How to stop caring

DoubleConversation4 · 2020-09-10T07:34:09+00:00

2 words: Self-love.

Start meditating first, it will help you very much in avoiding the depressive episodes and what you call "caring" is actually the depressive episodes.

Lifting - when you have a high testosterone, confidence and self-love automatically increases and you actually have a desire to do build - do something.

You have to channel your pain through your body to something else somehow - writing, painting , climbing - you name it.

And also about women, you don't need women. Men are performance objects, for a man to be happy, he needs to build something. Women are just complementary.

gcaa99 · 2020-09-10T15:24:05+00:00

Not advancing is not an option. Do some introspection and understand in wich areas help might be needed.

custoscustodis · 2020-09-10T12:42:22+00:00

If you know that your mental illness is hampering you, you need to get help. That means at least going to see a therapist. You don't necessarily need to take meds, but you need someone to talk to.

If you are doing this and still feel down, then you need to "downsize" your life. You need to reevaluate your goals, figure out what is feasible and attainable for you, and then get back out there. I am middle aged now, and I saw several people crash and burn when their goals didn't work out. One guy I know was working on his PhD. He didn't finish. His failure drove him to the therapist's office.

Instead of flailing away at a goal that may not be attainable anymore, readjust and find something that you can accomplish.

DEAagent1515 · 2020-09-10T10:05:27+00:00

Stop trying to make people feel bad for you

Title	How to stop caring
Author	Johnewenthethird
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	September 10, 2020 5:11 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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