What to do when shit tested by men ?

effyouasshole · 2019-06-18T16:48:02+00:00

Are they throwing cockblocks in front of women? If so, that's a major problem.

Otherwise, if they're making the comments in private, just keep using AA & AM techniques. Eventually they'll either get in line with it, or they're just not good friends. Not everyone is going to like you, and that's ok. Find people who you enjoy being with and bring value to your life.

TheMetalLED · 2019-06-18T17:17:47+00:00

Same thing as with a woman. Except don't make it sexual.

KeenanTheBarbarian · 2019-06-18T19:10:24+00:00

Laugh it off and throw it back at them unless you're insecure, then work on being less of a baby

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-06-18T23:13:52+00:00

Are they shittesting you in public or merely making jokes in private? The latter isn't a problem, all guys do it, but the former is super beta, don't tolerate it.

ColdBeing · 2019-06-19T01:19:41+00:00

Health is far more important than money

ivane07 · 2019-06-19T03:08:42+00:00

"I'll learn from you, stare at girls and pray they come to me"

boolDozer · 2019-06-18T19:22:22+00:00

What you said is fine. If it gets too annoying and you're not too worried about keeping them around:

"Well we all knew you were weren't going to make a move and someone had to keep this lady company."

celincelin · 2019-06-19T06:32:54+00:00

AA and escalate brah.

Slut_Slayer9000 · 2019-06-24T21:05:57+00:00

These guys sounds insecure because they are lacking muscles and confidence to talk to women. That is literally the only reason to shit on a guy for having muscles & talking to girls, unless he was hitting on some ugly chick, then yeah bust his balls, but otherwise they are just being haters. Sounds like you need to make some new friends that aren't fucking dweebs. AKA don't cling to the first group of people in a new place that will accept you (aka a group with low standards).

Velebit · 2019-06-19T04:55:49+00:00

This tends to destroy mens willingness to talk to you. Them: something You: aww you are trying to flirt with me/you are jealous You: touch the back of their neck or their thigh like a woman and go full into it Them: disgusted and feeling unsafe

It always works. It creates a deep sense of unease in every nongay man and this is especially effective on men who are physically more imposing, have deeper voices and a stronger presence. It works best on them because they tend to be amog and other guys secretly resent them so when you, instead of acting like a lion where you can't win, act like a fox, they instantly ridicule them.

For example of lion vs fox watch the recent tory leadership debate and how most of them, especially gove acts vs how rory acts.

xoxuv · 2019-06-18T19:17:40+00:00

Start harassing them (jokingly) about getting a loan from them, since girls are soo expensive, and monks don't need it. Then start asking for debt relief, pretending that you have too many obligations to all the girls, and they really don't need expensive cars. Start questioning them for the cost of their clothes when you need the money.

Title	What to do when shit tested by men ?
Author	maverick9759
Upvotes	44
Comments	29
Date	June 18, 2019 4:42 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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