I dont know how to develop a abundance mindset? Any pointers?

evilquesadilla · 2015-05-07T01:35:58+00:00

The problem is, logically you know this is true... there are plenty of women... but emotionally you don't feel it. This is because you haven't had much success (I assume), and it goes into a negative feedback loop. You need to change that feedback loop to positve.

To fix this, do what women do... use practice partners.

Women flirt with men they have no interest in for entertainment and practice. They use men (betas) as emotional tampons and boyfriend substitutes to do all the heavy lifting but get none of the benefits. All the way up to hypergamy that is frequentyly discussed in TRP.

You do the same. Use women for social interaction practice, hook up with practice girls to gain confidence, then once you have something solid under your belt, you get more confidence, and you move up the scale.

Is it nice? No. Is it mean? probably. It's just as not nice and mean as what women do. If you want to take the high road, you're on your own. If you want something practical, do what other people do. Society rewards conformists. Conform until you get the hang of it, then you can choose to take your own path. You can't run until after you've learned to walk.

TheGillos · 2015-05-06T23:37:52+00:00

Look around you, all day, everyday, for a few days and count the women you are attracted to enough to bang. Now multiply that number by the areas in your city you didn't visit, then by the cities in your country, then add all the other countries. Then take into account a man can attract women in their prime well into his 50s (in some cases)...

Jesus. If that bit of mental math doesn't do it, nothing will. What the fuck is your hangup? You didn't bother to say.

alexinikita · 2015-05-07T03:17:12+00:00

when you have enough water to drown in, water is the least of your concern. Even you have enough simulation for your brain through activities that mean something to you, women will be less important. When you can pass on a fuck because you know you can get laid any time after, that's abundance mentality. You don't even actually know, but you don't care cause there is more important stuff to handle

RPmatrix · 2015-05-07T11:36:33+00:00

do you ever worry that Mc Donald's is going to be out of food when you go there?

Can you ride bike? Do you ever worry you'll forget how to?

Do you worry about not being able to have a glass of water when you want?

I'd say you answered no, to these questions; you don't worry becoz you simply accept that that's "how it is" and there's nothing to 'worry about'

Well, when you have that attitude towards 'meeting women', that''s "abundance attitude"

IF you get out there and start doing the things you're reading about here, on the sidebar etc and then keep practicing what you're learning until you DO HAVE the 'frame and game' to just know that if you were to go a hunting some poosy you'd be coming home with something, maybe cute as a kitten maybe a raging tiger BUT it will be something, because 'women are everywhere, they make up half the population!' YOU just have to get out there and find this out for yourself!

All you younger guys need to realize "just becoz you've read and (kinda) understood the sidebar material" and that some sort of Red Pill transformation will suddenly happen to you, realize it wont!

Like ANY knowledge or skill, especially one as ~~complex~~ different TRP ideology is that It takes study, time and practice

Simple!

you already know how hard it can be at first when coming across TRP as it seems to contradict so much you've been 'taught' and so it often takes a while to even 'swallow the pill', for many guys, for when they first get here it's quite a shock and takes a while to come to terms with!

It's after that point where the 'practice' of 'building frame' and learning 'good game' begins

TR:DR: With practice, and them practice some more!

Title	I dont know how to develop a abundance mindset? Any pointers?
Author	Chocotop
Upvotes	7
Comments	9
Date	May 6, 2015 11:24 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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