wasn’t used to an a real man. Turns out she’s still a virgin and hadn’t been eaten out before (I fixed that) and hadn’t ever gone down on a guy before (I fixed that too, although I didn’t finish). She did ask me:

Her: “So... are we a thing?”

Me: “I don’t know, are we?”

Her: “I mean... I would like to be”

Me: “Yeah?”

Her: “So are we?”

Me: “we can be”

Not sure if I did that part correct, so let me know.

In the end, we didn’t fuck today because my parents were home and we needed a bit more privacy. I did have a lot of fun though. She is still very interested and wants more. She is also on the fence about going all the way, and when. But I can tell she totally wants to, so my question is, how do I get past the “Everything feels so good, but I don’t want to go too fast”.

My response to her was basically “hey, everything’s okay. Just relax and enjoy each other. This is all our little secret”. That seemed to calm her. She talked about condoms and being afraid of pregnancy, and we agreed we want to be safe. I asked if she’d be a good girl for me, and she told me she would. When I called her good girl after she went down on me, she couldn’t stop smiling. She was eating it up.

Things are progressing nicely, going to second base by second date. My question is, how do I deal with any last minute resistance in the future? That’s my weak spot, as I’m afraid of pushing too hard and alienating a girl, and potentially jeopardizing my career over a bullshit charge.

She briefly mentioned something about how she originally wanted to save herself for marriage, however she’s not sure now, but that she just doesn’t want to take it too fast. She also said at least twice “you make me feel so safe”.

Thanks all. Basically, ASD and LMR tips for dealing with virgin? Also, thank you red pill. I have so much confidence now it’s like I’m a totally different person. Now I’m really starting to see the results