Just finished an assignment for college (I’m 21) and wanted someone to chill with but most of my friends are either out of the city for college or home. I’m pretty much alone, I’m glad gyms have reopened so I can start there. I look back on the times I was on campus for university before COVID hit, was never really part of the social groups, now I look back at the fun people had, the friends and sex. I look alright, it’s just my ability to pick up on the social cues is lacking, I don’t think it’s a disorder as I always do well on facial recognition test things though I might check it out.

I’m planning on working on my mentality and social skills. My mind lately has gone down a bad path, I’m angry and not as stable as I was. Gym helps but it’s mainly thought patterns that I need to work on. I’ve been on nofap for a month now and I find myself feeling more confident, but still don’t have many girls to talk to, I have a few numbers from dating apps that im talking to now but other than that nothing. I maybe get like 5 matches per week across 2 dating apps, my tinder is also banned. It sucks, I’ll keep reading the sidebar but how long did it take for you guys to improve to the point where you see noticeable changes.