I’m reading the sidebar like a madman. But i cant find a solid answer

I’m fairly certain LTR’s are not a good thing. By getting into one you’re submitting to the idea that women are not hypergamous. Which they want you to believe. All women want a dude, for long term family BS. They’ll try to get an alpha if they can. But they can’t so they settle later down the line. An LTR seems like a cloaking mechanism. She knows you’ll get turned off by her promiscuity. So she says “boyfriend” to keep you in. Meanwhile she’s scrolling through tinder to find another branch. Am I right on this, no bs answers