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ColdBeing/r/seduction23/09/22 04:37 AM
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Honestly, it's just better to get a cute dog. Go for dog walks around city/town/park, let the girls come to you (your dog mostly) and have conversation with them. But don't do that strictly for game. You're just out there genuinely walking your dog and getting a little exercise.
/r/seduction07/06/26 07:16 PM
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A useless website promoter lol
/r/seduction11/11/25 09:29 PM
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Just tell her you're not looking for anything serious right now but if she wants to continue hanging out as things are, then she can but if she wants to back out, you understand. If you like her, you can say that further down the line you are open to something serious. Girls like it when you're straightforward
/r/seduction30/11/24 03:48 PM
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Gotcha, I’ll try a different approach on the next one and see how that goes. Be less gamey and be more genuine of myself. I’ll reach out to her in a few days and ask her how her weekend was or how her week is going. If she leaves me on read, I’ll just move on
/r/seduction23/09/22 06:24 PM
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If you have a good convo, do you still invite them straight over and just keep it casual without any flirting? I feel like she was set on seeing me And do you think there’s any chance to recover from this or any other girl I’ve done that to in the past
/r/seduction23/09/22 06:11 PM
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I mean that’s what I was kinda trying to do with continuing the conversation with a flirt and tease about my one comment but I guess she might’ve took it the wrong way, idk. But I also was one of the first guys she matched with so maybe she found someone better in her eyes for her “free” day. But I guess I could scrap some of the romantic shit out of my vocabulary and not be too “gamey”
/r/seduction23/09/22 03:48 PM
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And you’ll just leave it be after like 4 days of no talking? And they don’t act disinterested, flake or get mad that you haven’t texted them?
/r/seduction23/09/22 03:18 PM
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I mean I slept with 30 girls since taking it. Some I wanted to keep consistent into a relationship but they drop me after the third date for another dude or vice versa What would you say after “even better, let’s have dinner and wine over my place” Her: “yeah that sounds like fun” I meant re-engaging a day before the date. She left me on read before the flaking happened
/r/seduction23/09/22 03:11 PM
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I feel he gives solid advice since he focuses on having a flirty vibe and focuses on the girl’s comfortability. But maybe it doesn’t work with the girls around me since I’m in the southern idk About after making the plans. And if she left you on read, how you would re-engage like I did
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:55 PM
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I’m sure you heard of playing with fire on YouTube but he always uses romantic and all sorts. I incorporate some things because I feel like it makes me stand out more than other dudes who I hear women complain all the time that they’re dry over text and get bored What would you have said in my situation?
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:50 PM
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So I’m supposed to be plain Jane until I fucked her? I thought she had implied about fucking when she said about working out and wine but it was just a tease. I’m a very teasing and sarcastic person A couple days after she left me on read. I sent her a text saying I picked up all the ingredients for our romantic evening tomorrow and she flaked saying she can’t since her kid was sick So I told her I hope her kid feels better and that we can try another time. I said if she was nervous too, that I …
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:40 PM
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Nah this would’ve been the first time I would’ve met her. She lives like less than 10 min away and I think that was a comfortability factor as well as working at the same DoD company although I left there a few years ago and never knew about her
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:34 PM
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It’s kinda hard in my situation since I am on my own now but it doesn’t mean I’m living too comfortably. My apartment is basically a mortgage on it’s own that I’m paying myself. I’m trying to save as much as I can since I’m gonna have to get a loan for my master’s next month I have friends who don’t really go out to bars since they don’t want to spend money or they’re married/have children so I would have to go out to a bar solo The only way I could probably meet girls in person is at a grocery …
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:30 PM
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I usually text them just like any other, half the day once I’m off from work and reply back 2-3 hours each time since I’m doing things I will admit, I try to be a little more careful about what I say to them than those I don’t care about but I still put the same vibe out there about us having a romantic evening, teasing but nothing too sexual too early to drive them away The idea came when I said about doing a wine date and she was working out at the time and said something about wine and workou…
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:26 PM
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Yes but how is that physicality and sexually supposed to happen if there’s flaking? I’m more of an activity person and that’s how I build more of a connection rather than talking all the time. Even after she flaked I told her that I hope her kid feels better and that we could try another day. If she was nervous too, that I totally understand and we could go to a winery instead if that works better and again I was left on read
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:16 PM
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I do have a balance. Maybe I try a little too hard in my replies because I overthink but I have girls that do stick around after I go out with them and such but I’m not really interested in anything further It’s mainly the girls I find very attractive and want to see them that are the ones flaking
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:12 PM
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How would you feel if a guy lived near you, put in effort to have a dinner and wine date and that y’all cook together? That in itself is considered romantic. My last text after setting the date was “I got an idea of what to make, but you’re cooking it with me” and she told me she was down. I teased her “hopefully I won’t be too much of a distraction (; for you” and she left me on read
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:10 PM
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Dude I’m not even being needy when I’m texting. I take half a day to even reply to a text because I’m at work and such. I always get ridiculed that “I don’t text enough” This last one gave me her info right off the bat. I didn’t even have to ask for it and still I get flaked on
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:04 PM
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Like bro I’ve had over 40 bodies. Like meaningless sex is so boring to me now, I just want someone to be more consistent with me and build something The only girls that stick around are just fuck buddies who call me daddy and I have no interest in getting more serious with them
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:02 PM
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I’m not forcing anything. It’s literally 2-3 text exchanges a day. Sometimes I will get a message late and don’t respond until the next day continuing where it was left off. The last conversation I had was about making dinner at my place. After setting the date, I asked her what her preference between Mexican and Italian and she said surprise me. I told her I got an idea but she’s helping me cook it and she said she’s totally down. Then I told her “hopefully I won’t be too much of a distraction …
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:59 PM
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They always give me their “free” day a few days out. I can’t change that If I had to guess. This last one was new to OLD, she directly gave me her info and we set the date and she probably found another dude a couple days later after setting the date with me
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:51 PM
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80% online
/r/seduction23/09/22 05:46 AM
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I'm not waiting long. They always give me a few days out as their "free day"
/r/seduction23/09/22 05:12 AM
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Majority of it is OLD but I've had similar experiences with in person. The last one I was texting for like 3 days straight like 2-3 messages a day to make her feel more comfortable. We live like 3 miles away and agreed to do dinner at my place but she flaked.
/r/seduction23/09/22 05:11 AM
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Oh yes, my ideas suck for dates like going mini golfing or having wine at a winery. Or cooking dinner at my place with wine. That must be the reason why I’m getting flaked, such bad ideas
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:42 AM
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Thanks bro 👊🏼I never really complimented her either. I said maybe two compliments. I figured I stood out since she’s very pretty and I’m sure she gets complimented daily. I think she also blocked me from seeing her snap stories a couple weeks back as well. She never posts anything on snap but she does on insta and she’s out there partying and I can’t tell Like idk if it’s something I’m doing wrong that they don’t see me as something long term. She even did one of those snap filters of her saying…
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:27 AM
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Like dude I appreciate you going back and forth with me on this. Like I get female nature but I figured it be different with a girl that has a kid and “wasn’t” on the dating apps I have a lot of things going for me than many dudes around my area. Like I’ve only been in one relationship my whole life. I keep getting girls like this who are dumb as bricks to even realize my value. Most of the girls that I was hooking up with either left because they know it wasn’t going to anything more or found a…
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:01 AM
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She straight up lied saying she tested positive but she out there partying smh Idk I asked when was her last relationship and she told me 2020 (on and off 2021) with her ex that shares the kid with her They could be linking up again or it could be a different dude. Idk why she would create a profile on hinge yesterday or today if that’s the case. This girl is a solid 9. Fit, takes pride in her appearance so I know she can get a lot of options. She was sending me goofy pictures of her putting on …
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:46 AM
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Nope, yeah you’re right. Fuck her I looked on the girl that’s (good friends with my sister) snap story and the girl that flaked is out there partying with her friend at this time. Should I call her out? Lmao that’s fucked
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:37 AM
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Usually whenever I ghost them, I never had a girl reach back out. I mean in this sense, she knows she flaked twice and didn’t even offer another reschedule or show proof of her positive results So you’ve had girls reach out later on that act like this? I just want to do whatever is the best possibility of her chasing after me
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:32 AM
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Wouldn’t it be common courtesy to do that though? Won’t she like label me as a dick for not being considerate if she “actually” is sick. And not even care to reach out in the future?
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:22 AM
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Do I say something like “ ok, hope you feel better. Hmu when you do” and just leave?
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:15 AM
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Yeah I know, she said she "kisses on the second date" lol sure. When she used the kid excuse again, I was just kinda done right then and there. If she framed it like "I'm going to get tested, blah blah blah" it would've been a better excuse So, tell her to get better and then not hit her up at all until she asks to see me?
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:35 AM
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And when that happens, do I set up a date or do I wait until she says she wants to see me, kind of deal? Cause I have an idea of just inviting her over to my place for some wine. I'm kind of done pursuing at this point
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:31 AM
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Sure seems like it. So tell her “ok hope you feel better” and never reach out to her again, right?
/r/seduction20/08/22 12:41 AM
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Yeah I have a feeling it’s just to keep me strung along and as a backup plan. In case she can’t meet anyone else
/r/seduction12/07/22 11:19 PM
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She reached out a couple days later "Hey I still dont know what im doing yet this week :/ my brother doesn't set anything in advance and does stuff last minute" I was gonna reply "Well I'm free tomorrow if you want to get dinner/do the beach, otherwise I'm probably going to have plans later this week if you're still unable to find out from your brother. We can probably try this sometime next week" Idk if that sounds ok and gives me more of my power back.
/r/seduction12/07/22 04:24 PM
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I'm just continuing the sexual tension. I mean I didn't tell her to put her hand down my pants. Once she pulled back, I pulled back as well and did no pressuring. And not necessarily, the beach is on the opposite end of where she lives, it's nowhere near close to her place. But that last bit might be true. She might think I'm too focused on the physical part
/r/seduction10/07/22 07:10 PM
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I mean that all sounds good in theory but if I changed plans from mini golfing to the beach/getting dinner and she’s still giving me a hard time by the particular day I chose (which she had no problems beforehand until I try to set it in stone) it just seems like nudging if she can get her way with me and seems like she’s less interested. She also still doesn’t know when she’s available even though she’s having someone stay over her place. So it just makes me feel like she I’m not the #1 guy in …
/r/seduction10/07/22 07:05 AM
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Thanks man. It’s always the girls that I actually like that I have a problem keeping. I’m probably doing too much too soon, I’m just gonna have to do the bare minimum
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:09 AM
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Yeah, you're definitely right. I'm most likely just bullshitting myself. I like her more than most girls I've been with and could see myself trending towards something serious by the way she carries herself as we keep talking and getting to know one another (I'm very picky with who I seriously date-fuckbuddies or fwb don't get the same treatment). She doesn't seem like a hoe but yeah, it's not fair to me that I'm not getting energy reciprocated. She mentioned she's on tinder to meet people, so I…
/r/seduction10/07/22 04:56 AM
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Thanks, I still haven't texted her and she just tripled text me inthe course of several hours saying "I can let you know when I find out from him" So that's an improvement
/r/seduction10/07/22 02:58 AM
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Thanks, I still haven't texted her and she just tripled text me inthe course of several hours saying "I can let you know when I find out from him" So that's an improvement
/r/seduction10/07/22 02:58 AM
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Thanks, I still haven't texted her and she tripled text me saying "I can let you know when I find out from him" So that's an improvement
/r/seduction10/07/22 02:58 AM
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Yeah, seems like she is structured and has rules. I know girls say one thing and they can look past others, I figured I could change the way she felt, which I did. She is probably giving me a hard time since the first time ended up getting a little sexual and she probably knows something sexual will happen the next time. Idk She texted me a few hours later "Not sure yet my brother will be in town and idk what days we are doing stuff yet" Does that deserve a text back? because I feel like you sho…
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:55 AM
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After a few hours of not responding, she just texted me "Not sure yet my brother will be in town and idk what days we are doing stuff yet" Does that deserve a text back? because I feel like you should know when and what day a person is coming into town.
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:51 AM
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I don't bring anything about a relationship up, I just go out there and have fun. Being flirty and teasing. When she asked about what I do for a living I told her I was a male stripper and she couldn't tell if I was being serious or not and I told her my actual job as a side hustle. I bring that kind of vibe I'm done with my bachelor's in 3 more days, planning on pursuing my master's after, got a good job with the DoD and climbing and have my own apartment space. I hangout with friends and do ot…
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:32 AM
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Talking to other dudes, yeah most likely but tf. I’m not small by any means lol
/r/seduction09/07/22 10:47 PM
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Well I was the one that suggested having dinner after the sunset but she told me it would be pretty late if we were to eat, which I agree. But she didn’t want me over her place for the 2nd date. I mean I can’t fight it because it’ll just make me look pushy. I’m mainly looking for a relationship but I do have girls where they want me and make it easy for me but I just don’t see them as relationship material with me. It’s been hard finding someone who wants the same thing as me and to continually …
/r/seduction09/07/22 10:39 PM
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Another thing, after the first kiss, she asked about my ex and in turn i asked about hers. She told me she wants to be desired and that her ex stopped doing that. Wouldn't iniaite or take her out anywhere and had no drive to better himself. I have my shit together and while I had my arm around her, I reached down and grabbed her ass and said "you're telling me he didn't desire this. You got hung up with the wrong guy" with a smirk. That was before the car. You think she's game playing?
/r/seduction09/07/22 10:15 PM
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It's just weird to me. So just straight up ghost her? You think she's playing games?
/r/seduction09/07/22 10:12 PM
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I had a buddy do this with a girl prior and he wasn't exclusive with her and two years later, he's dating her little sister. They always take family pics together so it doesn't seem awkward. Just how you frame it I suppose
/r/seduction07/02/22 12:03 PM
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Yeah she wouldn't let me go down on her either during sex after multiple attempts which was strange. I never had a girl say no unless she was really shy about it but I know wasn't shy. I ask her afterwards and she said she likes getting eaten out. I think she didn't want to get emotionally wrapped up with me and cut me off afterwards. Kinda sad because she brought up me meeting her friends and she ghosts me like I was nothing. smh
/r/seduction05/02/22 01:04 AM
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So this was about 4 months ago. I sent her a message a few days later asking her how her weeks been and she didn’t respond. After 2 months of no contact, I reached out one final time saying something like “hey can I ask you something”. I was gonna be direct and ask her what’s up and how things fizzled out I wasn’t expecting a reply but she never replied to my first message. So nothing was said. Nonetheless, I felt a huge weight off my shoulders that I did everything I possibly could and I know I…
/r/seduction04/02/22 03:45 AM
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I didn’t pressure her. On the 2nd date, she was the one constantly kissing me and pulling back. I wasn’t the one Initiating. I did try escalating because she was dry humping when she was on top kissing me so I knew she wanted more. When I escalated to 2nd base and did for a bit but she pulled her shirt back down and didn’t want to continue and I didn’t do anything after. I respected that On the third date, I escalated and when I got to 2nd base with her, she didn’t pull her shirt down this time …
/r/seduction16/11/21 10:55 PM
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Because you don’t get a girl off by just fucking dude lmao
/r/seduction16/11/21 10:24 PM
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First date was 6 hours. Got wine and topped the night off making out near the water She flaked on me the 2nd date and didn’t even reply back. I called her out on it a few days later and she apologized saying it was because of her anxiety. I squashed some concerns and we were supposed to go down this boardwalk to get ice cream. She later said she doesn’t feel like going out but invited me over her place to watch a movie. We cuddled through the movie and drinked wine for a few hours. She was iniat…
/r/seduction16/11/21 09:40 PM
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This girl that I was seeing for 1.5 month, her previous ex's of 6 years and 2 years cheated on her. After a month of talking everyday and going on 3 dates, we finally got intimate and she responded positively the next day. She tried A couple days later, she started taking longer to reply than usual. I asked her out and she didn't respond. I reached out after a couple days asking her how her days been and she responded positively and then I ask her to do something with me and she said she's might…
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:00 PM
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I don't see how I'm being needy on these dates or by texting. I keep my cool, talk smooth, be non-judging, and tease (maybe too much teasing) but I always wait for them to get back to me while texting. I never double text and I always ask them on a date within 4-8 messages. I really don't start getting needy or attached until they ghost me and that's what frustrates me. Especially ones I would be getting intimate with and/or seeing for awhile. It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong or I…
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:38 PM
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What would be wrong with calling it out though? I usually call our girls for being flakey and they usually have an excuse or respect me for calling out the behavior. I told her I wasn’t looking for a hookup but my actions indicated I did and I think that’s why she acted like that. When I went to unbutton my pants, she pulled away and after awhile she said she should probably go and had a uneasy look on her face. I think mostly her girlfriends at college are telling her to ghost me but she hasn’t…
/r/seduction15/11/21 12:42 AM
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So I posted a snap story yesterday night of having a bonfire with some people on my instagram. She watched it (same with the other girl that ghosted me after sex from a month ago) Anyways, I sent her a message today "I had a good time the other night, would love to see you again sometime" and I haven't heard from her in a couple hours. She posted a story on her Instagram a little bit ago, so I can guarantee she saw my message. Should I wait a couplie days and call her out? Like "I'm just gonna g…
/r/seduction14/11/21 11:22 PM
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Well after a couple hours on the same night I text her “thanks for coming out tonight. It was great to finally meet and get to know you for a bit” I told her to text me when she got back but she never did I liked her. She seemed very inexperienced being I’m 26 and she’s 21 so it looks like she hasn’t been on a lot of dates with dudes that can turn them on or goofy dudes. Every time she pulled back after kissing, she got more and more into it, so I don’t think she isn’t me. We went out on the dat…
/r/seduction13/11/21 04:14 PM
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I went out on a date yesterday and things were good for the most part. The girl was kind of awkward but she made the best of it. I liked her. Went out for wine and I was gonna take her to this wharf near the place but she didn't want to go because of how dark it is. Her parents were constantly texting and calling her throughout the date asking if she's alright (she showed me, it was true). We went out to he car because the place was closing up at night and we were talking. I made a move and kiss…
/r/seduction12/11/21 10:42 PM
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For 2. I can do that whole conversation thing but she was kinda putting me on the spot and I didn't know any questions off the top of my head to ask her to get to know her. I went out on a date today and things were good for the most part. The girl was kind of awkward but she made the best of it. I liked her. Went out for wine and I was gonna take her to this wharf near the place but she didn't want to go because of how dark it is. Her parents were constantly texting and calling her throughout t…
/r/seduction12/11/21 02:00 AM
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No she was tilting forward when we were at the table getting wine. I was leaning back in the chair at the table and she was leaning forward. I feel like I should have made an attempt to ask questions. Like I said, there was periods where there was a few seconds of silence and her starting the conversation back up. My mind was kinda blank because I didn't know what questions to ask. She even made a comment that I must have something o my mind which I didn't, it was completely blank But that is a …
/r/seduction11/11/21 03:12 AM
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I was calling her weird as banter. I can’t remember what happened. Either she said she was weird and I said yeah you are or she said something and I commented on it being weird as being playful When we were having conversation, I would lean back in my chair and she would go from leaning back to leaning forward. She was also told me to ask her some questions and I playfully told her “woahhh you can’t force that. Things gotten happen naturally with a smirk” because I wasn’t talking as much as she …
/r/seduction10/11/21 11:54 PM
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She said it before I even moved. I didn’t lean in or anything. I said what you got rules? And she said no I don’t I just don’t kiss on the first date and don’t kiss the person until I get to know them better and I didn’t say anything back. I act like it didn’t bother me, just seeing what she would say if I said that. I forgot what was said but that’s when she put her hand towards me I will say when she pulled away her hand. We just talked for awhile. I do know I did call her “weird” as a running…
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:38 AM
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Nah you got it wrong. I didn't make a move though. She complained about being cold in the car and I said "I know just how to warm you up" and I was thinking about going to go in for the kiss but before I could react, she said she doesn't do kisses on first dates. But she put out her hand towards me and I felt it and I said yeah you weren't kidding and then we both locked our hands together. She didn't pull away or anything And I'm a firm believer of letting your emotions dictate what happens nex…
/r/seduction09/11/21 01:57 AM
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Well she probably told herself that she was done with me once the date with him was set the next day I just don’t know if I should respond or not. I feel like a dick for no responding
/r/seduction08/11/21 10:40 PM
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I doubt that's the case, she said she was always in relationships and I think that's what she's looking for. She did mention that while her fiancé did break up with her 3 months ago, she is seeing a therapist. She is on facebook dating saying she is looking for marriage and kids and even brought it up to me that she wants to at least adopt 1 kid in her life. She said she wants someone older (which I'm 2 years older) and has their shit together (Which I do, I just don't have my own place right no…
/r/seduction08/11/21 08:42 PM
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Well how would you command that respect? The thing is she told me she was very nervous. I do know the times when we talked and it got quiet, I was looking at her and she would ask me "why are you looking" and I told her "I said what? I cant look? with a smirk" I do know when she brought up saying she doesn't kiss on first dates, I called her out saying "What? Do you have rules or something" and she said no, I just don't kiss unless I know the person Another thing is she was asking what I've been…
/r/seduction08/11/21 07:42 PM
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Would that text I would send eb the best possible way of getting her to come back? She messaged me first and started the conversation. On the date she said she’s looking for marriage and kids, I think she’s just found another dude that “worth” pursuing and that’s why she dropped me. She did get out of a engaged relationship with her fiancé three months ago because he lives on the other side of the world and she wasn’t leaving. So I think she’s just going to have fun or some shit since she’s sing…
/r/seduction08/11/21 04:46 PM
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So I went on a date with that nee girl. Thought we had a good time and shared quite a bit about ourselves. Went out to wine and it was 40 degrees out. Eventually I told her let’s just go to the car and put the heat on. Went to her car and I was going to make a move when she told me she doesn’t kiss on the first date and she only kisses when she gets to know somebody so I didn’t go for it. We did hold hands for a good part of the date. After vibing for awhile, it got late so she hugged me outside…
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:00 PM
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I have shit going for me. Got a good career in cybersecurity and a clearance. Getting my bachelors in 2 more semesters since going to school back in last fall, I can go government from being a contractor so that’s what I’m pursuing now. I’m getting my own place after I get my degree either a house if prices drop or renting and living on my own. I don’t have a student loan since I been paying college out of pocket so I won’t have any debts. I live with my parents right now so I know that can be a…
/r/seduction06/11/21 02:01 AM
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Welp she just now updated her profile on Hinge and added new pictures… maybe she wanted to see if I stuck around if I kept messaging her?? And those tweets were about me and she probably thought I played her? Like 3 days after the block the number, delete the thread tweet, she updates her pics Really makes my heart drop because during this whole time of talking, she never updated her pics even when she was posting new ones and it looked like she wasn’t talking to anybody else or using it from th…
/r/seduction03/11/21 09:48 PM
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I’ve been with plenty of girls but this one puzzled me. Never had a girl go ghost like this. I had one night stands that do that and fwb usually still keep in contact with me Never had a girl invest some time and then do it right after. It doesn’t add up I want to do whatever is best to get her back
/r/seduction01/11/21 05:04 PM
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I just want whatever is the best way for me to get this girl back. If that means, not to contact her ever and wait for her to contact me, then I’ll do it. I just don’t know what to do. Like should I reach out in another month or two? Should I reach out once I’ve taken the time to sit back and reflect on myself? I’m just lost When I called her out for being flakey, I saw a change in the way she responded to me. It got her attention and she didn’t play any “games”. Things were going easy. I doubt …
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:37 PM
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I was relaxed and letting things form naturally. On the first date, it felt like an instant connection. A lot of back and forth. I never brought up about anything relationship or what we are or the future. I always waited 2-3 days after the date before trying to schedule the next date. I don’t see how I was acting as her “boyfriend”. I thought she was a very good candidate long term after the 3rd date. She did blow me off after the first date, I thought it was weird so I called her out for being…
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:25 PM
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I mean it’s almost a year so I think that’s actually longer than average when a girl gets back into a relationship. We’re both 26 If she was just capping, why wouldn’t she just continue things or continue doing that with me? Why waste an entire 1.5 months talking just to pull that? I was trying to take a step back but instead of her gaining more interest, she was taking a further step back which was unusual to me. I really liked her and saw potential in something serious. She said she’s always b…
/r/seduction01/11/21 10:54 AM
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What if you were talking to this girl for over a month. She said she isn't looking for hookups. I'm not either. She invited you over her place on the 2nd date, heavy petting. There seems to be a huge connection. The third date you go back over her place with wine and an activity and after opening her up about her past, (6 year ex cheated on her multiple times and got a girl pregnant and recent ex cheated on her back in February) you get intimate and finally do the deed. After the next day, she s…
/r/seduction01/11/21 02:50 AM
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I’m just thinking what if I’m not making the right decision by ignoring her existence. What if it is about me, how am I supposed to have her come around if she blocked and deleted all of our messages? Do you think it’s one of her plates? That’ll give me an advantage then since there’s less competition She still has me added on all social media so maybe it’s one of her plates
/r/seduction31/10/21 01:54 PM
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She tweeted out “block the number, delete the thread and move on sis” about an hour ago I hope that ain’t about me… She hasn’t deleted me off any social media yet so hopefully it’s about another dude..
/r/seduction31/10/21 03:22 AM
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Yeah, I might be reading too much into it. So look at her stories when I'm mentally ready? ​ And yeah I agree, I appreciate all the back and forth
/r/seduction30/10/21 09:34 PM
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I was thinking that her not wanting to catch feelings because of her past could've been the reason. Like a day or two after she didn't reply, she tweeted "lemme get out of my feelings and move on lol". Could've been about me or someone else but I'm weighing positive it was about me. I know she's comfortable with me, even though she canceled the 2nd date plans, she still invited me straight over her place the same day without me asking. I do think it's weird she brought up about meeting her frien…
/r/seduction30/10/21 06:53 PM
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--No, there is no way to know that. But you are obviously not the main guy. It sounds like this to me. You are the guy she is scared to have feelings for. If she has feelings for you she has a problem to reconcile with her promiscuity. Why do you think that is? Possibly, it's hard to say if she has multiple partners since she said she was always in a relationship, she had a 6 year relationship and 1-2 year relationship right after. But she might be taking this free time to "explore". She seemed …
/r/seduction29/10/21 11:21 PM
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I really appreciate you going back and forth with me on this. It's actually keeping me sane I heard a small amount of girls do that subconsciously or not where they use one guy for validation, they use another guy for sex and another for money, etc. I get what you're saying about the frame. I think once I called her out for being flakey, she started operating in my frame. During our 2nd date, she brought it up and apologized again. I told her I thought it was weird because of how well the first …
/r/seduction29/10/21 04:30 AM
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I asked her what her relationships were like an hour before the sex happened and she told me her last two ex's cheated on her. The first one was with her for 6 years, cheating in her car, her apartment, etc. The latest ex and her broke up back in February, she told me he got a girl pregnant (or it could've been the other way around) but I told her no one deserves that. She said she tried working it out with one of the two before and it didn't work out. I asked her what she is looking for and she…
/r/seduction27/10/21 11:21 AM
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Two day after sex, she ghosted me she tweeted out "lemme just get out of my feelings lol", Idk if that's about me, I don't see how it could be since I was still giving her attention. She even posted "stop carrying old feelings into new experiences" So you're saying, she's not sleeping with anyone else because now that she "has me", she knows she can call me up whenever when she's feeling horny? If I read that correctly. I mean I can keep being around her and bang. My lovey dovey feeling went awa…
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:43 AM
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Yeah I was thinking since she was sending paragraphs a few days before, she was going to surely reply. That’s why I reached out, kinda wish I didn’t but at least I know the answer now I like your approach on this. Yeah I was trying to make love to her at first because I was feeling it and please her but when she got on top of me, she was jack hammering me and I did some aggressive shit like choking her and all that. She was telling me harder while doing doggy so I guess she wasn’t into making lo…
/r/seduction21/10/21 04:46 AM
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I decided to text her based on the last interaction. But it was innocent. I said “how’ve you been. Any good news on the interview” since she told me she had a 2nd interview Monday Suffice to say, it’s been a few hours and I have yet to hear from her. It’s safe to say that she has completely gone ghost on me but it’s whatever, I know my answer now. I don’t even think it was me. I think she either had attachment issues and didn’t want to get close because of her past or there’s another guy in the …
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:15 AM
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Nothing about any relationship was discussed. I started asking her about her past relationships and dug deep. She said her lasts two ex’s cheated on her. I asked her what she’s looking for and she said someone that’s not going to cheat My last message was getting dinner and she never messaged back. A couple days after I reached out and talked to her, she was still very responsive. She was still sending a paragraph each message back, replying within 1-15 minutes and even started snapping me that …
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:41 PM
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What goes through your mind when you’ve been talking to a dude for a month, feels like a good connection and have sex a month in on the 3rd date, and the girl responds positively the next day and she becomes less and less responsive a couple days later eventually not responding anymore? I reached out after a couple days of not hearing anything and got her to agree to going out somewhere with me but she said she will let me know at 7am if she gets called in for her shift and never lets me know bu…
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:24 PM
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I mean she still texts me a paragraph each time and acts engaged so it’s not like she’s completely written me off. In my experience girls that aren’t interested just leave on you read or reply with one word or dry answers Girls with interest text a paragraph and such. I just feel like she might be playing games or she has attachment issues since she has been cheated on in her last two relationships
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:18 PM
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I have but not quality. Hard to find nowadays
/r/seduction20/10/21 03:16 AM
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So it's been a few days and she hasn't reached out. I haven't looked at her snap stories or anything. Should I reach out to try to schedule a date? How long would it take her to realize I'm not falling for her shit test if that seems to be the case?
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:43 AM
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So it's been a few days and she hasn't reached out. I haven't looked at her snap stories or anything. Should I reach out to try to schedule a date?
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:42 AM
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So it's been a few days and she hasn't reached out. I haven't looked at her snap stories or anything. Should I reach out to try to schedule a date? or should I just let her be
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:41 AM
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So it's been a few days and she hasn't reached out. I haven't looked at her snap stories or anything. Should I reach out to try to schedule a date?
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:40 AM
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So I haven't heard from her and it's been a few days. I haven't been looking at her snap stories or anything like that. Should I reach out to her and try to set up a date?
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:39 AM
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Well it's been a few days and she still hasn't reached out. I haven't been looking at her snap stories or reached out
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:36 AM
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It’s not the craving attention part. It’s the behavioral change part. I don’t care if she takes a day or two to get back to me but to just plan out ignore me without any indication is rude, especially when plans were discussed I don’t respond right away, I take a couple hours or more to respond back each time cause I’m busy working full time and doing full time college. My time is sacred and blowing me off is disrespectful since I could make other plans somewhere else
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:59 PM
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So just hit her up in a couple days like nothing happened? I’m in my late 20s and so is she. I want a subliminally want a relationship with her until she brings it up
/r/seduction18/10/21 04:18 PM
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She's 26. I'm just tired of putting myself out there and getting burned. Like usually I'll just do netflix and chill with girls and not put in much effort. But there are some that I give that liberty where I start planning fun, good dates and spend money doing those activities. I told her I'm a catch. because I do know I have a good job and good future right now If I do remember, she told me during the 1st date that she had a good feeling about me and out of all the dudes, she gave me her number…
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:12 AM
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Well I did call her out by saying I didn't think you were the flakey type. After I addressed her concerns, I got the 2nd date with her. During the date, she apologized to me and said I seemed mad about it. I told her I wasn't. I said "I thought it was weird how this all happened I told her I don't tolerate that behavior but since it was weird, I figured something was up so I called her out. But I told her we're past that now, no need to bring it up anymore. I'm here, aren't I." But yeah I'll sto…
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:02 AM
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Well the ice cream was an hour away from her. I told her to come by my place since it's on the way and I can take us down there. A few hours before the date she then invited me over her place, I mean what am I gonna say? No? But I tried getting her over my place a couple times and that never worked out. Not sure why. The 3rd date, I lead by saying let's do this at your place and I'll bring a bottle of wine. No problems there But I had anxiety bad a few years ago but I got it under control now an…
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:56 AM
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I'm just a little conflicted because I don't understand why she would say she doesn't have plans. Like I feel that's an invitation for me to ask her out. I did think things had a lot of potential but it seems like she either has issues or someone else is in the picture. I doubt it's the 2nd one but yeah I'll just focus on something else
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:44 AM
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Yeah, even if I did have a bad experience the first time, I know they usually invite me out again because they need to be sure. That's what I'm used to so I was a bit surprised if she didn't think it was good that night, why she wouldn't give it a 2nd chance if that were the class. You could be right. She might be posting that selfie for the other dude to see idk.
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:40 AM
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Do you think I'll still be on her mind after all that? Yeah she told me after her last relationship, she broke up with him in February. She's been taking this time to reflect on herself and work on herself so she doesn't have to rely on others. Which is a good thing but you gotta have some sort of trust because I feel like she got lucky to match with me and not some other dude that'll play her
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:39 AM
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I'm not sure. I mean I know she likes aggressive because of the way she was dry humping me while we were kissing. Like I flipped her over and gave it to her, choked her and while I was fingering her clit she grabbed my hand, pulled me in and started kissing me and wouldn't let go of my arm. After I had her ride me and she was going 100 MPH, the bed was slamming and lastly, I flipped her over and doggystyled her. She was telling me harder and so I did. I was spanking and grabbing her hair until t…
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:35 AM
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Well she should've told me at 7am that she couldn't do it and made other plans or some shit. I think it is a little wrong
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:28 AM
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Keep attempting what? Like reaching out asking to hangout or just reaching out to catch up, talk and pull away?
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:27 AM
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The thing is, the relationship part was never brought up. I just asked her what she's looking for on our 3rd date and she said I want someone that isn't going to cheat on me, like is that so much to ask for. and I told her, yeah no one deserves that at all. I was just containing at her pace and wanted to do fun activities until she was ready or something
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:26 AM
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Are you sure she's going to message or chase me? Because before our first date, 3 days passed before I reached out calling her out. And this recent one, I reached out after 2 days to see what's up. I do know yesterday, she had a netflix night where she binged watch shows and drinked wine and was texting and snapping me. Of course, they ended the next day when we were supposed to hangout if she didn't get a call so that might make sense about the company part. You really think it was a treat? Lik…
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:24 AM
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Yeah I get that. She probably thought it happened too fast and think it wasn’t going to go any further than that probably idk This particular girl said she wasn’t into hookups and she wants someone that isn’t going to cheat
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:39 PM
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That is what I was thinking but how do I go about doing that? I've always been trying to do activities with her instead of netflix and chilling. The first date I took her to this winery, gave her the wine bottle, took her to the beach and had a good time. I knew somethign was there. 2nd date I proposed the corn maze but she blew me off. I confronted her about flaking and she told me about her anxiety. I told her I understand and I have it too so I know what she means. I was supposed to go to thi…
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:18 PM
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Bro I tried going down on her. It’s my speciality. The weird part is she kept lifting my head up. I would try making my way down again and she grabs my head and lifts it up to her kissing me. I did this a few times and I ended up giving up. Even when I was fingering her, she took my hand away. That's when she pulled my head and pulled me in and I went inside Even when I was hitting it, I had her legs on top of my shoulders, I was fingering her clit and after a bit she grabbed both my hands, pull…
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:04 PM
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Damn that's rough. Were you talking to her for awhile before y'all had sex?
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:48 PM
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That is a possibility but I don't think she would be that stupid to do all that especially with the career she has
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:42 PM
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Reach back out but not bring up anything about a date. Idk man, doing no contact never works, eventually they just forget about you.
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:41 PM
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She still responds positively it just trying to get her out on dates. It's like when I ask about the date, she agrees and then doesn't follow through. I don't get why she would agree to it when she could say that she can't or has other plans. I feel like it's a game
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:40 PM
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I know people can be busy but this was her previous consistent behavior and her behavior has changed since this all happened so that is what makes it very puzzling. Yeah I'm going to stop asking her out. I probably shouldn't have asked if she had plans the next day and shouldn't have bit on that. I probably should've kept talking and telling her the fun stuff I was doing this weekend and see what she does. She still hasn't reached out to me or replied. She told me she was doing errands this whol…
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:37 PM
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I'm not like triple texting or anything. I give it a couple days before I send another message
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:34 PM
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I don't think she's looking for fun because she told me that day she is looking for someone who isn't going to cheat on her. She also wasn't on birth control when we had sex. That tells me she hasn't been having sex before me. That might be true on the available part. I probably shouldn't have bit on that no plans part and gave it a couple more days. Should I reach back out after a few days if I still don't hear from her?
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:33 PM
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I feel like if she didn't enjoy the sex, she wouldn't have replied to me the next day. She even sent me a message about it. I'm not sure, I have never been in this situation before. Usually girls go ghost after a one night stand but this wasn't a one night stand, we were talking consistently and usually girls give it another go if they weren't sure the first time. I'm confused on this because it's a behavior I haven't seen before.
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:31 PM
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She made me wait to have sex though. We could have had sex two weeks or longer ago but she didn't act on it. We would get close to taking our clothes off and she would pull away. She even commented on being able to tell that I'm aggressive in bed during our 2nd date I feel like girls that make you wait for sex is more of a relationship type of girl, they take sex serious and become more bonded after it
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:11 PM
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Do you think she will come back? It doesn't seem to me she's blowing me completely out of the water. I mean this is the 2nd time I said hey lets go to this corn maze and she agreed and blows me off. Idk what it is. I've had it many times where the girl would either remove me or block me if she didn't feel a connection and even tell me that it isn't going to work out. But she seems to be still positive about things, just not acting on it
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:05 PM
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If she was afraid of that, then why would take my hand and lead me to the bedroom to do that? Just doesn’t make sense to me She did tell me her previous ex’s cheated on her. She said the first ex she was in a relationship after 6 years and he would cheat in her car, her place, etc. she said the 2nd ex cheated on her and got the girl pregnant. She said she broke up with that ex back in February She does post snap stories sometimes that relates fo the cheating like the other day she posted “I’ve t…
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:03 PM
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I liked her affection. When we would lie down she would grab my hand and put it against her face or she would wrap my arms around her. She also would take her hands and put it inside my shirt sleeve. The kissing part was a little weird during the 2nd date. I can see the manipulation part. I also have to mention, during sex she wouldn’t let me go down on her. She kept bringing my head back up, idk if it’s because she’s self conscious (it was pitch black too) or letting me have the power to do wha…
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:01 PM
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She did tell me her previous ex’s cheated on her. She said the first ex she was in a relationship after 6 years and he would cheat in her car, her place, etc. she said the 2nd ex cheated on her and got the girl pregnant. She said she broke up with that ex back in February She does post snap stories sometimes that relates fo the cheating like the other day she posted “I’ve trusted lies and trusted men” and that was around the time we had sex, but I doubt it was about me I don’t think she is seein…
/r/seduction17/10/21 08:58 PM
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What makes the connection end after sex? What is the mindset change? Because it seems to me, she is still interested. She’s not giving me one word or one liners and is still texting me a paragraph, she just isn’t reaching out like she used to. Usually I had girls just completely ghost me or remove me if they weren’t feeling a connection
/r/seduction17/10/21 08:55 PM
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How am I being needy?
/r/seduction17/10/21 08:52 PM
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Do you think she was doing power moves on me? Like I never had a girl be that affectionate towards me. She would always grab my arms and put it on her face or around her. Even on the 3rd date, she cooked me dinner and we had wine at her place. It's so confusing how she was so into it and not immediately backs off. It's not like she's completely ghosting me or blocking me, it's so weird
/r/seduction17/10/21 08:31 PM
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Yeah now she just posted a snap story of her in her car tasking a selfie. So she isn't at work
/r/seduction17/10/21 06:50 PM
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I was the last one to reply back last night. Alright, well there's still time. What should I say?
/r/seduction17/10/21 06:36 PM
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So I texted her How her weekend was. She replied within 10 minutes saying it's been good, etc. I go back and forth with her with a few exchanges. Telling her what I did, etc. She said she prays she doesn't get called in tomorrow (today) and I asked her if she had any plans tomorrow if she doesn't get called in. She said No she doesnt. I told her do you want to get lost in this corn maze with me and she said if I don't get called in then sure. I told her it closes at 5pm and to let me know if she…
/r/seduction17/10/21 06:26 PM
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What would I even text her? Things used to be fun with a lot of banter but now it feels like things have been serious since
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:07 PM
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Yeah I appreciate all this because you don’t have to I mean leading up to the point she was messaging constantly, rarely took an hour or two to respond back. I also messaged at random times There was one time where I was trying to schedule a 2nd date and she stood me up. Didn’t hear from her. After a couple days, I called her out by saying “I genuinely didn’t take you for the flakey type” and she said she didn’t mean to and that she had a bad panic attack. Once I came over for the 2nd date, she …
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:29 PM
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I just want to say thanks for hearing me out and helping me with this. I feel like something else might be going on because she posts snap stories with song lyrics like that sometimes. She told me that Fay she last stop talking to her ex back in February and haven’t seen anyone since. She said her last two ex’s has cheated on her and she wants someone who isn’t going to We have a decent streak going on snap and she’s about to let it die. She usually snaps at the last hour or so to keep the strea…
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:17 PM
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Really you did? Because she was telling me after the sexual stuff how she saved a kid the day before and I was telling her how she’s a good person and all that stuff and talked a bit about that. That’s when I asked her what she’s doing this weekend. She doesn’t really do too much outside of work. I meant it as going out with me would be much better than just sleeping on the weekend. I wasn’t framing it sexually at all. We never been out to eat before. We’ve gotten wine but that’s it, so it would…
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:49 PM
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What are you talking about? I literally didn't say anything sexual. I said "Do you want to get mexican with me friday or saturday?" I meant let's grab some Mexican as in let's get mexican food? How is that sexual at all?
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:23 PM
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Yes, I sent her the question last night. I asked her what she was doing this weekend and she responded back saying "I just got home. Idk, sleeping probably lol" and that's when I asked her about going out to eat last night.
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:02 PM
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Yeah I said "Sleep is good but I know someting better lol do oyu want to get mexican with me tomorrow or saturday?" and I still haven't heard from her. She usually gets back to me first thing in the morning or a few hours after She posted on her snap story this morning saying of lyrics like "broke down and put myself back together again - stared in the mirror and punched it to shatters" and posts lyrics similar here and there
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:47 PM
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Yeah I got you. I’m not really experienced with relationships, I only had 1 and I’m 26. I have a lot of experience with hookups so I’m just used to talking dirty after but she seems more of a relationship type of girl so I see you point on that. Thought it wouldn’t make a difference. I thought it would build some more tension but I can see why it could scare her off so soon. That was the first time we did it but we did it twice that night. She actually just responded to me a few minutes ago sayi…
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:44 AM
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Well she was asking if I pulled out and I told her yeah. After talking a bit I teased her about coming back out with a towel. After that I told her I know she liked it when I had her legs up and she said “fuckinggg helll lol” so I said yeah I don’t want you to get too worked up at work lol As a tease and then she said nah lol and that’s when I asked her that question what I did that she liked I thought since we were on that topic to continue it to see what happens but I didn’t think it could pul…
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:23 AM
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Oh no I’m not going to ask her. I’m just going at her pace, if she brings it up then I’m all for it, I’m just focused on having fun and all that. Not going to bring up anything exclusive I brought over wine to her place and she cooked me dinner and we painted, doing an activity and watched a movie and that’s when we had sex. I just don’t understand why she seemed a little interested after sex by saying she had a good time with a blush emoji and then pulls back. I thought she would be all over me…
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:00 AM
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How would you make her chase? Do you call it chasing when she’s the one messaging you? Or she’s chasing as in asking to see you again? I’m with this girl that I would like to be in a relationship with but I’m going at her pace. Been talking to her for a month and we just had sex last Tuesday on our 3rd date. Told her I had a good time and she said she did too that night and then she text me for a bit the next day and then has been texting me less and less. Idk what to make of this or what to do …
/r/seduction15/10/21 12:47 AM
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Yeah, so I was talking to her for a few days. She went out this weekend to baltimore to have a "girl's weekend". I asked her what her schedule was like sunday and she said she's working but gets off at 4. I said alright lets go bowling and she told me she doesn't like that idea. I told her about this mini golf place and her reply was "lets just go for a walk". I suggested this really nice date where she comes down to my place which is 30 min away and I can take her to this "island" that has a bo…
/r/seduction03/10/21 05:06 AM
1

After 3 days of not hearing from her. I called her out by saying "I genuinely didn't take you for the flaky type". This line has worked to always get a reply since I've used it. She typed me back a whole paragraph about the day not being a good day for her because of family problems and her having a bad anxiety attack. She said she didn't know how to tell me and thought it was weird to say she was having an anxiety attack so she didn't know what to say. She said she spent the whole day with her …
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:13 AM
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I wasn't double texting her. I was always responding back hours at a time. I'm generally busy with work, schoolwork, and my hobbies. She poked fun at it saying she almost canceled the first date because I would take a few hours to respond and I laughed at told her I'm just a busy dude.
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:56 PM
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I mean she was double texting and all that. Showing a lot of interest through text and wasn’t boring. I never had a girl do a no show. Usually girls would just send me a message saying they can’t make it, etc. I never had a girl not even give the courtesy of saying that. She did the first time but it’s just weird just flat out ignored Usually girls don’t say “could we reschedule another day” if they’re not interested. That is what is puzzling me
/r/seduction27/09/21 01:04 PM
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I’ve tried Corey Wayne’s approach and it doesn’t do much for me. Telling her to figure out her schedule and get back to me, they never do. I’m 26. I usually tease a lot and give off a fun vibe. Usually girls I seen for awhile never bring up the topic of relationships or anything. They just see me until suddenly they start withdrawing attention and it builds up. The last one I saw for a couple months and even though we were seeing eachother 2 days a week, she was buying me dinner, drinks, etc. sh…
/r/seduction27/09/21 12:57 PM
1

I don't see what I could've done to make her lose interest. She complained that I don't reach out to her that much and joked about not coming the 1st date. I told her I'm just a busy person and when I don't respond, that's when she should worry laughing it off. She'll come back saying she's sorry or reach out to me like nothing happened?
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:21 AM
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That’s why I asked What would be your strategy be with this one? Usually I had flakes that would delete me off social media or unmatch me but she hasn’t done either of those yet Never reach out to her until she does? Give it a few days? and kinda call her out “I genuinely didn’t think you were the flakey type” I had good results with that one I’ve only had one “serious” relationship and it only lasted a few months. All I’ve done is spin plates and have over 30+ bodies. Just tired of it really. I…
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:52 AM
2

She told me she wasn't looking for hookups. That tells me she is looking for a relationship eventually. If she felt that way about what I said, she would've stopped talking to me the next day after the date I understand that but how can I follow advice if I don't know what you have in your life? I used to do this stuff when I was hooking up. It was good for hookups but girls never stuck around. I never would get the "what are we?" talk either. Do you have a girlfriend? Have you had multiple girl…
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:22 AM
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No we both have it where it's on delivered. I also thought about her phone breaking but she hearted my message 3 hours before the date so I highly think it's unlikely but still possible. It's just I'm tired of putting myself out there. I'm at the point of just giving up entirely. First girl in a long time where I actually want to put effort in and this happens
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:08 AM
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I used to always say let’s have fun together. Here I am 50 different girls on however many dates. It works for hookups. I don’t see how I scared her off by going too fast when I haven’t brought up anything about being bf/gf and tease her and banter relentlessly and am rarely giving compliments or being affectionate? I didn’t set up a 2nd date on the spot. I waited a couple days after If she’s over my house, it’s an easy way to escalate to sex if we’re watching a movie. I’ve done it plenty of tim…
/r/seduction27/09/21 09:11 AM
2

We both have iPhone. It’s not the service.
/r/seduction27/09/21 01:57 AM
1

Yeah there is no excuses for that. I felt like yesterday might've been because she was scared I might introduce her to my parents or something which was never my intention so she made up that excuse but I could be wrong. I was going to keep it in the back of my mind if she were to pull something like that again. Very much sucks
/r/seduction27/09/21 01:41 AM
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Yeah I did see her posting stories about "If they make time for you they will" or some other bullshit. It was worded differently but kind of meant the same way. She did tell me her friend told her to download hinge because she had good results and the girl said out of all the guys, I got her number because she had a good feeling about me. Might say that to all the guys or she might've been genuine, idk it seemed true. Could've downloaded hinge to get her mind off that one dude and the one dude f…
/r/seduction27/09/21 01:38 AM
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Yeah I was thinking about reaching out in a few days. "I genuinely didn't take you for the flakey type" had somewhat good results with it She was right on-time for the 1st date
/r/seduction27/09/21 01:35 AM
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Yeah I'm not going to. All I sent was that one message if we're still on for today. She would text me everyday and was typing paragrpahs, double texting, etc. Even said she'd invite me over her place yesterday but I couldn't handle it there (We have this thing where we joke that she lives in the ghetto and I'm country) Like why would she say all this, even offer to reschedule if she wasn't interested? I usually pack it up with other girls but this one baffled me
/r/seduction27/09/21 01:32 AM
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I don't think it's weird to sit next to people. I don't know if it's because I live in a more rural area but I just don't see people out on dates doing that in public. Like for instance, you're at one of the tables with a booth and no one is sitting on the opposite side, just looks weird to me.
/r/seduction24/08/21 12:44 PM
1

What if you went out to eat at a restaurant? I always found it to be weird to sit right next to someone opposed from sitting across from each other.
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:29 AM
10

I know right. If she's submissive and insecure, she'd be down right loyal. Those are really hard to find nowadays Pussy is just pussy and there's a lot of nasty bitches out there
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:38 PM
1

She ain’t chubby but yeah she’s a keeper
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:48 PM
1

Damn that would’ve been good, I’m gonna use that when I tell my bro’s lmao
/r/askTRP27/02/21 07:04 PM
3

Come on man give me some slack. Still dramatized after last night lol
/r/askTRP27/02/21 05:43 PM
2

Believe me. She’s on that list after last night
/r/askTRP27/02/21 05:41 PM
0

I’m not saying you do it consistently. Just these as openers on the app. I’ve been getting numbers consistently
/r/askTRP27/02/21 03:18 PM
54

Yeah, now we have two definitions of a “shit test”
/r/askTRP27/02/21 03:13 PM
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I think you’re spot on. That must explain why she got all affectionate after I didn’t give her the validation of the videos. She told me her and her mom got into a argument and that’s why she moved out. I said “why did you poop in her kitchen or something?” And she got quiet lol
/r/askTRP27/02/21 03:11 PM
1

Hot lunch? Is that slang for something else?
/r/askTRP27/02/21 03:05 PM
5

Nope, she’s a full blown white girl
/r/askTRP27/02/21 03:04 PM
16

I need to check my driveway to see if she marked her territory anywhere
/r/askTRP27/02/21 03:04 PM
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I had a hot lunch before but not the glory of watching a video of a turd come out of someone on a porch until now lol Edit: thought you were talking about actually lunch. Didn’t know there was slang until I looked it up
/r/askTRP27/02/21 06:43 AM
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You could also check out Playing With Fire on youtube. His channel is nothing but dating apps. He definitely is the one that improved my text game for sure https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzN7S0O87X-Q1CJqyWnJ9mw
/r/askTRP27/02/21 06:38 AM
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I just thought it'd be a funny story to share. Like there's a lot of disgusting things girls be doing that we don't know about, like that for example. I just don't see how she wouldn't think that action wouldn't disqualify her or something
/r/askTRP27/02/21 06:35 AM
1

Sometimes you gotta call them on their shit. Like if she flaked, you got to tell her to make it up to you. Depending on what she says, You got to say you like making definite plans and that if she has doubts about coming or gonna be flakey, you can try another week when she knows she's definitely free You gotta establish boundaries. If she keeps doing it, you hard next until she reaches out to you.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 06:24 AM
0

What works for me is saying a compliment like "Hey I like your style" or "Hey I like your majestic poses" and usually they say thanks, compliment me back or build on it. Afterwards I say, "I admit blondes with cute nerd glasses are my weakness" as an example and build off of that. If there a fan of a sports team, I'll throw that in there instead (a local team I like). Don't comment about something on her bio because that's what a lot of other guys do. You can't be boring. Just have fun with your…
/r/askTRP27/02/21 06:14 AM
1

Yes, I was the "quiet" kid in class. I had bad social anxiety and didn't even know it until after high school. From what popular kids say, I was cool and looked normal, I just was weird for being so quiet. Never got physically bullied but I always got picked on for comments that I'm too loud and need to shut up, kind of things. Even though I've changed tremendously, less social awkward, way more talkative and minimal anxiety, those kids in my school still see me as the same person. I can't talk …
/r/askTRP21/02/21 05:49 AM
2

They didn’t ask but they were struggling finding a decent job. One friend was a dishwasher and the other was a bagger. I figured I’d help them out of generosity. Still, when you know someone for 16 years, you should have the obligation to repay the favor and not be distant. I didn’t have to do what I did for them. As far as the one kissing ass, he works in the school system. He is as far as he can go. He won’t be able to work where I’m at because he would need to get a clearance and that’s hard …
/r/askTRP29/01/21 02:06 AM
8

I’m 25 and I can confirm this. My face hasn’t really changed much but I’ve been having a lot of success with women girls 3-5 years younger and 5+ years older than me, I’ve had a couple 31 year old plates recently. Girls 20 and under I’m having a harder time with but nonetheless, when I was in the beginning of my 20s, didn’t have as much action as when you hit the middle. Older girls wouldn’t give me the time of day when I was 24 and younger
/r/askTRP22/01/21 03:26 AM
3

Sure they were, more qualified in kissing ass. I have more certifications than them and close to getting my degree when they haven’t even started college. I work for the DoD too so yeah? Guess they must’ve been
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:18 PM
1

Uhh I’ve known them since I was 6 and that was probably 15 years when I got them those started up jobs. When you do favors for eachother, that’s no biggie. Once friends have a upper advantage in a career field you’re in, that’s when they treat you different. Instead of you being the one that teaches them. They try to act like they’re the ones teaching you. But go ahead and help your friends in your career path. Let me know how that works out for you (:
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:56 PM
3

Yup. I was an IT intern for this company. They needed other interns and I was bored there and decided to help my 2 “close” friends get this job so they have something on their resume. My one friend was a kiss-ass and the company hired him full time before me when I had 6 months more experience. Once he got that position, he acted like he didn’t even know me. He was hanging out with other coworkers and who knows what he was saying to the boss. That boss was always hard on me for no reason. Anyway…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:21 PM
5

Here's some advice, you don't ever bring a girl around your friends until they've become exclusive with you
/r/askTRP25/12/20 03:58 PM
1

Let me make himself out to be the toxic idiot. If anything, let your other friends bring him up in conversation and let them discuss that he’s being toxic and don’t want him around. Let them make it their own idea. If you just do an action and all that without consolidating first, he’s going to cause drama and your friends are going to be like “why did you remove him?” And your friends will hangout with him in private without you knowing. They’ll pin it on you and say you’re the one causing dram…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 06:55 PM
1

Girl talk for "I'm just not attracted to you anymore" State what you want out of this relationship and that if she can't do this, this, this with you, it's not going to work out, you'll find someone else who can and break up with her. Breaking up with her first is only your best hope if you want her to be attracted to you again. Otherwise, she's at the point where she is losing all her respect for you. If she breaks up first, you'll definitely never hear from her again. Once you're out of her li…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:31 PM
2

She changes her mind, when she reaches back out. That's her working for it When you say this, you never reach out to her again. She has to initiate. If you want her to see you again, you let her know the door is open. Otherwise, they ain't going to bother reaching out on the fear of "getting rejected". I've had girls who I used to hook up with that are married now tell me they've felt bad and wanted to reach out to rekindle things but didn't because they thought I would reject them for the way t…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 04:03 PM
2

That's why after you say this you don't reach out to her ever again until you hear from her. Orbiter is when you're giving them likes on social media, viewing their stories, messaging them constantly and always remaining in touch i.e commenting, messaging, dming, etc....
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:47 PM
3

When you ghost her, she's thinking "lmao oh he must be butthurt". When you tell her to get in touch when she changes her mind, you're telling her you're not waiting around and moving on because you won't be reaching out anymore. There's a difference. This girl has another dude in the background and that's why she wanted OP in backup position as a friend if it doesn't work out but if you tell her you don't want to be friends, she isn't going to hear from you anymore until she reaches out. This is…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:44 PM
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Yeah man, when you say it that way, if she ever does reach out in the future, you set the next date. Gives you a sure-fire that she's interested again because she's placing herself back in your orbit. Other cases, she'll reach back out and won't set a date. You don't ask her out anymore and let her keep doing all the pursuing. I've had girls, months or a couple years down the line just randomly hit me up, we set the date and hooked up
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:24 PM
4

You tell her "I'm not interested in being friends, if you change your mind, get in touch" something along those lines Ghosting her without saying that doesn't really solidify anything. Even though its a slim chance she changes her mind, now she's thinking she's made the right decision since you didn't state what you want. Life is all about making deals. Have a take it or leave it attitude. If they give you an offer you don't want, you state what you want and go about your day.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:11 PM
2

Best comeback
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:59 PM
2

Sending her a picture of a girl in your bed is just unnecessary. That's just attention and validation seeking. She knows what you were trying to do. "I don't really care about this girl" Yet you wrote 6 paragraphs about her. Your problem is you seek validation too much. If she says your cheating, you blow it out the water by having an overexaggerating answer. If she's with her ex. Do nothing. You're better off leaving her alone and letting her come to you. If she hit you up before after her ex, …
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:42 PM
2

He could’ve been with some wild hoes who are into that freaky stuff and that’s what it sounds like but if the girl likes you a lot, they’ll let you do whatever you want
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:31 AM
10

If you're going to call someone out that you don't know, you got to do it playfully. If you're serious about it, he's going to get serious with you. If I was shown a video of him spitting in their mouths, I would laugh my fucking ass off tbh and ask him how they submit like that and see what he has to say. If you just had a stupid look on your face, your face says it all.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 01:42 AM
4

Dude just bring notes with you during the interview so that way you don’t miss a thing. A lot of people do it actually that way you’re not trying to think or trying to remember on the spot
/r/askTRP17/11/20 02:27 AM
2

Straight out ask her if she like to come over and do an activity. You don't always need to go out and then try to close at her/your place at the end. She's been on two dates with you, she should already feel comfortable enough to come over but you got to make a move
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:29 AM
3

"Well the night's not over yet, let's go back over your place and watch a movie. I heard of this one, blah blah blah etc. " Gotta keep escalating dude. You're letting her take the direction. You should have made a move, if she doesn't reciprocate then wait until the next date to try escalating again. 3 dates is a rule of thumb like other guys are saying on here, that's what girls follow too. She might not be comfortable with you yet
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:46 AM
1

It depends on the situation, if she has blown you off other times then yes, you should tell her "Things happen but you gotta make it up to me" and leave it. You wait for her to contact you again and then you set the next date But if this is the first time or whatever, you tell her "No worries and maybe some other time. "You hit her up in a few days to a week. She's not your girlfriend for one. Two, you are way too attached. You are setting boundaries with a plate when you should be letting her c…
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:28 PM
3

I believe its moreover they listen to a lot of podcasts like callherdaddy or other empowering things. They tell these girls how to get "power" over guys. Also, doesn't help the amount of simps out there on social media telling them how pretty they are and begging to have a date with them.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 12:54 AM
1

Depends on what you want to get into. There is so many routes you can take If you want to work with the DoD, you need to have a Security+ If you want to do Help Desk, you need to get a A+ I have both. Right now I’m working on Network+ and then going straight into CCNA after I get it so it’ll be a little bit easier for me to understand networking Some of my college courses prepare me for said certifications as well. And good part is, once I get a certification, I can get credits for it and don’t …
/r/askTRP18/10/20 02:27 PM
1

So what? Better late than ever. I’m doing the same thing, getting a bachelors in cybersecurity. I won’t get it until 29 or 30 and I’m 25 right now. I’m working on IT certifications right now. I have 2 and working on my 3rd one. If you’re going with software developing, I advise you do the same And idk about that 200k at 22 part lmao wherever you’re reading that from is full of shit
/r/askTRP18/10/20 12:01 AM
1

"Sorry but I'm not interested in being friends. I'm interested in you romantically and being friends will never work out with me. But if you change your mind, give me a call. I wish you well" She might come back, she might not but if you want her to come back, this is the best way to end it. I know you want her back and following these other dude's upvoted advice that don't have any relationship experience past 2 weeks is not going to work. Just saying "ok" or leaving her on read just shows to h…
/r/askTRP16/10/20 09:21 PM
1

Bruh you tell her you're not interested in being friends with her but if she changes her mind, to shoot you a text or give you a call You stop all contact with her until she reaches out to you directly. If she gives you a selfie or whatever, leave her on read. You don't message back until she addresses you. Why keep beating a dead drum
/r/askTRP13/10/20 12:11 PM
1

I know exactly what post you're referring too Lmao
/r/askTRP09/10/20 04:44 PM
1

You had 3.5 months to though. They want to feel special, not a slam piece. She bought lingerie at the time thinking about you but doesn't mean she feels the same way now. Probably another dude in the picture that's taking her out. Nah, she's tired of low effort. She'll just flake on you again because now you're chasing when you've already reached out. If she contacts you again, take her out to do something and get to know her more. She'll see a vibe change.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:52 PM
1

She's a plate, not a LTR. She's not going to be around forever. She probably got vibes that you we're playing her. She's most likely seeing another dude. You had a chance to tie her down but you didn't. Probably got tired of the bs. Did you even take her on actual dates so she feels special? If she flaked without rescheduling or didn't have a serious excuse then don't contact her. Let her come to you, she might or might not.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:40 PM
1

I mean at this point, her coming back has to be her idea so there's nothing he can do because if he tries chasing her, he's gonna look needy and she gonna continue going the opposite direction
/r/askTRP16/09/20 01:44 AM
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Just tell her you love her but you're not ready to settle down or have kids yet. Tell her you don't want to be friends either and to give you a call if she changes her mind. That way she has a option to reach out. You obviously still care about her so just end things on a good note, focus on yourself, go out with other women and if she calls and you're still in love with her, rekindle things then.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:49 PM
2

You're trying to go logic on her. That never works out. They need to feel emotion. They feel emotion when you agree and back away as well. She'll either start to miss you a few days/weeks/months or she won't contact you ever again. Your response should have been a one way thing. You caller her, talked to her and then you sent another text trying to rationalize with her. That's kinda begging All you gotta say is "I've enjoyed all of our time together. I would've loved for it to continue but if yo…
/r/askTRP11/09/20 02:17 PM
2

Exactly this, it's covering your ass.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 05:59 PM
20

If she doesn't have any red flags and you can see yourself marrying her, then don't screw it up. The amount of girls that play games is ridiculous. You will deal with getting ghosted, ignored, liars. I've been on like a hundred dates and I'm tired of doing all the same "get to know eachother" bs. Don't ruin what you have because you're thinking with your D, as far as I know, she is probably your unicorn
/r/askTRP08/09/20 07:33 PM
4

When someone compliments you, say "thank you". If you just deny it, you're not showing confidence. That one cuddling thing was really bad, I mean if you're gonna say anything "this is comfy" and leave it at that. You're being way too needy. You double texted to "have to be sure so I can make other plans". If she doesn't respond back, go make other plans. Who cares, if she gets back late, you tell her you already made plans and will have to reschedule. She's 18. You're 10 years older. Just accept…
/r/askTRP07/08/20 07:44 PM
2

She did it on purpose to see how you react. A lot of girls do this. You kept it cool and told her it wasn't a big deal and that you weren't going to wait around. That's good, you're getting a boundary across without overreacting like a lot of other dudes would. That's what she wants. Set another date with her after a couple days. However, if she pulls the same stunt again, next her.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 12:09 PM
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Don't be way too open about yourself, goofy or say edgy things. You want to be chill and masculine. ​ Doesn't have to be conversation either. ​ For example, the other week, I was at this small house party. Introduced myself to the host, attractive girl. Went for a hand shake and she said "I'm a hugger" and she hugged me. Fast forward to the night, this kid had to be like 20. Kept trying to show off, said he could skate and do this, etc. ​ Kid just wasn't hitting the mark for one. Two, he was ska…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:54 PM
15

If you have a masculine face, yes. If you have a baby face, DO NOT buzz your hair
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:22 AM
9

Everything you did and said was fine
/r/askTRP29/07/20 06:26 PM
1

Nah she didn't. She was crazy about him. I'm from a small rural area, would've heard about it
/r/askTRP27/07/20 11:41 PM
14

Not 100%. Depends on the girl's attraction for you. One of my cousins has been dating this girl since sophomore year of high school. If she's crazy for you, she'll stick through and through. A few years ago, she got tired of waiting around and moved down to where he was stationed at. Hawaii to be exact. Left family and everything to be over there with him
/r/askTRP27/07/20 11:02 AM
2

You're too outcome dependent. I had the same problem and it took me awhile to figure out why. You were expecting to have a casual relationship but sometimes it doesn't work out that way. Just take it day by day and have fun. You probably should of told her "I'm just looking to have fun but no worries" and left it like that You spent all this time facetiming and giving her all this attention. Once she started hanging with you, you probably showed too much affection and that turned her off since s…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:08 PM
2

Yes, friends know to stay out of your business
/r/askTRP20/07/20 04:52 PM
2

Lmao don’t answer honestly, that’s not what she’s looking for. That’s really fucking hilarious though. She’s just wants to keep your attention
/r/askTRP18/07/20 02:43 AM
2

If you’re not gonna LTR her, why are you spending a week with her? If you want nothing with her, this one is going to break with whatever shit you say If you’ve been seeing her for 7 months and can spend an entire week with her, just LTR her
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:34 AM
2

Why does it matter? You're not expecting to get back in a relationship or anything that serious anymore. Just keep her as a plate and do your own thing. It's free. What you could do is make her buy the drinks and the food that way she's the one trying to win your attention and just go at it.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 06:39 PM
1

Idk why you even asked your questions. It seems you have it all figured out (;
/r/askTRP29/06/20 06:18 PM
1

Leaving them on delivered is
/r/askTRP29/06/20 04:48 PM
1

I can get that But the whole point is not to entertain their games and worry about something else
/r/askTRP29/06/20 04:55 AM
7

Or instead of doing manipulative things, you can go be busy You only do this if they're playing games with you.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 04:10 AM
1

Yes. Girls find it sexy and it's your own stuff so who cares. Don't get me wrong, I'll kiss but I won't use my tongue. The amount of girls that are surprised when I do and tell me about guys scared of their cum, it sounds like a huge turn off for them when you reject a kiss
/r/askTRP29/06/20 04:01 AM
2

24 and I don't copy all of the emojis either. Sometimes I'll use a smirk or a laugh emoji here and there to set the tone but I mostly stick to plain or a haha at the end
/r/askTRP25/06/20 04:40 PM
4

Texting is not pointless. Girls tell me I seem like a fun guy because of how I text and that's crucial if you never met her in person before either. This guide has some really good examples and helped me and others tremendously http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn And idk if I like that, I would've responded "Woah, not so fast. We haven't even had Lunch together yet haha" or something like that
/r/askTRP25/06/20 04:01 PM
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I always have bad experiences if I "command" them. A lot of girls watch callherdaddy or other vods or know about "alphas". I've had girls try to tease me about trying to act all alpha. I always have more success asking "Do you want to come to XYZ with me?" or "I'm going here. Want to grab a drink with me?". It's still leading but it's more discreet that you're doing something and she's coming along for the ride instead of just flat out telling her what she's going to do. Plus you need to up your…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:46 PM
1

If you want her to stick around then talk to her or hangout a little bit more, not a dramatic increase just gradually. If you don't care about her, keep doing what you're doing until she doesn't give you it anymore. This plate won't be spinning for long if you keep doing #2
/r/askTRP24/06/20 01:02 PM
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Because it's a value of worth. If you sleep with so many, you look like a man whore and a player. If you don't sleep with much, you don't seem desirable. You don't reveal it or ask them either but sometimes they might press you on it. Last week a girl was trying to guess. "4?" "5", etc and I just denied it. When she said "double digits" I agreed. But I still didn't reveal. She's 21 but she did say "I must have a man whore on my hands" and I said "I am going on 25" with a smirk and just left it l…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:02 PM
1

See the problem here is you don't have any set goals. You don't have drive. People want to share with people who have drive. If you think "yup, just accomplished that goal" and don't do anything after or set another goal, then you're not going to go far. If you have no one, then no wonder you feel this way. If you have pain, you can share that pain with others. You can't be happy if you're lonely, you can only find happiness with others.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:38 AM
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Only after disaster can we be resurrected. It's only after you've lost everything that you're free to do anything. Nothing is static, everything is evolving, everything is falling apart. Be free. You're "woke" to realize how society operates. You know the truth. Your purpose is to find out how deep your rabbit hole goes. There's others that still haven't touched theirs.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 04:58 PM
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Dude, how many times does this sub have to say. DON'T PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT SHE SAYS, PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT SHE DOES. She drove out of her way to see you. She initiates contact with you all the time. Her boyfriend is screwing up. It's obvious she is highly interested in you You only tried kissing once. You are so outcome dependent. Laugh it off, reframe it and try again. I've had girls brush me off the first time but after the 2nd, 3rd attempt, it happened. It was a shit test and you failed it s…
/r/askTRP17/06/20 03:51 PM
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Definitely growing with each generation. Newer generations are growing up with technology and can ask a question at a click of a button.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:23 PM
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Yeah I agree. Moved too fast. Should've waited until after the night to set a 1 on 1 date
/r/askTRP12/06/20 03:59 PM
1

Yeah, girls do this with guys to show off to make other girls/orbiters jealous or to get validation from other girls. As guys, we want to be mysterious. That example with the drinks, having a picture of you with other hot girls at a bar. You're not on a date, obviously but other girls will be viewing the story as if there must be something very interesting about you if these hot women are with you and they need to find out for themselves. Gets their hamster wheel spinning about you
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:39 PM
4

Here's the golden question. Are you a girl?
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:23 PM
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You don't. You work on yourself and only worry about yourself. Pursue other girls She has to do the approaching after she sees how much you've changed but after being on your journey, you're going to forget about her.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:15 PM
1

I can sympathize with the red hair. My hair is blonde but has a hint of red (Got it from puberty). People call me ginger anyways. I own it now. Now I don't really have freckles. I have it only on my nose and I do get quite a bit on my shoulders when I'm out in the sun. Now while I hate freckles. Some women adore freckles and adore gingers as well. I see girls with no freckles using makeup to create the illusion. Just remember. You're not going to be everyone's type.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 05:05 PM
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You're being entirely outcome dependent. Just have fun. Whatever comes out of it, entertaining yourself should be your focus
/r/seduction09/06/20 02:14 AM
1

So Trump told the cop to knee himself into the guy's neck? It's a blue state, blue governor, etc that trump has no influence over?
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:13 PM
1

I don’t think so. Conservatives never acted outright when Obama was in office for 8 years. Sure they would talk shit about him but it was mature. Once trump got into office, every liberal has been putting themselves out there, riots, protests, etc
/r/askTRP06/06/20 04:28 PM
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What part? That fact that he doesn't want immigrants smuggling in the country illegally? Or he only likes white people, when he has diverse people working with him?
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:03 AM
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Ever since Trump went into office, it's best to leave things alone. Things have been really heated since he has stepped in. Anything positive you say can be taken the wrong way and/or negative can be used against you and there are no winning sides. It's best just to leave it alone and tune it out. I don't condone racism or looting. I think if you do those type of things, you're a disgrace. I support Black Lives Matter and everyone should be held equal. We've seen police brutality time and time a…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:08 AM
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This is true. I tried commanding to set up a few dates and it always ended in a flake or not even a response I usually just say “Are you down?” Or “Do you want to with me?” And I get better replies and confirmations that way
/r/askTRP02/06/20 10:39 PM
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When you take your clothes off, she isn't thinking about your skinny fat body. She's thinking about that dick and how good you're gonna fuck her If you really have that low of testosterone levels then look into taking some testosterone pills because clearly it's messing with your confidence and way of thinking
/r/askTRP01/06/20 03:47 AM
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You're a hypochondriac. I'm the same way. That's an anxiety issue. Go see a doctor. You most likely have a chemical imbalance in your brain. Anxiety medicine can help that, just don't become reliant on them. The mind is a powerful thing and you'd be surprised how much it plays tricks on you when you're anxious
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:57 AM
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Live life the way you want to. You want to do this? Do it. Do what you as your own person wants to do. Be free. Just don't expect things to be handed to you. You gotta work for things you want. Just don't be a bum
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:52 AM
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A 100-0 turn off for a girl is a lack of confidence about yourself
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:50 AM
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He's a nerd. He likes the Matrix. Matrix 4 comes out next year. He doesn't know about this place guaranteed.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 01:58 AM
1

Something like that... I was sober but they were drunk and I knew there was no point arguing with drunk people. I stood there for awhile and they all looked at me staring, telling me to go. They didn't start the arguing until after I left and she wouldn't come with me when I left for a bit. I see your point about the delegation, I felt like shit from my allergies yesterday and I did freeze up from almost having a panic attack because I couldn't believe what was happening. But now I know what to …
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:25 AM
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i didn't know what was going on. Even after asking a bunch of times, they wouldn't tell me. I stood there, waiting and they kept telling me to go. She wanted to stay and fight her own battle. I don't know what else I could've done there
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:41 PM
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Well now I know not to bring girls around them. She was drunk and I didn't think she would open up like she did. You're right, I should've told them that it wasn't going to happen. I was getting a lot of anxiety from it all. Never been in that situation and didn't know what the fuck to do. and lastly, she was grabbing my dick under the table begging me to leave. Sending me eggplant and peach emojis. I told her one more game. She 's not gonna want to fuck my friend when his girlfriend is right be…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:37 PM
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One of them is my best friend. Known him for a long time, he wasn't the one that confronted. The other one, I met almost 2 years ago from my best friend when I first started getting into TRP. He's a good dude, looks out for me but he does get emotional with his friends since one of his best friends hung themselves... You're right. I feel really bad about this whole situation
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:28 PM
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Exclusive as in we don't fuck other people. I'm still talking to other girls, trying to make something happen.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 08:56 PM
1

Eh she didn't have a bio so it was pretty difficult coming up with something. I don't use pick up lines so it was a last resort for me. That's good
/r/askTRP16/04/20 11:31 AM
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Your IT guy would have to bring it up with the higher ups that there is a plot going on. Employees using the business's network to be mischievous. If he is working on that capacity then I think they know he's looking at that information and that may be fine. If the IT guy is up to doing that though, I don't know too much of the situation but it's his call if it doesn't jeopardize his job. Once he goes to the higher ups, does that and things get taken care of. You could probably warn your girlfri…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 01:34 PM
1

Because a good amount take the guidelines too seriously. Those guidelines are all situational. If you want a LTR, no one is stopping you. Spinning plates eventually gets old. There are plenty of girls you can fuck but there's going to be a select few you truly connect with.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:42 PM
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Yeah she said she's "visiting friends from a different state she used to live that are going to this college". Obviously cover-up answer. I just told her "Don't think you're gonna be around me if you catch that virus haha" I appreciate you taking time answering my responses. This is it from me. I've been improving my text game and have been seeing better responses from other girls. I'll see what happens on Sunday but other than that, not gonna pay this one much attention anymore. I was hoping to…
/r/askTRP13/03/20 10:59 PM
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Now I think it's not even worth it anymore. Was on instagram. Saw she posted a story, viewed it and she put down "Kansas w/ hearts. 10 days to go" She flying out to Kansas to see that dude again lmao guy must have some good game I have a 99% feeling she gonna cancel on me Sunday
/r/askTRP13/03/20 08:00 PM
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I see. I think I have the right idea, I just use different words Oh I meant "give me a run for my money" as in she tires me out during sex but seems like that was a poor choice in words. Yeah, I gotta work on limiting my texts Something weird happened last night. Usually she sends me a snap of a selfie around 11pm and she did something she never done before. She texted me around 12am saying "hey could you do me a favor?.." and then she wrote another line saying "nevermind, I got it sorted out" I…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 10:45 AM
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Gotcha. At this point. I'm probably going to stop reaching out to her after this. This interaction went a lot better with the ultimatum, although I'm already expecting her to flake again. I'm talking to more women, working on my text game and now I need to work on to convey less-neediness. I thought that would be poking fun at her, didn't think it appeared needy. That was a good line you gave me Me - Alright, last chance. Meet me at XY at 1:30pm this Sunday. Or are you chicken? her - I can as of…
/r/askTRP12/03/20 02:25 AM
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This girl on Tinder that I used to sleep with was still with her boyfriend of 7 years when we were hooking up. She told me she was mentally done with the relationship, just didn't want to break up yet. Once I had her around more, she broke up with her boyfriend. I was the second guy she has ever been with. Of course, I never got into a LTR with her. Since I didn't get tied down with her, she went into a hoe phase and started sleeping around with a lot of guys because of all the freedom she had f…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 01:20 PM
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Yeah, been sending gifs and teasing a lot more in my openers, have been getting better responses. Yeah, you're overall right. I just have it in the back of my head that she was like this before my transition. After a year of reinventing myself, I got to lay with her a few times in recent months. It was hard to get her over but I keep thinking if I had her over before, I can get her over again. I was thinking about doing this. Would you tease her with something like "You're so busy, It's like you…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 12:35 PM
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So I've read it all and go back to it time from times but I gotta say, I've been having better responses on Tinder using that type of texting and I'm really starting to get the hang of it. The girl snapped me a selfie later that night. The next day, I sent her a text message and went from there. Me: "Let's grab some food, I can do Tuesday or Wednesday. Her: I'm not too sure about tomorrow. I'm not too sure what I'm getting into Me: ok. Let me know by lunchtime tomorrow Her: will do I left her on…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 12:58 AM
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Oh yeah that sounds so much better. I read some of it and it seems pretty straightforward. Thanks man, have a good one
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:16 AM
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Yeah it's kinda new she left me on read because she usually replies back or sends a snap selfie. Wanted to send a subliminal message that I'm not coming across as a nice guy but I agree, it was too ongoing about it Yeah I thought about teasing about her sickness but I thought that after I sent that message and didn't want to double text. I'm assuming you mean ping her in a couple days? I found this: https://astrologymemes.com/i/e466dd4a8e7d4375b247cea70c120287 if that's a good example Yeah thank…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 10:59 PM
1

So she didnt reply back until the next morning. I took some advice from the comments and tried to tweak my text game because I was being too nice guy. Her: morning Me: You're losing cool points Haha Her: why? Me: gotta keep better track of your time haha Her: I know I'm sorry. I've also been in bed all day, I'm super ill 😩 Me: yeah I don't want to have to keep subtracting points lol She left me on read and she never usually does that.Was I doing that, correctly or did I fuck up? If not, how do I…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 08:23 PM
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So she didnt reply back until the next morning. Her: morning Me: You're losing cool points Haha Her: why? Me: gotta keep better track of your time haha Her: I know I'm sorry. I've also been in bed all day, I'm super ill 😩 Me: yeah I don't want to have to keep subtracting points lol She left me on read and she never usually does that.Was I doing that correctly? If not, how do I come back from that?
/r/askTRP08/03/20 08:13 PM
1

I understand that, AWALT. I would like her to keep fucking me though lol
/r/askTRP08/03/20 04:03 PM
1

Yeah it all does, thanks bro. Because if I had things solid, I wouldn't be in this situation that's all. Yeah my text game isn't up to par. If it was in person, I give them shit. They're a little late and I usually go "smh you're a few minutes late, how can I trust you now" My texting is very boring. I need to start making more statements
/r/askTRP08/03/20 02:02 AM
1

Hard to keep track and remember details with that much. Didn't really answer my question man lol
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:06 PM
1

I know that but I want her attention all on me
/r/askTRP07/03/20 09:40 PM
0

Alright, I'm just gonna take two or three times longer to respond then and keep my answers short. Before, I was taking couple to every few hours messaging her at random times. She blonde, slender and tall. Only thing that's off is her crooked teeth lmao
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:36 PM
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I'm spinning another plate currently but this one is my best plate HB9, petite, I'd hate to lose that. Wasn't insta stalking either. Do I just cut all contact? Or take 3x longer than her to respond, etc?
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:29 PM
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Yup. This girl on Tinder that I used to sleep with was still with her boyfriend of 7 years when we were hooking up. She told me she was mentally done with the relationship, just didn't want to break up yet. Once I had her around more, she broke up with her boyfriend. I was the second guy she has ever been with. Of course, I never got into a LTR with her and she went into a hoe phase and started sleeping around with a lot of guys because of the freedom she had.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:33 PM
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You never tell a girl you dislike it. Just leave her on read. She get's the message and her hamster starts spinning "Why did he ignore me?" and such
/r/askTRP03/03/20 08:52 PM
1

You didn't make a move because you were afraid of losing her but you lost her anyways because you didn't close. You can try some logistics but don't expect it will work out.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:56 PM
1

Not everyone uses it to get girls online. I use SM to keep tabs on what's happening around the world, what friends are doing, etc. since I don't specifically read or watch the news. Now, I'm not glued on it like a lot of people, but you're saying people who use SM a lot use it only to attract girls
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:48 PM
0

Why delete what you've built. Just don't fucking go on it if you hate looking at what people post lmao
/r/askTRP24/02/20 05:27 PM
1

Google James Murray and look at the images. Murr from impractical jokers has next to no hair but the way he has it trimmed still looks good. You could pull it off too
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:54 PM
1

No. I've had a girl that I hung out twice. Flaked on me a few times. I ignored her after a year. She sends me a snap randomly, I initiated contact and she flaked on me a couple more times, no biggie. Got her to actually come over after a week of catching up and was able to do the deed with her You just gotta expect it's going to happen and play it cool. I wasn't surprised she was still flaking on me after reinitiating. I made other plans as backup but I sure as hell was surprised when I saw her …
/r/askTRP20/02/20 06:53 PM
1

I'm not saying they don't exist but no one at 22 years old gets over a 100k job "lined" up before getting their degree
/r/askTRP19/02/20 02:15 PM
2

Thanks, I'll check it out. I was thinking about buying the Beef Organs one and trying it out
/r/askTRP14/02/20 04:51 AM
1

Gives you relatable scenarios, breaks it down. It has basically everything. It is a bunch of posts from years back all compiled into a book. It's really good. If you buy the book, it's not in order
/r/seduction13/02/20 07:38 PM
1

I see that stuff gets a lot of great reviews. I'm a little confused on the ordeal though. Do all of their supplements contain the standard Vitamin A, B, C, etc?
/r/askTRP13/02/20 04:37 PM
2

"Oh yeah? Would a friend do this?" Go in for kiss Come on dude
/r/askTRP13/02/20 04:07 PM
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Book of Pook is everything you need https://bookofpook.com/
/r/seduction12/02/20 11:01 PM
1

"Ok, no worries." Then ghost her, Wait until next week. During that time, talk to other girls, make plans, and yadda yadda yadda. After talking to all these different women and you still want to try to meet this girl, then message her. Set a date the next day. But don't be surprised if she flakes on you again. If she does it again, hard next. She might hit you back up later on. Maybe not. Don't worry about it, go after other girls with higher interest
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:00 PM
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Girl: "I bet you say that to every girl" You: "You're right, I'm keeping count. You're girl #567" Girl: You're not my type You: (My example) Attractive ginger guys? Yeah me either Always assume attraction. Have fun with your interaction, don't be plain and boring
/r/seduction06/02/20 08:25 PM
1

Sometimes she flakes on that too. I try not to invite her over a lot because it can showcase neediness
/r/askTRP31/01/20 04:58 PM
1

So you think I just leave her on read until she hits me up?
/r/askTRP31/01/20 04:18 PM
1

I can't be mad or show that I'm butthurt. I was thinking just not reaching out to her and see what she does, withdraw my attention and put more focus on other girls. Just asking how I can prevent the flakes in the future.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 03:44 PM
1

The main thing about them is you don't want to be reliant on them. It's good in the short-term, just make sure you're going through therapy and keep exposing yourself to more social situations. That is really the only way to overcome social anxiety
/r/askTRP24/01/20 02:29 PM
1

Is there any reason they're picking on you in the first place?
/r/askTRP22/01/20 05:25 PM
1

Demote her and pursue other women. If she's not in-line with your principles, find one that is. She's not going to change
/r/askTRP17/01/20 01:17 PM
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Yeah, if you actually are able to go on dates, OP probably has bad game if they don't stick around
/r/seduction02/01/20 08:39 PM
1

If you want to go into the IT field, start studying for CompTia certifications
/r/askTRP24/12/19 01:31 PM
6

Do you even have a sister? Because my sister wouldn't give a shit what I say to her
/r/askTRP23/12/19 02:36 PM
2

Girls aren't going to go out on a date if they barely talked to you unless they have very high interest You need to talk to them a day or two at the most to build comfort with them. It's kind of stupid I know but this is how this new generation is. There were times where I got there snapchat, we talk for a bit, it doesn't go anywhere. I post something and girls I haven't talked to for months hmu about what I posted and I was able reestablish myself and go on a date with some of them. Most likely…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 02:26 PM
1

Which, is the point? You gotta put the idea in her head that you're serious. Girls like to agree to dates but sometimes they aren't 100% for it. "Oh I thought you meant a different day" they say all that bs, which saying this you find out if they keep their word or not
/r/askTRP06/12/19 10:19 PM
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When the day comes, I always say " I'll see you at scheduled time" and leave it like that. If she leaves you on read, says she got something going on (which could be totally legit), etc. You know where you stand with her
/r/askTRP06/12/19 08:09 PM
1

The thing your doctor was talking about is calling "mewing" Look it up on youtube. It's correct tounge posture. Start working on it
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:07 PM
1

Yeah I realized that recently ago, girls would say I was an asshole and I couldn't figure out what I was doing wrong. Since then, I've toned myself down because I really did have a big ego playing a part in it. Since then, I've been having more attachments with girls. I must've really misunderstood that part about treating them like children, I was trying to project that I was a high value male to them but that wasn't the right way to do it
/r/askTRP23/11/19 10:35 PM
1

It was over text. My boy was the one that called me But I read somewhere you gotta treat them like a child and I thought it was a good intention to throw it in but obviously it was a poor choice I wasn't expecting an apology, just go tell her she fucked up. But I can see with everyone's responses, I'm the one who fucked up. Shouldn't have said anything and ghosted her was the better way and I didn't think my comments to her seemed at all butthurt at the time but looking back, it sounds like I wa…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 08:09 PM
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Look I'm taking everything in consideration, I'm just still processing everything on what I could've done better. I'm not trying to come off as I'm arguing with you but I do appreciate the feedback I just read somewhere where you should treat women like they're a child and I thought that was a good way of doing that but looking back at it now, I can see how my responses looked like I was really butthurt.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 07:26 PM
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I just feel like my situation is different. We were at a bar dominated by African Americans. Her whole friend group is black. I also heard her mention she doesnt usually date white guys She leaves with a black guy, etc. But in the future, I'll just stfu and ghost them. Work better on closing and escalating in a bar situation
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:44 PM
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I'm not hurt. I don't really care what she does, it's female nature. But I don't tolerate her acting like a child because she can't handle her own liquor and then her apologizing like "omg I'm so sorry. I'm usually never like this. I'm drunk. Blah blah blah." As an excuse. "Oh you probably don't like me blah blah blah" I never seen the bitch sober. And there's more details that I didn't include. One of them was when her drunk friend got her to be by me, she started dancing by me and literally al…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 12:39 PM
1

She was planning on going there tonight and that I should come. So I joined her. You're right, it's hard to deal with a drunk child looking for attention on the floor. It gets old after awhile. First time I met her she was drunk before I got there. This time, I thought I would see her sober and nope, she arrives there drunk. At that point I told myself fuck it, I'm not exerting anymore energy trying to keep her with me while she runs off without saying anything and then going "where have you bee…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 12:21 PM
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I tried but I think the dude was just lucky at the end of the night. Just right timing when the place was closing down You couldn't even have a conversation with the bitch because of how drunk she was. It was like dealing with a toddler who hasn't fully developed speaking her. It got to a point where I said fuck it and stopped wanting to deal with her
/r/askTRP23/11/19 12:12 PM
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I'm way ahead of you there. I never seen this bitch sober. I think that is a good alternative but I think in this situation it was good to let her know I don't put up with bullshit like that. I didn't directly say and tell her things, just the subtle hint that she was. If I ghosted her, she's probably going to think "oh he doesn't like me because I get drunk and like to do me. Fuck him" She was drunk so I doubt she's gonna remember all of what I said anyways.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 12:06 PM
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You meet with someone there and turns out she's drunk before and you're the "boyfriend" yet she runs off stumbling and shit grinding on 3 other dudes. At the end of the night, it was more babysitting if anything. She made bad decisions. Very disrespectful
/r/askTRP23/11/19 11:52 AM
1

What brand do you take? I take 12mg of melatonin and even then sometimes it doesn't knock me out
/r/askTRP21/11/19 01:58 PM
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Depends on the girl. The ones that respond with one word answers most of the time hate texting and like talking on the phone.
/r/seduction13/11/19 05:27 PM
2

Don't double text. She has very low interest. Pull back.
/r/seduction13/11/19 05:24 PM
4

You don't do sarcasm to people who don't know you, they got to get to know you a little bit first. I get where you're coming from, I have a monotone voice and used to do the same thing to people I just met but it gives the vibe that you come off as a dick. You need to not do it so early and change your tone and pitch. Speak slower when you're being sarcastic so people can pick up on it. After people get to know me for awhile, especially in the workplace, people usually take me pretty serious but…
/r/askTRP12/11/19 03:16 PM
4

Are you being sarcastic to people you've just met or known for awhile? Are you changing your tone when you say the punchline? Are you smirking when doing so?
/r/askTRP12/11/19 02:27 PM
1

Develop a IDGAF attitude. Don't react to anything. If something amuses you, laugh/smile. If someone says some shit to you, don't look butt hurt. Be unphased Rely only on yourself. Don't be worried about other people. YOU comes first. When people ask me to do shit especially something simple, I make sure to push my boundary. I say "Only if you say please" and the other person will usually succumb to you. That's if I'm feeling nice. If you just do shit, they are just going to keep asking you and y…
/r/askTRP10/11/19 08:23 AM
1

Right call. You can never argue with a woman, it'll go nowhere. She wanted you to operate in her frame and you didn't take the bait. Now she knows you don't tolerate that behavior
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:07 PM
-1

I mean it's rude af and if you ever ask that question the other person is always gonna deny it. I guess that's one way to end a bad date early lol
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:33 PM
11

Women leave a relationship mentally before they do it physically. Sorry to say this but someone else is in the picture.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:54 PM
2

A man doesn't DM another man he never met or talked to before asking to hangout. It's a dead giveaway he was interested in me
/r/seduction11/10/19 02:40 PM
1

Uh. No.
/r/seduction09/10/19 12:19 PM
103

I had a guy hit me up in my DMs and after a bit asked to hangout. Thought it was super weird but I saw he hangs out with a lot of guys/girls so I didn't think too much, it didn't look like he was gay and I thought he was more of a get to know everyone kind of person. Told him it was kind of weird to ask another guy you barely know to hangout as it comes off as he's hitting on me. He told me he wasn't gay. Saw a girl I recognized in his picture, messaged her about him and she confirmed with me th…
/r/seduction08/10/19 05:10 PM
14

It's main point is being "vulnerable". Opening up about yourself instead of being closed off. Embracing the person you are and not giving a fk about what people think, displaying emotion to stuff you care about, being true about your intentions, etc
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:19 PM
2

Lifting doesn't expand your mind. You're telling him to be that meathead that has nothing better to talk about but "Yeah bro you gotta eat this or do that in the workout". People don't want to hear that shit all the time, it gets boring OP needs to get involved in more activities, learn new things from being around others and experience more things so HE can be the one directing the conversation and get people interested
/r/askTRP08/10/19 03:16 PM
9

It's a good book. Mostly purple pill but you can build connections better with women
/r/askTRP08/10/19 03:07 PM
1

Some girls just like older dudes. One of my plate's friends (21) only dates mature men (30+) because "they age like fine scotch" lmao
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:09 PM
6

Girls like knowing that stuff, it's a turn on for them because they know you're attracted to her. Anyways, in most of my encounters, you're supposed to lead. Some girls won't do any of the stuff the person above me wrote. So when you kiss her and things start get exciting, start feeling her ass and then after kissing some more, start making your way upwards. When you start making your way up, If she tells you to slow down or pushes your hand away, she's not comfortable or warmed up yet. Continue…
/r/seduction26/09/19 06:57 PM
1

I saw a guy who people always brought him along to do stuff with and this dude would never speak a word in high school. Granted he was pretty built for being 5'7 and he was an athlete. You need to have something going for you.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:15 PM
4

Thanks for the in-depth analysis. Didn't realize about the emoji disguising part. Definitely will save this and begin working on changing those habits
/r/askTRP19/09/19 04:48 AM
1

I got the wrong indication because I thought the smiles meant high interest as in "I'm glad he dmed me". Usually I do this after chatting a bit and get it out of the way because I dont want to bs around but I'm gonna take it easy for now on
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:15 AM
2

Yeah I guess it did seem a little creepy, I gotta slow it down. When I saw the smile emojis, I thought it indicated high interest
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:11 AM
3

Did you just really rate your friend?
/r/askTRP18/09/19 05:26 PM
1

and don't mention you're friends with so and so unless your friend is a very good worker and doesn't bs around. I had a friend who bs around and referred me. On the interview they asked me if I knew one of their workers and I agreed. I never got a call back.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:56 PM
1

I'm in IT and if you work near a military base or government contractors companies, consider getting a Sec+ Some contractors will pay for your clearance, once you get that clearance, you're set. You can move up quickly if you work on other IT certs
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:51 PM
1

You have to show interest in the job (this is speaking for minimum wage jobs). Call up there and talk to the manager, ask if they have reviewed your application yet and that you're very interested in the position. During the interview, you want to showcase as an easy-going person that can get along with their staff. They don't necessarily care about your workload in the past, if you suck ass at work, they'll tell you to pick up the pace, they can't do that with personalities.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:47 PM
1

You literally could've lost your virginity that night if you didn't have such a twisted ego... You should've said "It's gonna take a lot more than that to get me warmed up" and make out with her.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:44 PM
19

Should've said you're looking for a connection
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:24 PM
1

It's not about being an asshole. It's about being arrogant. If you want to help people, that's fine. Being too available is unattractive. Don't help people with the idea that they owe you something, in mind. If you decide to help someone but you tell them they owe you and they agree, then you need to draw a line. If they haven't paid you back, don't help them the next time they ask for help.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 01:52 PM
1

Shes showing signs hence why I'm going on more dates with her, I didn't say she was full ltr-quality
/r/askTRP12/09/19 10:32 AM
0

A plate that I said is showing LTR signs... it's just entertaining to do. They sell beer/wine and guy&girl pairs go all the time. I don't live in the city
/r/askTRP12/09/19 04:30 AM
1

Wtf is wrong with painting? It's almost Halloween and they have Halloween themes you try and copy. Don't even say that's for fags man fuck off with that
/r/askTRP12/09/19 04:19 AM
1

Yeah I can get a refund for them. I did take it to the effect of "I can cancel this" to her but she was being stubborn Even said "I invited you to King's Dominion a few weeks from now and I was going to pay for you since I invited you". But she never mentioned that she was going to pay for me until I brought this up so she's like really butthurt over $30 lol
/r/askTRP12/09/19 04:15 AM
2

Gotcha, well if she doesn't message back then I'll just find someone else who won't get butthurt over $30. Thanks man
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:57 AM
1

Alright, should I just message her that I had a good time and to have a good night like nothing happened?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:46 AM
2

No True shit How would you frame this?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:39 AM
2

Girls don't like assholes, they like arrogance.
/r/seduction11/09/19 04:18 PM
2

Became friends with this guy who turned out to be one of my good friends later on. Before me and him had a bond, his sister added me on facebook, she was 14 at the time and I was 15. I chatted her up everyday. She at the time had a boyfriend and me and her would secretly talk to eachother. We did this for a month and eventually she told me she did something sexual with her boyfriend and I got mad at her. After talking to her still and forming a closer bond with her brother, I got him to invite m…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:46 PM
-1

I hungout with her tonight and she brought it up with me randomly, said she remade her tinder cause she was bored lol
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:22 AM
-1

Yeah I understand that but I'm meeting her tonight and she still calls be babe and shit so idk if I should bring it up with her or not or if she pulls her phone out, I can say I noticed she has tinder installed again, etc.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:26 AM
1

I meant she deleted her profile altogether, she was in my queue and I saw she changed her bio and pictures a few times just recent
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:11 AM
-8

Do I bring it up with her?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:54 PM
1

It's good to be open to some degree, just don't overdo it. You don't want to be an emotionless robot, they're not attractive to human beings
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:09 PM
1

You're probably shy and have these qualities that make you un-confident but when you're angry, you start focusing on how to unleash your anger, so this stops you consciously focusing on the qualities of your shyness. Basically, if you were poked by a pen on one side of your body and then you were poked by another pen on another part of your body, your mind is going to mainly focus on the one that is causing the most pain and you'll barely feel the other one poking you
/r/askTRP31/08/19 07:21 PM
1

It is synced with her account and I've come to realize I followed her on insta way back. She's real
/r/askTRP27/08/19 05:01 PM
1

wrote "# now# and she replied "No. I don't take demands baby, I give them 🤙🏻" Lmao
/r/askTRP26/08/19 10:02 AM
1

wrote "# now# and she replied "No. I don't take demands baby, I give them 🤙🏻" Lmao
/r/askTRP26/08/19 09:41 AM
1

wrote "# now# and she replied "No. I don't take demands baby, I give them 🤙🏻" Lmao
/r/askTRP26/08/19 09:40 AM
1

wrote "# now# and she replied "No. I don't take demands baby, I give them 🤙🏻" Lmao
/r/askTRP26/08/19 09:40 AM
2

wrote "# now# and she replied "No. I don't take demands baby, I give them 🤙🏻" Lmao
/r/askTRP26/08/19 09:40 AM
1

Thanks for replying. I mean I would love to find out what I said to make her so upset because I didnt recongnize her or knew who she was. You're right, I should've just overheard her and not of said anything and for the last bit I think I said "had got to know". Can't remember but I'm not gonna argue over that
/r/askTRP25/08/19 07:04 AM
2

If I read this correctly, you were probably one of those kids who don't stfu in class and were annoying. None of that matters now since you're going to be around a mature crowd. Just take your studies seriously, don't talk too much or be a distraction and be friendly. The majority of people are in that class so they can listen to the lecture, do the work and go straight to their home/dorm room. Most don't give af about making new friends so if they don't talk too much, respect and don't annoy th…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 12:49 AM
1

Women find it attractive when you have a clear interest in them and you create attraction by having a connection with them. If you keep giving mixed signals, they are just gonna find another dick to hop on in a matter of time. OP doesn't want his plate to break and it seems he has an idea of an LTR... Unbeknownst if the girl knows OP is talking to other women (that is what I'm assuming) but if he isn't then yes, my advice wouldn't be the best in this situation. If what I'm assuming to be true, i…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 01:58 PM
2

That's oneitis. If you're this interested in this girl, avoid those questions unless you're in a relationship. Even if you're upfront with her, doesn't mean she'll do the same. I agree with /u/audiotrack, just don't think too much and ask her about her day but don't elaborate on those direct questions, make it subliminal Start inviting her out some more so you're taking up most of her time and you won't have to worry about those questions.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 12:40 PM
1

I was still in the beginning stages
/r/askTRP21/08/19 02:40 PM
0

Well when we were dating, she was showing signs of being LTR material, I just wasn't over my ex at the time, kept sending mixed signals and I think she sensed that. So I think that's what set her off the wagon I just wonder what her motive is, is she on there looking for validation and attention or is she really cheating? That guy could've been me several months ago
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:21 PM
-1

That is a spot on analogy
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:24 PM
3

Next time she asks you out, agree to it and then before it happens, tell her you cant and got shit going on. Reverse the table. Soft next
/r/askTRP19/08/19 07:58 PM
1

It's alright to text them somewhat throughout the day. The sidebar mentions that you should only text for logistics but that's only for newcomers or people who don't know how to build rapport through text. It's all a formula and you tweak things as you go. For me, I text somewhat throughout the day, always random times everyday to keep them guessing, sometimes I text every couple to few hours or reply within a minute. Completely ignoring is a turn off for them, I've had a bunch of women lose int…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 12:58 PM
2

I suffer from all 3. OCD I would say is the hardest one to overcome because it's all a mindset and there's no medicine that can treat it. I'm a hypochondriac. If I feel something weird in my body, like a sudden pain that usually lasts a few seconds, I become really anxious and that leads to a panic attack. Anxiety hit me out of nowhere once I got out of high school. I didn't know what it was, my parents didn't know what was wrong with me and that was the worst of it. It's a good thing there's be…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 12:30 PM
1

because I do want to be single You just answered it "All good things must come to an end"
/r/askTRP15/08/19 07:24 PM
-1

Idk he's pretty biased on a lot of stuff. I watched videos where he rags on boat shoes and cargo shorts but in my area, that's what a lot of people wear. Everything is situational, in the city, yeah don't wear boat shoes or cargo shorts since you're not going to be by any water or on a boat; in my location, mines more country, I'm surrounded by water and a lot of people wear cargo shorts So yeah AlphaM dress tips are great but mostly if you live in the city
/r/askTRP09/08/19 02:06 PM
5

Your teenage years is nothing but puppy love. Don't get into a serious relationship until you're in your 20s
/r/askTRP06/08/19 06:53 PM
1

I created a to-do list and things to remind me of habits I need to change. I have it on my phone and have it pinned to my home screen so every time I open my phone, I'm reminded.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 09:13 PM
1

Exactly how my ex was " i want to dye my hair, it'll make me feel like a new person" or "i need to move here and start over". You become a different person by taking action; moving to a new location or changing your appearance doesn't change that
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:19 PM
8

Strangers Things Billy Hargrove - New guy becomes Alpha Steve Harrington - Transitions from Alpha to Beta after getting into a relationship
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:01 PM
2

You're not doing your liver any favors
/r/askTRP29/07/19 12:19 PM
1

Nah, I was the one that said that to one of my friends that is outside our group. Usually I get a along with everyone and have no issues but this guy was being a dick as soon as he met me I don't know if it's best to call him out on the spot and stand my ground or just completely ignore it. But yeah, you're right, will do
/r/askTRP27/07/19 09:06 PM
1

You're saying this dude is gay?
/r/askTRP27/07/19 08:47 PM
1

Don't worry I did. Do I demote her to blowjobs only or stop talking to her?
/r/askTRP21/07/19 04:07 PM
3

If you don't want anything to do at all with her anymore, leave her on read. She'll eventually get the message
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:28 PM
2

You create attraction by developing feelings within her. DM her and say "Hey I used to be in your so and so's class, how've you been?" and go from there. If she's interested, she'll respond back. If she doesn't reply back, you have your answer and you can move on. If she responds, talk to her for a bit, get her snap/number, etc. Then text logistics about meeting up. You don't wait for IOIs, you're supposed to get her interested.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 01:57 PM
6

Next time ask for their snap. It's not as personable as a number so their more willing to give it out and you'll be able to communicate, share your life (if your life is exciting) and show you have value
/r/seduction03/07/19 11:56 AM
26

So this actually happened to me. My ex was 20 at the time and worked with this girl that was a year younger than her, they became "best friends". After a few months with her, my ex broke up with me out of nowhere and didn't give valid reasons. The best thing I could get out of her was "my head isn't in the right place". Over the course of several months, my ex has dyed her hair and eyebrows 3 different colors (purple, green, blue). After several months, I see her get into a relationship on Faceb…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:51 AM
1

I'm not trying to flex. I get a lot of flakes. I feel like my number is really low and was wondering if tinder is really this bad or maybe my game is off and I'm not doing things right
/r/askTRP02/07/19 04:51 PM
1

I meant success as in being able to meet them in person/bang
/r/askTRP02/07/19 04:40 PM
3

Health is far more important than money
/r/askTRP19/06/19 01:19 AM
1

Did I seem butthurt? Got her snap and was talking to this girl. Tried setting a date with her but she doesn't find out her schedule until the weekend. I message her asking if she found out her schedule yet and she replies "I dont think it's a good idea for me to continue messaging you because I'm talking to someone and that's unfair to them" I reply with "how long were you talking to him before me?" She replies "a couple weeks" I reply "that's on you. A couple weeks isn't anything" She reads my …
/r/askTRP07/06/19 11:56 PM
1

On her facebook, she posted a meme and only a couple people liked it. I saw one of the dudes that liked it and looked at his profile pics and the girl liked his picture a day before she messaged me on bumble and she also liked his picture 2 days after I met her and that's pretty much when she ghosted me. Makes sense why it was all of a sudden random. Only thing he has on me is a full beard and he's a little taller and wider in appearance since I'm only 145 lbs. Just have to wait until that dude …
/r/askTRP30/05/19 09:54 PM
1

I messaged her two days later and she left me on read. Guess someone else is in the picture. Time to move on
/r/askTRP30/05/19 12:38 PM
1

I doubt it. Usually she saves messages that she'll reply back to later but that's not the case
/r/askTRP29/05/19 02:32 PM
1

And what do I say without coming off as needy?
/r/askTRP29/05/19 02:42 AM
1

So soft next for a couple days?
/r/askTRP29/05/19 02:21 AM
1

And say what?
/r/askTRP29/05/19 02:21 AM
1

Yeah I thought I was saying the rights things and she stayed around when the park was about to close at sunset. So I guess I'm texting her too much then. What do you mean charge her to the game? So soft next for a couple days?
/r/askTRP29/05/19 02:21 AM
8

Next time someone says that, say and do: "Touchy Feely?" "This is Touchy Feely" Pull her close. Kiss her. If she hasn't pushed you away, grab her ass
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:20 PM
2

I'm not saying it's special. You compare people getting them as stupid, criminals, etc. You're right. It is some one doodling on you. A doodle makes you automatically a criminal, uncontrollable, stupid etc. ? proves my point
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:47 AM
-2

It's like this. You're scared to be open-minded. You can't talk bad or label something you have no clue about. Life isn't all stereotypes man
/r/askTRP10/04/19 04:29 PM
0

This subreddit will never understand tattoos unless they get one of their own. I used to be the same way, repulsed by them. It isn't as bad as you think it is. Now I wouldn't date a girl if she had a sleeve or a very huge back piece or something of that nature but smaller tattoos, I'm completely fine with it. It's becoming the norm now and a lot of white collar jobs are accepting shown tattoos as long as they're not graphic. Probably why more women are getting them, it is more "accepting" in tod…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 03:49 PM
5

You can walk to her house and fuck her, do it. She'll be booty calling you late in the night. If shit happens, try to be on good terms with her. You don't want your neighbors hating your parents because of your fuck up
/r/askTRP10/04/19 02:22 AM
1

Are you really a friend if you don't talk to him or help him out about it?
/r/askTRP24/02/19 06:44 PM
-2

Get out of here with your incest bullshit
/r/askTRP12/02/19 10:44 PM
1

US used to be nothing but Native Americans and full fledged Europeans when they invaded lol what
/r/askTRP12/02/19 10:42 PM
-6

I believe it's because the US is composed of so many mixed ethnicities. Mexico, Europe, India, Asia, Africa etc. People around those areas are composed of their own race.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:24 PM
1

"Chad" as in smart, muscular, alpha, etc. None of that applies in high school because they're not adults yet. They're still kids. It's all about popularity, i.e joining sports teams, going to parties, "swag, who you hang around with Cutting friends out of your life and being a loner is what makes you get fun of. You want to have acquaintances because as well all know, half the kids you know in high school go away to college and most of them weren't real friends anyway. Once you're out of high sc…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 03:57 AM
33

TRP doesnt matter until after high school. Girls don't care about "Chad" in high school. It's all about popularity. 10s get with ugly looking guys only because of the popularity.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 09:00 PM
8

When it comes to feminism, you shouldn't be arguing with a class mainly full of women. You never win. You're in school and saying that, word spreads fast and they'll all be telling their friends. You need to be more aware of how and where you express your opinions. If this was in a public setting where you didn't know the people, it wouldn't matter
/r/askTRP29/01/19 08:04 PM
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