Here's a quick lowdown

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Before TRP I would notice basic signals from women, like playing with their hair, opening up body language, eye contact etc. Now I am noticing things in a different way. I read a post on here relating to compliance and that instead of trying to pick up on body language cues I am now searching for compliance cues ie if I put my hand out for her to hold and she accepts, or if she accepts to leave her friends to hang out with me instead, or if she is accepting of our interactions becoming a little more physical etc.

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Noticing all of these things is great, for me. As it tells me that she is somewhat interested and that it is up to me to escalate and lead the night. Now here is the sticky part. I can open very easily on some women, I can keep a conversation flowing and not be a creep, I am able to notice when she is being compliant and when she isn't. But bridging the gap between this and to a first kiss is something I need to work on. I feel even if the woman is interested in me and that we both know where the night is going, I for whatever reason skip steps 3-4 and go straight to 5 which is making out.

What do I do? Some scenario's work out just fine. But when I am with a woman that I've just met in a night club for example. She's laughing at my jokes and is talkative, she agrees to come to the bar for a drink, I take her hand and we both go there. What do I do then when I feel that the woman is interested enough in me to this point, how do I go from basic compliance to flirting, to kissing and to back home in my bed. This is my achilles heal because once I've made out with a girl usually the night always ends up in my bed. It's just the gap between meeting, basic flirting, positive interaction, compliance to creating sexual tension, escalating and leading towards the first kiss.