I keep getting disappointed and it’s depressing

casemodz · 2018-09-01T12:29:49+00:00

I think you're still under the impression that women are innocent. This is societies fault. Girls learn at a young age to hide things and they are better at it because they are naturally more socially aware and engaged.

Porn is a good example. All "good girls" have is the idea that they have planted. Think inception. It's the idea. The idea that you assume they would never do that and are surprised when you find out they do.

You don't want to date a whore. No one does. That's understandable. I think you're looking for the wrong type of women for an ltr though. That's what it sounds like to me.

wobbleelbbow · 2018-09-01T12:55:40+00:00

Never expect anything and you will never be disappointed. Women always be women. AWALT was invented for a reason.

FieldLine · 2018-09-01T16:07:40+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1x0gln/the_five_stages_of_red_pill_and_how_to_read_rtrp/

a_crapybara · 2018-09-01T13:31:56+00:00

Some lessons are easier to learn than others. It took me getting emotionally and financially curb-stomped by an ex to finally "get it," which is probably the case for a lot of people here.

In my opinion, switching form being primarily emotional to logical is only made possible through consistent discipline. Talk with a friend or post here if you need to re-asses yourself.

Dabunghole · 2018-09-01T12:01:10+00:00

Go in with no expectations. If it works with a girl great, if not then you just saved your ass a lot of wasted time.

Escalate.

Elewrik · 2018-09-01T14:43:02+00:00

I've learned not to expect much from people and to always keep in my mind the fact that most people are really shitty and basic. I know how that seems and how it makes me seem to others but I've also learned to stop giving a shit about others and how they perceive me. Might help in your situation to cut yourself a break and not worry about it too much because life's too short.

Serious_Tour · 2018-09-01T15:03:31+00:00

doing some other gross things

Does this mean gangbangs?

Serious_Tour · 2018-09-01T15:04:58+00:00

Now I realize that the problem is me and giving these girls way too much credit. Probably because initially I believe what I want to believe about them, and then reality hits. Yet no matter how many times this happens, I always make that mistake. How do I fix this?

I disagree. I think your gut instinct is 100% correct. Don't LTR a girl who isn't up to your standards.

MattyAnon · 2018-09-01T19:05:55+00:00

But always, usually after just 3-4 dates, they will slip an incriminating evidence of AWALT which turns me off completely. It’s usually them admitting to riding the CC or doing some other gross things.

Right.... so quit looking for the LTR thing.

healthyteacher4 · 2018-09-02T05:17:20+00:00

You accept that their vagina corrupts them and save your heart juice for your own endeavors.

Title	I keep getting disappointed and it’s depressing
Author	__uwotm8__
Upvotes	7
Comments	19
Date	September 1, 2018 11:26 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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