I Dont Know How To Have Fun

abdada · 2017-02-23T13:57:03+00:00

I don't drink. I don't LTR women who drink. I try not to plate women who drink. I've had this rule now for over 12 years. I meet tons of women, every week, who don't drink, don't go to bars, don't use drugs, etc. Tons of them.

This week I found a playhouse in my actual town so I went to their amateur night and I met 8 people of varying ages who aren't actors but like to do scenes. 3 of them were decently cute girls (say 6.5 or so?), young, and after interacting with everyone, 2 of those cute girls actually don't drink, so they do the playhouse to socialize every two weeks. Fun gals, too. Local.

I do a lot of solo sports in the mornings, year round, and I run into beautiful fit women who won't drink because they don't want to be flat slobs and have it effect their athletic performance.

Just get out there and do what you love to do and if you see a cute gal, don't miss the chance to open her because you may never see her again. I remember last summer I was out surfing and ran into a gorgeous gal (probably late 20s) who was an amazing surfer and had a great figure. I thought about approaching her but I decided I'd see her again and can do it any time. Nope. Never even got her name, but I did get some looks and a few respect nods.

Women come and go and you never see them again, so if you make eye contact with someone cute when you're doing your version of fun, immediately approach. Once that opportunity is lost, it's gone.

LeatherCharm · 2017-02-23T20:01:54+00:00

Saw this link on a post awhile back... thought it was/is a great resource for date ideas:

Date Ideas

Your_Coke_Dealer · 2017-02-23T22:44:26+00:00

Just get some fun and badass hobbies. Cars/motorcycles, archery/shooting, get good at card games, take up a martial art, whatever. Just do something that both you enjoy doing and you could introduce the majority of basic bitches to and impress them.

Now where to meet women? I don't know your age range, but college it's easy to day game, and older than that, find somewhere to be social without drinking and just talk to people. Cold approach is awkward at first, but the worst to happen is you get brushed off. Meh, rejection stops feeling bad after the first several times or so

Edit: guitar is a good one

ReddJive · 2017-02-23T23:12:51+00:00

You aren't trying hard enough.

Your nose is in a book too much and you aren't enjoying your life. On a college campus women are everywhere. The gym, library....

Vary your routine and you will see them. I'm also willing to bet you aren't practicing game. Ever go to a restaurant? Bookstore? The cashier, waitress....is she ever female? That chick buying gas at the station?

Brother you aren't taking advantage of any of the opportunities you have here. You need to look up and instead of seeing a target rich environment like a bar, you will find the single 200 meter target.

I recommend you read Day Bang by Roosh V.

blackedoutfast · 2017-02-23T21:37:29+00:00

approach girls while you are reading, lifting, guitar, just taking random walks and talking about random stuff and invite them to come with you to do some reading, lifting, guitar, just taking random walks and talking about random stuff

Title	I Dont Know How To Have Fun
Author	winu96
Upvotes	15
Comments	23
Date	February 23, 2017 1:50 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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