Real simple. Met a girl at the bar. I immediately initiated touching, brief convo, and started making out. She says wanna leave or let's go...I said ok, let's go...we finish out drinks and we are now in a cab back to her place. We make out and talk on the way. We get in bed, all her clothing is off except panties, I finger her and she sucking my dick but then she says i don't fuck on the first time, I ignore her, choke her a little, smack her ass, throw her around, hold her hands down...play with her pussy...Nothing. She eventually says..just chill next time we'll fuck...tomorrow I'll be out again so we ll meet. I ignore and keep pushing.

Eventually she leaves the room for like 5 mins and when she comes back she says she has to leave because her needs to rescued...her friend is real drunk....

so I just got my clothing on and now I am so annoyed cause last call is like in 40 mins so basically I had to call it a night...she asks are you angry...I so, no... just mildly annoyed...she says call my phone so i have your number...I give her my phone and walk out leaving her door open...

I felt my mistake was expressing annoyance in the face of her saying that she's down to fuck next time...who knows. But she was 21 and cute. She did have a friend with her and she just left with me...so it could be plausible. Another guy could have texted her..hard to tell.

I was thinking saying something like..."hey, had a good time, I'm pretty spoiled, so don't mind annoyance, I'm over it...

my only concern is that she would have just hit me up the next night if i accepted it and left. I guess my experience is that going back to her place/my place means we are fucking...I'm in my 30s, she was 21 or 22 I think...I've encountered a lot of LMR before but that was in college..rarely does it happen that a girl is sucking my dick and we are not fucking...

I don't necessarily see her behavior as bad per se because we literally just met 45 mins ago at a bar and can understand why she might be hesitate to fuck.

Text or hard next?