How would you hold frame with this text?

SirKolbath · 2017-10-05T23:28:55+00:00

Her: or are you just trying to get in my pants. Cause like take a lady out first

"Do you know any?"

lietruth · 2017-10-05T23:36:53+00:00

She definitely likes you, as she's bringing up the topic of sex.

Women who don't like you won't do that. Just pass the shit test. Agree and amplify.

900_year_old_vampire · 2017-10-06T00:30:31+00:00

youre lucky she even responded at all.. your first mistake was giving her YOUR number.. she doesnt want your number, she wants you to get hers. women dont want to lead, they want to be led. your second mistake is hiding behind 'lol' every 2 seconds. i hate when women do that, i cant imagine what it must be like for a woman to have a man thats talking to her doing it. she probably feels like she is talking to the biggest fucking fruit loop. your third mistake was leaving the ball in her court. "haha, you have my number lol" like are you fuckin kidding me son? lead. she is never going to be the one that leads, or asks you out, or takes any of the risks. thats not her job, its yours. good lord. you have created a dogshit frame here to begin with, so you dont have to worry about "holding" it. if anything, ignore her for a while so that she can forget about what a faggot you act like, and then start over again in a few weeks. get her number, instantly demand nudes and turn the conversation sexual, meet up for sex if you want to. its not that hard. this is tinder we are talking about here

TheYouyou · 2017-10-06T06:55:27+00:00

Had to face the same lately. I said something like "am new in town and wanted to have a drink with a nice girl. Already found the bar. There is onmy you left ;)" She answered by "Does this approach works every time for you?" And then i said "Have you ever dated someone woth so much paranoïa" And finally she responded: "you got me there lol". And got her number. It is as simple as this.

linso28 · 2017-10-06T15:28:48+00:00

She likes you but you gave her some power by giving your number man. Personally I never give my number, I always ask theirs..

mikeyd03 · 2017-10-07T00:08:26+00:00

It's funny cause she's blowing up my phone, so for you guys who are hearing the advice: lead. Sext. Be direct. Think about it from a perspective of differentiation. What are 99% of other dudes on tinder doing, they are in fact chasing. If you flip the script, it can go a long way (at least for me LOL). Also, I do recommend using the "lol" it keeps things light and communicates high value (self amusement). I appreciate all the comments, but sometimes what works works. My strategy is to just be a normal dude, and flip the script...seems to be working. Thanks fellas.

mikeyd03 · 2017-10-06T02:31:28+00:00

LOL

Title	How would you hold frame with this text?
Author	mikeyd03
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	October 5, 2017 11:03 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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