Im missing human connection. Or is that connection false?

EdvardMunch · 2019-09-16T00:56:05+00:00

I believe this is largely due to the unrelaxed climate we live in now. We do have distractions and comforts but we lack feelings of purpose or that there even is a future worth fighting for. Combine that with overstimulation, drugs, etc there just isnt much connection to be made anymore.

Used to you'd enter into a pocket tribe, find a person you felt deeply on similar paths with but we dont dig deep paths like we once did. 10 years ago if you told a good story at a bar 10 people at your table might pay attention. Now somebody is on a phone, and largely nobody gives a shit about "facts" or ideas because in this era they seem useless.

If you want to make friends you really need a job, hobby, gym, school, somewhere to organically make one. And then more importantly be somebody people want to be friends with, ironically someone who doesn't care if they have any friends.

Our planet is dying, and it might renew but for now you gotta be on it despite all the negativity and pain. Nobody gives a fuck by and large.

danieltroungesister · 2019-09-16T01:37:20+00:00

I was feeling the same way, until someone told me this- “It’s lonely at the top”

I think about that every time I feel like I’m missing out

Bobby_Says_No · 2019-09-16T01:33:28+00:00

Completely get where you are coming from here, been feeling this the past couple of years, I still have plenty of friends and would be considered a popular person, but I feel most conversations are pointless and a lot of things feels forced, have no desire to meet new friends or learn about people. It's to the point where the only time I really want to talk to someone is when I feel there is a reason, say it is to do with my goal for example or making business connections.

I think the problem is most people being on a different wave length, once you have discovered the red pill and understand the concepts behind it and how the world works, it really changes your views about a lot of situations and interactions. You have to remember, the majority of people are completely blind to any of it.

Racour · 2019-09-16T04:28:50+00:00

Quality thread

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-09-16T04:51:54+00:00

You're trying to avoid vulnerability because you doubt yourself. You're worried you're going to be rolled like a chump.

Relax. You can only be rolled when you're afraid to walk away from something.

Title	Im missing human connection. Or is that connection false?
Author	NexusReflexX
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	September 16, 2019 12:33 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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