So I match with this girl over Bumble. Talk here and there for a couple days. I get her snap and message her a bit on there. I eventually schedule a date with her. Didn't talk too much, I would always message back after 30 min to a few hours. I teased her a lot and she would do the same.

We finally meet. I'm talking to her, asking her questions about herself. She doesn't really answer completely on some of them but I'll just jot down from memory.

Me: "What are some things you like to do in your free time?" Her: "I'm not sure. I like netflix, hanging out with friends and I'm not good at being on the spot. What do you like doing?" Me: I start listing some fun activities that I do. I mention going to Hockey games. Her: "I like watching that team play but I never been to any games" Me: I looked at her like wtf and told her "you must have a boring life". She looks like she couldn't believe I said that. Her: She said she went to baseball games Me: "I'm actually going to my first professional one next Friday" Her: "and you say I have a boring life?" Me: I laugh it off

Her: She asked me my favorite shows Me: I listed two of them but I was having a hard time. I said "I know something better" Me: I lightly grab her chin, directed towards me, I moved closer and kissed her and took my hand away. We kissed for about 15 seconds. Her: Sarcastically Smooooooth Me: I smile, "It was alright"

Her: She mentioned something out checking out while we were walking Me: Me not paying attention, "did you say you're checking me out?" Her: "Hmmmm maybe I am" Me: "like what you see?" Her: sarcastically I suppose Me: I smile and change the topic

I felt like I was too much of an asshole and was very arrogant. There is more but I'm not gonna list all of it. She said she's been on bumble for 2 years, hasn't found a boyfriend so I already know she's probably been on many dates and she was shit testing me a lot, couldn't really tell if they were insults. When I wrapped my arm around her during the time we were talking, she scooted herself really close to me so I figure they weren't insults.

I message her the following day with a statement. She replies and I talk to her for a little bit and then try to set up another date later in the week. She said she's going to two family parties the following 2 days and she said she'll let me know when she's available. She gave me the days that she works. During this time, she's taking a long time to respond, 30 minutes to a couple hours. I do the same. Some of the times, she would instantly respond back and I'd do it again.

After a couple days, I message her in the morning with a statement. She replies back within a few minutes. We were both working so I waited 5 hours, until I was on my lunch break and messaged her again. She read my reply instantly and didn't message back. Pretty much ghosted me