I need help helping my friend

bradMF · 2018-02-09T21:22:06+00:00

Unfortunately, you can't force feed RP to an ignorant bro, he needs to experience some of that first hand. My good friend is a 24 year old motherfucker who still lives in some fantasy world where he never brings up sex to girls he dates out of respect. And I still can't make him think straight.

Triadis3 · 2018-02-10T03:46:45+00:00

Every week I post this....

Not your circus, not your monkeys.

Keep out of other peoples' business.

The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Business men, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system, and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it.

Read this love letter.

juliusstreicher · 2018-02-10T01:15:26+00:00

Dooooooon't do it!

Deep_freeze202 · 2018-02-10T01:46:01+00:00

The short answer is you don't the first rule of TRP is you don't talk about TRP the second rule of TRP is you DON'T talk about TRP, attempting to do so will most likely only backfire and blow up in your face, possibly leading to your reputation and social status being left decimated it's a huge gamble that is unlikely to pay off and the reward is not worth the risk. The best you can do is lead by example and maybe he will follow.

SirKolbath · 2018-02-10T03:48:36+00:00

You can't save him. You can only be an example to him. Do not talk about this with him. The only time you talk about this with someone is when a bro asks you, "Nofap_Dutch, you have your shit together. How did that happen?" Then, and only then, do you say, "Well, I read some good material and tried to apply it to my life."

For now, just buy him a copy of No More Mister Nice Guy and hope he reads it.

BlackHeart89 · 2018-02-10T04:41:08+00:00

First of all, way too many details man. "My bro had oneitis for a chick that broke up with him and immediately got with another guy. How do help my bro and introduce him to TRP?"

I have seen significant results from utilizing the methods of TRP that "I agree with". Mind you, I'm sure other methods work as well. They just violate some of my principles. With all that being said, some guys will remain BP even when you show your results. Just casually mention things here and there while kicking it and writing his ex off as "just another chick". You two are super young. No point in tripping over some chick in high school.

Nofap_Dutch · 2018-02-10T12:59:43+00:00

Thanks for the advice guys, I know that you can't forcefeed TRP, I just try and explain him why she left and he agrees, he asked me how I got this info so I told him I had some source of info (TRP) so I sent him the sidebar link but he hasn't read it yet I think. He can go his own way, but as a bro I just want to protect him from that crap happening all the time because as an aware person it hurts to see the people who I love being used and dumped. Thanks guys!

Title	I need help helping my friend
Author	Nofap_Dutch
Upvotes	5
Comments	16
Date	February 9, 2018 9:15 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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