1) Oneitis, to new and several girls.. I get a new girl's number, then i get highly obsessed with her. Thinking shes the one and shit. This comes to a point where its severely hindering my life where the only way to shut down the feeling is spending time with another girl. Which feeds into the cycle anyway as I also gets fixated again.

2) I easily crumble.. she doesnt reply and i fucked up. Hard nexting and deleting her number, and somehow I still find ways to remember her number. I always find myself thinking "its better to just send her that one last text"

3) Better men exists in huge numbers. I get a girl interested, and then after a few weeks a more good looking dude just comes in her life. This has happened everytime except once.

4) my relationship never lasts more than 3months... Im not goodlooking.. so my way of getting girls is through one on one rapports. However they always gets bored after some time. And they are always embarassed to be seen with me

I realize there is no cookier cutter solution that helps, so this is more of a rant.

Is this things supposed to be better with more experience? Should I just continue fucking up, dealing with the heart issues and making a fool of myself?

Is the solution just to get good?