How to reduce libido?

footballtrav89 · 2013-11-26T04:37:40+00:00

I am not a medical professional but i feel like you are confusing "emotions" with "libido"?

Can you give me an example scenario of this trap your falling into? Are you talking about putting them on a pink unicorn pedestal of perfection?

vacuu · 2013-11-26T08:14:45+00:00

Don't ignore your natural feelings, they are no less "true" than trp itself. You just need to understand what's happening and figure out how to resolve it. This book may help explain what's happening in terms of the bonding/oxytocin you're feeling vs the dopamine hit you were initially pursuing via sex. The feeling you get is designed to keep you two together long enough for a child to become a few years old, then other feelings of disenchantment and unattraction come into the picture to drive you two apart to look for other partners. So it's a cycle that just keeps happening, bonding and breaking apart, over and over again. Understand it and then you can choose how it turns out.

manofsolitude · 2013-11-26T04:38:48+00:00

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drrrrrr · 2013-11-26T07:38:19+00:00

I don't think you know what libido is.
You fall into compassion and affection for every girl you come across because you have not yet internalized your own self-worth and high standards. Compassion and affection is GOOD, it should just be saved for truly great women, like the 1%.
Everyone feels the temptation to spend all day cuddling with a hot chick. It's nice. Libido isn't making you procrastinate handling your real life in order to wallow in this trap, it's your mind being weak.

[deleted] · 2013-11-26T15:48:52+00:00

Nolvadex. Alternatively, don't be ashamed about wanting to fuck.

notapussy-punk · 2013-11-26T04:58:20+00:00

Sounds trollish. When I had problems with libido, I took care of myself ten times per day. That paid off later, I think.

Title	How to reduce libido?
Author	manofsolitude
Upvotes	7
Comments	18
Date	November 26, 2013 4:19 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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