I cannot make an cold approach sober

i-am-the-prize · 2020-02-25T19:26:00+00:00

it's easier when it's real.

meaning, do not "go out hunting" rather be social every day. i find myself talking to old/young/fat/skinny/homely/hot - and when you can view them as people, and act naturally a few things happen:

the homely or fattie or young ones are really shy, totally not used to getting talked-to and have their "oh shit, what's going on" defense mechanism up, these can actually be harder to talk to as they are frozen often and short with answers at first.
the older ones are easy to talk to, they don't get as much attention from a fit/well groomed guy, and they've been around the block and when they're DTF they are very responsive, expect unrequested kino from cougars
the younger hot ones, who are kinda used to getting stared at and eye fucked, seem relieved that you're actually talking to them, vs just staring with mouth open, like 95% of the fucktards out there.

smile, have energy, and if you do engage in convo, use the time constraint line, so that there is less "omg is he gonna stay if I talk to him?" and takes the pressure off the encounter.

and it's a self perpetuating cycle some times, e.g.: I flew home on business a few weeks back and talked up the stewardess, yeah i know like bartenders and waitresses, they're paid to be nice. But I didn't hit on her, just talked to her and smiled and made her laugh a bit. So once we're in the air she's bringing me cocktails, extra snacks. rubbing my shoulder and I was just polite and engaging, nothing cheesy. we land and are stuck for 90 min as our jetway was damaged by a luggage cart (greaaat) while they find a new gate for our plane. They let us stand and move around for a bit. Out of nowhere, a chick who was a few rows back, who must've seen the interactions, made a point to come up to me and introduce herself to me and talk me up. Why? social proof? maybe. but she saw me interacting and not cheeseballing the stewardess and something clicked for her. she gave me her card, with her mobile pre-written on the back, asked me to ring her if i was free as she'd be in my hometown for the next 4 days. Again, no plans for this, but "the harder i work the luckier I get" is true in business and seems to also work in Game.

smgtn · 2020-02-25T17:05:53+00:00

Here's my personal funny anecdote. I went out daygaming the last 4 weekends and I took Phenibut every Saturday. The irony was that Phenibut put me in such DGAF mode that I didn't even care about approaching - I was content with just cruising around town.

On Sundays though I took Phenylpiracetam which makes your mind razor sharp and it had the desired effect - I was picking out targets from afar like a hawk and approaching without much hesitation.

Elatea · 2020-02-25T16:59:19+00:00

There really isnt anything that makes it easier. Lifting builds your self esteem and makes you confident, so that could make it easier.

I generally wont approach every girl but if you see one looking at you, or your sat next to her on the train or something, strike up a conversation not just with the intent to get her number, just a normal conversation. Without the pressure of her being a potential partner it makes it easier for you to talk to her, then when you feel comfortable, ask for her number.

throwaway90091234 · 2020-02-25T17:08:56+00:00

Here is my advice:

Build some good muscle size, cut down to 14% body fat or less, get slim fit jeans, some nice boots that reek of masculinity, a slim fit v neck white/blue/black t shirt, and see how you feel ( i personally feel awesome ) and go approach.

Title	I cannot make an cold approach sober
Author	cockblast400
Upvotes	7
Comments	23
Date	February 25, 2020 4:55 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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