Time to take responsibility for your egotism, as the girl will have no idea of the one-sided expectations you selfishly set for her:

  1. Make your move or move on: your clouded mind won't let you make sound decisions near the girl, so the longer you have oneitis the worse it'll be. I prefer to make a move, but understand that there may be consequences: the friendship or interaction may end or you eventually end up doing something stupid (again, because your mind is clouded) and make the girl not want to talk to you anymore. Again, make your move or move on.

  2. Put yourself out there and meet other women: go to the bars with friends (or by yourself) and exercise some game (pull/push, agree and amplify, kino, pressure flip, venue change, etc.)

  3. Last, but most importantly: abundance mentality, or reality if you can get to that point.

MAKE YOUR CURRENT ONEITIS BE THE LAST ONE YOU'LL EVER HAVE IN YOUR LIFE.