I don't understand what I did wrong

RPmatrix · 2015-10-11T13:38:06+00:00

not enough details bro, obviously it had to do with your 'game'

Coolbeans024ptf · 2015-10-11T14:17:32+00:00

You made her feel uncomfortable.

cdtCPTret · 2015-10-11T13:41:01+00:00

Girls experience reality in the moment based on emotions. When they're having fun with you they'll swear they'll come back after the bathroom. Once the vibe gets interrupted, coming back is no longer the truth because they no longer feel like it. You know how sometimes you don't feel like going on a date even though you set it up, but go through with it anyway? For girls it depends on how they feel immediately before the date. Thus, not building enough excitement in them about it = flake. There's a couple of stories on here about how a guy was fingerblasting or making out with his date, they go upstairs to the bedroom and she no longer feels it. Like it was a sure thing and once they get to the bed she says no. She had time to think. Girls go out to have fun, they don't have to try to get laid. In the bathroom they ha. The equivalent of "these chicks are boring and won't bang us, let's go back I hang with the bros and play beer pong. They can tag along if they like." In all honesty you probably did fail that shit test, but it also seemed like you didn't use your time well with her in the first place. The key is to use the interaction time to get her to emotionally invest a lot (while being uninvested yourself). Then when she comes out of the bathroom, she'll pretend to have ADD and go with the friends. You can't come up to the group and be a chump. And you definitely have to lead or she'll look like a slut if she comes to you just because you're there. Best is probably to walk up to the friends and engage them first, then take her off again. Or I'd think a better move is to just take her hand and pull her aside like it's normal. Don't take it personally though. This is normal girl behavior. They live in the moment.

VIICHYVALOIS · 2015-10-11T20:52:07+00:00

Did you establish your high value? Did you move them around with you? Building rapport, sexually escalate?

Doesn't sound like you built enough investment from those two. Plenty of material on the subject.

smokingmonkey420 · 2015-10-11T16:47:30+00:00

Bitches, man.

Title	I don't understand what I did wrong
Author	RedKurrant93
Upvotes	2
Comments	19
Date	October 11, 2015 1:16 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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