So I have been in a LTR for 3 years now, she is pregnant with my child and is due in September.

I had never heard of TRP until about a week ago, and it's hilarious how blue pill I was/am. I remember the first time I really liked a girl in elementary school, I asked my dad what I should do and he said ''Find out what her favorite soda is and buy her one.'' Needless to say I was not taught game by Donald Draper.

So as I read more into TRP I have implemented a few things here and there and I see a spike in her attraction to me. I'm looking forward to experimenting more and seeing different results.

So my question today is how exactly should I go about implementing control game? The fact is that I am not outcome independent when it comes to this girl. I do love her, and she is carrying my child. A long and healthy relationship is very beneficial for all parties involved. Of course if she disrespect me in a bad way (cheat, decieve etc.) I will dump her in a heartbeat.

For the 3 years we've been together I have as I said not known about TRP. She has seen me in all emotional states, including whiny, depressed. I have gossipped with her, I have allowed her to get her way many many times. I have had no strategy when it comes to this relationship. I read about control game and it seems like the way to go, so how do I go about changing so drastically when it comes to my communication with her?