Hypergamy: is there a double standard making it "more ok" for women to cheat, vs. men cheating?

RPstudent · 2014-07-30T20:37:50+00:00

You're making a lot of assumptions in your two situations. And Red Pill awareness is amoral, so the questions of morality are set aside.

Both situations are the result of biological imperatives. From that perspective there is no difference. But that's like saying there is no difference between you and I because we both have reddit accounts.

DrakeSaint · 2014-07-30T21:02:08+00:00

It's a point of debate within TRP because many of those who claim to have "swallowed the pill" still can't wear the amorality shoes on their issues. So they'll say they're alpha and shit and still ban all possibilities of cheating.

Cheat if you want. Cheat if you think it's a rational decision. If after rationalizing everything without putting your heart into it leads you into the conclusion that cheating is okay, do it. Take the consequences if it's discovered. Move on and learn if later on you regret it. Simple.

All women want to be dominated somehow. If you're not up for the task, she'll find someone else to do it. Hence why dreadgame is so important to keep the balance in the relationship.

Your example is two-fold. An alpha male is not alpha anymore if he is in a marrying relationship with a fat woman and/or being dominated by it. If you're dominating the relationship, and the woman in question has no interest in changing this point, then congratulations; chances she'll cheat you just got drastically reduced.

R_E_D_1 · 2014-07-30T20:49:35+00:00

Cheating is shitty. You shouldn't do it. She shouldn't do it. No one should do it. What they should do is split up if they no longer feel the urge to make each other a priority.

If you want to cheat on your girl, break up with her first. Make her a plate if you dare. But cheating is stupid because it takes up time to maintain that deceit. And your time is precious. Respect it that way.

[deleted] · 2014-07-31T00:58:45+00:00

I see cheating the same way as I see breaking a contract. If you want out of the contract, deal with the consequences. If you break the contract while still benefiting from it, you are despicable, and I don't want to associate with you.

Title	Hypergamy: is there a double standard making it "more ok" for women to cheat, vs. men cheating?
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Date	July 30, 2014 8:31 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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