Im 20 years old. I still get into the mindset that im too cool to do something and have a hard time letting loose sometimes. For example, say im somewhere where there is dancing (not grinding) and all the guys are dancing like idiots. In my mind I dont care enough to go up and dance. Clearly if there was grinding id go up and do that.

My problem is I guess girls wouldnt see me as a fun guy since i dont let loose. I am constantly unaffected by the shenanigans around me, which I guess could be perceived as not being confident enough to do these things.

Because of this, im more of the mysterious stoic rather than the loud alpha which is harder to take notice of