A little about myself in short:

Dad passed away when I was young and was raised by my mother with my sister (yikes). Basically everything I have in life is because I went away from my mom. Joined the Army at 17, got out and used my GI Bill to go to college. Now I'm in the National Guard and work as a defense contractor (big $). I feel like I've done really well marching to my own tune but I'm at a point where I want to make sure I'm making the best decisions I can. I've never had a mentor and frankly don't have anyone in my family that could fill that role. Any advice?