I've been dating this girl for a few months now, and we haven't had sex yet...….every time I try initiating she shuts it down. We barely even make out, she almost always shuts that down too because she can tell it will lead to sex.

She eats my face when she leaves though...………….No pressure on anything more happening.

She's been in abusive relationships before and has trust issues. Has a history of anxiety and depression. Is a smoking 9/10. Definitely a girl whose been defined by her looks over her brain through her life.

I don't need advice on having her come over.....we Netflix and chill a lot. But, it literally is just Netflix and chill...….

I've scaled back my effort considerably and I'm hoping this helps but am just looking for general advice.