Context: Started reading into TRP recently. Makes sense to me and confirms what I have already subconciously accepted some time ago. Transitioning my life right now, lifting every day, regular sleep - all the good stuff. Now I lack of a large social circle, and I live in a rather remote place. Working on fixing that, but for now I'm mainly doing online.

One problem I have is to not emotionally invest myself into texting, while at the same time steering towards a specific time and place to meet at. Me not living in the city contributes to that, because there is much more coordination necessary to actually make a date work. So, how do you stay aloof and not radiate neediness while at the same time locking down that date?