How to undo an alpha widow

AlfredApple · 2016-06-28T22:39:38+00:00

Did I read correctly that she has a kid with this guy and she has been his plate for 11 years and they still talk... about sex.

She is a good women

No, she is not. She is a train wreck and a very low quality woman. If you had read anything in the main sub you would already know the answer is to break up with her and get her out of your life.

But...

You don't want to because you are scared to be alone, have few other options or are afraid to hurt her so you come here to beg for another answer that is easier than the one you know is the right one. Classic.

everquestnerd · 2016-06-28T22:34:03+00:00

Wow really. That's disrespectful. Goodbye , time to look for a new chick

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2016-06-28T22:34:57+00:00

If you have spent any time whatsoever on TRP you know what the answer is.

But your oneitis for this gutter slut whore is so strong you are trying to hamster up a way to do anything with her except "Hard next her out of my life and move on to other women"

ecosci · 2016-06-29T02:25:24+00:00

I would get out because he will regulate your ltr and she will abide and screw him behind your back she is a troubled woman dont save her find another single lady.

Albacorewing · 2016-06-29T14:12:11+00:00

It is hard for you to do, but for your own good, walk away, and never return to her.

chrysanthemumtaffy · 2016-06-29T00:42:21+00:00

moved states to be near him (even though she says the reason is they have a daughter together

I would have been entirely sympathetic to your post if you hadn't said that. He's the father of her child. Of course she wants her child to be near him. That is her fulfilling an obligation to her child, not to him. It sounds like what you are really bothered by is the fact that she has a history with this guy, not its current manifestation (which doesn't seem like much more than blowing him off in a callous way). If that's the case, then you aren't going to be able to be happy with her and she isn't going to be able to be happy with you because of that.

Title	How to undo an alpha widow
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	June 28, 2016 10:29 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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