Is a high N count automatically disqualifying?

LucKygg · 2019-09-21T19:28:51+00:00

Some people get jealous when they find out their partner has been with more people than them and some literally do not care. For me, the red flag that comes out of a high count is when she has cheated on a past boyfriend. That’s an automatic no go for me in a LTR.

I would say that in general it shows a lack of self control because for 90% of women all they need to do to get laid is show up. For men, they need to have value and have good game. That’s why women with high counts are viewed negatively compared to men who have been with a lot of women.

Bottom line is that TRP is a framework, not a set of rules. If you think it’s a red flag then it is. You’re the one who would be dating her, not any of us.

boy_named_su · 2019-09-21T22:15:57+00:00

Plates no, LTR yes

[deleted] · 2019-09-22T01:53:46+00:00

100% a disqualifier.

But I also know you won’t listen

[deleted] · 2019-09-21T19:09:35+00:00

For most it is, but it all depends on what you want.

Distractingyou · 2019-09-22T07:23:24+00:00

I think its a red flag but it all depends does she worship you? Like if she isn't then she is an alpha widow of someone and eventually she will cheat. Meh there is a high cost in her

Rx_Red · 2019-09-21T19:19:25+00:00

Like Bobbie, said, depends what you want. But if wanting LTR, huge red flag

[deleted] · 2019-09-21T19:29:42+00:00

It's a factor but not a deal breaker. A girl with a low N count still has the curiosity of the cock carousel.

Fromstatepharm · 2019-09-21T19:38:50+00:00

I would say yes. Age is a little bit of a factor. 10 for a 30 year old is different than a 23 year old

Bruchibre · 2019-12-03T06:30:02+00:00

You don't seem to be bothered by it then no. I wouldn't like to be with a girl like that simply because I don't want to LTR a slut.

nobody_thinks · 2019-09-21T19:24:12+00:00

it basically means she has a sex addiction and will probably never be faithful and will go through massive depression when she hits the wall (depression = withdrawal since she can no longer satisfy her sexual addiction).

Title	Is a high N count automatically disqualifying?
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Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	September 21, 2019 7:07 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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