I am wondering on how to get a concrete picture of where I stand and how to improve. On paper, I'm not model looking or anything, but I have a great deal of rugged masculinity and high muscle mass. I don't game women in the typical sense, but I'm extremely manipulative and I have charisma that tends to fluctuate heavily on and off depending on what I'm doing. I get strong IOIs from women at the top of the pecking order, does this mean that my percieved value is in line with theirs, or is there more that I am potentially missing? I feel like my value lies more in novelty and my disengaged, dark interpersonal style than the things women would usually use to judge men.