I started hooking up with someone at work earlier this year. It was just supposed to be for fun and nothing more. This woman is about as far from attractive as it gets and she's 6 years older.

In the past few months this has worked really well for me, she is very high up at the company and she championed a very big promotion for me, far beyond where I ever thought I would be career-wise. I never asked for this and I never applied for this position but she made it happen behind closed doors. I am terrified.

She seems completely obsessed with me at this point. Now she wants "more" from me. She wants a real relationship and moving in together in the next few months and her "biological clock is ticking".

I don't know what to do or how to get myself away from her and this situation without ruining myself in the process.

She is in a position where she can destroy me within the company and within my industry if she wanted to. I just don't know what to do or how to get rid of her.

I didn't mean to use her and I just want to get away.

What should I do?