I look like a Beta....

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2015-02-12T01:43:38+00:00

Step 1) quit whining and approach more women.

Step 2) identify any and all Self-Limiting Beliefs you have, and spin them into positive Enabling Beliefs.

Step 3) take steps to conquer your approach anxiety.

Red_truthiness · 2015-02-12T02:08:42+00:00

So what you think we were all born with good looks but were just too stupid to figure women out? A lot of us came here because we are in the exact same boat buddy. You are correct Looks > personality, wealth, status. But within looks Body>face. That is why LIFT is the first and last rule of TRP.

Johnny10toes · 2015-02-12T14:28:37+00:00

Not everyone has to look like a hard ass. You can fly under the radar where others cannot. Where they constantly battle people who are on guard in situations against them. You look unassuming but to treat you as such is a mistake on their part.

Read /u/illimitableman alpha success post. It'll head you in the right direction.

http://illimitablemen.com/2013/12/26/success-is-alpha-failure-is-beta/

Edit: Chins can be hidden with hair. Mine is pointy and a goatee or beard hides this.

aussiex3 · 2015-02-12T03:49:31+00:00

Stop whining. You just have to work harder on your personality, wealth and status than others.

If your genes are really as bad as you say you probably won't be able to make much of a difference but the following should help.

Cut to 8% BF, it will bring out your cheekbones.
Grow a beard, it will hide your jawline
Play with different hairstyles, find something that takes the focus away from your nose.
Wear glasses to hide your saggy eyes.

oldredder · 2015-02-12T05:50:40+00:00

It’s true, you sound like you have not much to work with. By all means you can conquer approach anxiety by just doing it a lot. It’s entirely possible to get near-zero emotional sensitivity to rejection even if rejection is a lot more for you, with your facial aesthetics, compared to other men who otherwise are equal to you in perception of character/”game” and body/fitness. However… I suggest being fit regardless since it’s better than nothing and has benefits to health no matter if women care about your appearance or not.

Also while women can be delusional about how “hot” they are… some really are aware and if there’s a girl with a smokin’ body but… not a great face (aka butterface), you probably will stand a good shot with such a woman if your body is fit.

Mazz0 · 2015-02-12T04:32:50+00:00

Work on the things you can change, embrace the things you cant. Lift, whiten your teeth, get a retainer to fix your jaw/chin (if you can afford it), new wardrobe etc.

Looks matter. But confidence triumphs everything. I've seen dudes who i think are ugly get lots of girls. They just have to work harder, or more. They have that confidence that will get girls attracted to them.

krustytheclown2 · 2015-02-12T03:26:18+00:00

PM me your face. I honestly think you look better than what you think.

Title	I look like a Beta....
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Date	February 12, 2015 1:36 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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