Hey folks. Longtime lurker here but haven’t posted anything. I’ve got most of my stuff in order and know what I need to work on to keep improving. I have a question though that I thought y’all might could help offer insight with.

I was a late bloomer with most things, drinking alcohol, partying, and losing my virginity. I just worked through school and didn’t deal with girls much at all. That being said I did a stint in the military and did a whole lot of “making up for list time.” The first couple chicks were cute enough, but as I went on I got more and more obsessed and insecure about the number, always wanting to get another chick “under my belt” so to speak. Most of the women I was at least attracted to, thiugh there were a few heavy ones and butterfaces in there.

Now I’m in a much better spot with my menta and physical health, finances, etc. Lately I’ve been seeing several chicks that are by far the most attractive ones I’ve been with. I am attracted to both their looks and somewhat their personalities. I have read here about how women lose or diminish their pair bonding ability the more people they sleep with. Is this true for males as well? These recent girls are super attractive to me and yet, when im with them, I’m just not into it as much as I used to be. No real problems with getting it up or turning them on or anything, but it’s like mentally I just can’t be bothered. Not bragging at all but my number is just under 80 women in 3ish years.

Has my rampaging in a futile attempt to make up for being a late bloomer kind of ruined my sexual appetite for the future? Again not bragging at all cause some of these women were not anything to brag about, I’m just genuinely curious if I’ve done some damage to my mind/hormones/etc.

What do y’all think? Is this normal for any dude that goes with a decent amount of women, or is this something that goes away or? Any and all feedback is much appreciated

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