Approaching has never been my cup of tea, and i hate night game so much that I refuse to do it. I usually end up in the Cafeteria, drinking a nice cup of earl gray with a cookie, back straight and gazing all about "amusing myself". I get lots of IOIs from the 6-7s and from a few 8s. They are telling me to approach, but it just doesn't seem fun to approach a woman who doesn't give me any approach anxiety. I usually just play around with the girls's eyes while finishing my tea, and then I leave without approaching a single one. I want to have success with women, but Game is more fun to me when I run it on groups larger than 5 people. The validation I get from being the highest or second highest valued male in any interaction of a group of people is more than I receive after talking to a single girl, or a small group of them. It seems I never compete for the top spot, and display a lot of DHV, unless there is other male competition, like 3+ other males, but at the same time lacking a "party atmosphere", (allowing me to display stoic brilliance and explaining complex ideas to "adults" as if they were five.)

For the record I fap 1-2 times a week, which is down from the summer, after I went on r/nofap in order to improve my likely hood of approaching women.

Any help for an unmotivated redpiller who won't approach in the absense of Approach anxiety