Hello everyone, let me just start out by saying thank you. I joined TRP not too long ago. I subscribed recently but I have been lurking for about a month now, maybe a little a more. Anyway, I'm here to ask for some help.

To make a long story short, since finding this place I have found a lot of peace with myself. I mustered the courage to ask a girl on a date and got laid as a result. I recently began to employ the Monk Mode lifestyle and it's been a struggle trying to maintain it.

I quit video games - my escape from reality

I quit masturbating - a substitute for chasing women and just another way to be complacent

I quit music - I felt it was influencing my mood too drastically

I quit weed - For obvious reasons

And I quit hanging out with my friends who are BP

It all seemed pretty drastic at first but I'm trying to corner myself into making all the right moves.

I've bought and read The Way of Men, No More Mr. Nice Guy, and some of the 48 Laws of Power. I also recently purchased two books on Game suggested by TRP.

I left out a lot, but basically I still feel like I'm doing this wrong. I feel my approach on all of this is lacking organization or fluidity. How did most of you approach this process of eliminating blue pill tendencies?