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| 13 | Should you pretend to be a beta male at work?No, they should just wonder if you're gay from lack of seeking pussy I'm not being sarcastic, be high value but don't shit where you eat | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 05:33 AM |
| 14 | How to do clubbing single?5 second rule. Don't forget it boys | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 03:17 AM |
| 1 | How friendly do women tend to be when you approach?Gotcha, what's your best quick tip for charisma? | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | How friendly do women tend to be when you approach?Good to know. Gotta just brace myself for a few cold minutes. I assume if she's still talking to you during those cold minutes that there's still some interest or else she would have just left right? | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | How friendly do women tend to be when you approach?That makes sense. Do they warm up after you pass tests? | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over the regret that you haven't lifted and gotten ripped sooner?Whenever you find yourself worrying about it, ask yourself if you have done what’s in your power for the day. If not then take action, if you have then endure it and repeat the next day. Thanks man, I really appreciate it Been lifting for 5 months now. I'm happy that I can finally bench with 45 lb plates on both sides, so I know I'm making progress toward my goal. I go even when I feel like crap, I don't want to miss a single day that I don't have to miss Thank your for the words | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 04:23 PM |
| 2 | How can I give a more sexual vibe?Interesting | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over the regret that you haven't lifted and gotten ripped sooner?Right, I probably have it luckier than half The guys on here | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 12:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over the regret that you haven't lifted and gotten ripped sooner?5 months into lifting, finally have 45lb plates on each side of my bench and glad with my progress so far. First short term goal has been met and about to switch to hypertrophy | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 12:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over the regret that you haven't lifted and gotten ripped sooner?You're right | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 11:13 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over the regret that you haven't lifted and gotten ripped sooner?You're right | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 11:13 PM |
| 2 | How do you get over the regret that you haven't lifted and gotten ripped sooner?It's one of my worst habits 100% | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 09:30 PM |
| 3 | How do you get over the regret that you haven't lifted and gotten ripped sooner?Right. I wasn't red pill aware the past times, and after being aware, I still had to quit some repetitive motion jobs that were fucking up my joints with lifting. Desk jobs now with RP awareness and better attitude | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 09:29 PM |
| 3 | How do you get over the regret that you haven't lifted and gotten ripped sooner?This seems to be the consensus. Looking forward to the future | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 09:13 PM |
| 6 | How can I give a more sexual vibe?I will have to try this when I become more experienced | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 09:12 PM |
| 2 | How can I give a more sexual vibe?So say it like you've successfully said it to 100s of women? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 08:57 PM |
| 2 | How do you get over the regret that you haven't lifted and gotten ripped sooner?That's my goal. I think by 28 I'll have a good shot and good progress | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 08:45 PM |
| 2 | How do you get over the regret that you haven't lifted and gotten ripped sooner?True, It's not over, still 27 years old. I'm still in my prime, I'm trying to focus on the future and it's getting easier the more defined I start looking. Finally hit 45 lbs on each side of bench press. I keep powering on despite it being at me how I slacked | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 08:44 PM |
| 2 | How do you get over the regret that you haven't lifted and gotten ripped sooner?That's good to know. I'm 27, so it's not like I've missed my chance to slay hot 23-25 year olds. It just hurts to see what I could be right now and to know that I've created my own circumstances despite no shortage of opportunity | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 08:39 PM |
| 2 | How do you get over the regret that you haven't lifted and gotten ripped sooner?Definitely doing things right, had 4 personal training sessions, one for each muscle group. I take breaks for a week/or stop the set if I feel pain on that specific muscle group Personal Trainer seemed surprised that my form was already good when he was building a plan for me | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 08:29 PM |
| 25 | How can I give a more sexual vibe?looking at her tits Interesting, never heard this overt strategy before 1.How do you know when to do this? How do you do it correctly? How to react if they call you out on it? What is their reaction when done right? Edit: my numbering 1-4 is not showing up correctly in the comment despite correct when I type it | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 08:23 PM |
| 6 | How can I give a more sexual vibe?Struggling with the almost verbatim problem as OP. When you say sexually charged comments, do women normally react positively? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 08:19 PM |
| 3 | How do you get over the regret that you haven't lifted and gotten ripped sooner?Right. There's nothing I can do to undo the past | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 08:17 PM |
| 2 | How do you get over the regret that you haven't lifted and gotten ripped sooner?Trying to by sticking to it like I should have all along. Working hard as fuck to make up for lost time, just wondering if there are any mental things to tell myself to make it easier | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 08:15 PM |
| 1 | How do you move on from extreme, scarring rejections in the past to be confident in the present?Gotcha, I'll do this in steps and stages. Unless there's a Golden opportunity, ill see how I can work my way up, thank you for the advice | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 06:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you move on from extreme, scarring rejections in the past to be confident in the present?Harder than social circle game? Am I reading that right? | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you move on from extreme, scarring rejections in the past to be confident in the present?Thank you man, that's what I'm looking for. Just normal, civil declines of civil propositions. That's what I'm having a hard time accepting will be the norm for me. That's what I want. Your reply puts me more at ease | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you move on from extreme, scarring rejections in the past to be confident in the present?For clarification I'm not dating, I'm too paralyzed to flirt or approach so my dating opportunities are virtually zero as long as I'm paralyzed with fear. I've learned a lot since then and can easily pass off as a non-autistic person and people don't realize I am. I know what not to do and what women don't find attractive, but I struggle to find the courage to even try in the first place. I have irrational thoughts that any woman I try to approach or flirt with will seek to destroy and punish me… | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you move on from extreme, scarring rejections in the past to be confident in the present?Right. I need to change my mindset From your experience, do girls normally give you ordinary rejections, or do you ever have to deal with extreme and unnecessary reactions from them? | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you move on from extreme, scarring rejections in the past to be confident in the present?You might be right, I just want to know that girls won't seek to destroy me or go out of their way to get me punished for trying to flirt or approach | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 03:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you move on from extreme, scarring rejections in the past to be confident in the present?At least 10 different therapists. Even if I only saw some once. I'm past the emotions, I don't get sad or upset thinking about them. I've just always relied on girls to befriend me instead and game themselves. I've always just been to paralyzed to do the work myself out of fear that an approach etc will result in the same overblow, disproportionately unnecessary rejection. I've never been willing to risk providing to myself that this won't happen and that's what I'm trying to get over and wonder… | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 03:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you move on from extreme, scarring rejections in the past to be confident in the present?I've had at least 10 therapists. It never helped. my problem is I never tried to go out of my way with approaching girls etc unless it was in a social circle and it was entirely natural to interact. I am over the sadness etc of it all and don't think about it anymore, it's just a subconscious fear that I've never moved on from because I never tried to override it with risking rejection unless it was shitty mediocre circle game. Even then I only really tried once or twice I've literally just been… | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Is there any hope with women when you have zero confidence?Good question. Yes, I've been red pill aware for 2 years, have been lifting for 4 months, and have improved every area of my life except game in those 2 years. I have high-functioning autism, bipolar disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder, tremendous social anxiety, and past social trauma from what two girls put me through in high school. I feel incredibly paralyzed by fear when I think about approaching and gaming. I have a laundry list of reasons for my lack of confidence and most of it has s… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Is there any hope with women when you have zero confidence?I appreciate the reply. I like that advice and that sounds like a good plan in the mean time. I've always been likeable, but never the guy that got the girls. I've missed several opportunities where the girl dropped hints in the past and since college ended and I've moved to my home town again, nothing has really happened I've kind of made friends with a dude at my gym, same age as me, but it's been tricky making plans. I've talked to a few girls there as well, with one seeming glad I introduced… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 03:22 AM |
| 1 | How to not auto-reject yourself?But I get what you're saying about the rejection part. I need to just bear through it. I had two female friends viciously reject me in high school to the point where I thought I was going to get in legal trouble from false statements and school administrator involvement over socially awkward autistic behavior on my part. I always get a subconscious fear that my lack of dating experience combined the malice these girls had years ago is going to be another vicious rejection at worst with new girls… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 11:53 PM |
| 1 | How to not auto-reject yourself?I'm not saying I'm high smv, but it's not so low that I couldn't succeed with a better mindset | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 11:35 PM |
| 1 | How to not auto-reject yourself?I suppose. The problem is I'm not necessarily low value. Nearly all of my difficulties come from high-functioning autism, tremendous social anxiety and lack of direct flirting experience. I have a tremendous difficulty making the most of my existing smv | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 11:34 PM |
| 1 | How to not auto-reject yourself?Its not this one chick, I literally auto-rejected myself from every girl and guy that was there today I didn't even think the guys would want to be friends with me if I talked to them | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 11:26 PM |
| 1 | How to not auto-reject yourself?I'm certain I don't have oneitis for her, I just did a quick comparison and thought why the fuck would any attempt here matter? The dude had higher smv. She just seemed like a partial prospect was all and my chances were zero next to Chad so I checked out on her. It's not just, her, the other girls just seem to talk to the higher smv guys there. I've been lifting for 4 months now, finally on 45lbs on each side bench press. I'm making progress and continually looking better but I'm still not to t… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 11:12 PM |
| 2 | How do you become comfortable expressing desire and sexuality with women?Thank you for the detailed reply, I really appreciate it. That makes sense, I've got to lead because it gives freedom for her to connect with a socially risky desire (women having/wanting sex). I also have to shake off the anti-masculinity fears that society has placed on men, because women want it despite society setting false standards. I need to think more about fulfilling a role wanted by women and assuming more women want that role (it they show IOIs etc). Thank you | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | How to be comfortable expressing sexuality and desireThank you, I really appreciate the reply. That makes sense. Since then, have you applied this mindset to the first time you introduce yourself to a new girl, such as during an approach? | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 06:29 PM |
| 49 | Can women with small breasts not breastfeed as well?This is the most red-pilled question I've ever seen on this sub. Asking the real questions here | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How do you become comfortable expressing desire and sexuality with women?Interesting, I'll be try to figure out how to broadcast it better within being so narrow that only a few girls tune in. Thanks for the metaphor, it helped me grasp it better | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 01:04 AM |
| 2 | How to be comfortable expressing sexuality and desireI'll keep all of those factors in mind and see how I can apply it in my life, thanks man | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 01:02 AM |
| 7 | How to be comfortable expressing sexuality and desireI can hold eye contact pretty well. I actually like looking at eyes, especially the iris. I sometimes look away out of courtesy, which is stupid. I'll look at women's eyes longer when I interact | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 12:37 AM |
| 1 | How do you become comfortable expressing desire and sexuality with women?Be amusing and challenging and mix in your sexual interest by telling her you want her. This is what confuses me, can you give a concrete example or two of a time you did this? | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 12:19 AM |
| 2 | How to be comfortable expressing sexuality and desireThat's good to know, any other locations where girls are surprisingly dtf, but where you wouldn't expect? | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 12:07 AM |
| 2 | How to be comfortable expressing sexuality and desireI am a fan of his videos, thank you for helping me narrow down which ones to look at | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 11:45 PM |
| 3 | How to be comfortable expressing sexuality and desireThank you, I think I get what you're saying. I'm trying to visualize how I would bring that forth in line with my personality | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Describe your first successful cold approach. In hindsight, what made it particularly successful and what got you over the anxiety of trying it out?Nice, that a good opener, it's simple yet creative | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Any advice for gym approaches that don't annoy women?No problem, I really appreciate the advice. I'm aware of the social dynamic, which was why I was wondering the "correct" way to do it. The only reason I'm even considering any of gym "game" is that it's one of the only places where fit, highly attractive women reliably gather. It's hard to find a good number of them out in the wild. That being said, I do want to be extra careful and do it "correctly". I plan on being social where appropriate and seeing how women respond, and if they show any IOI… | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Do any of you semi-autistic, red-pilled guys here have success stories?I feel you, my first lay was a girl that gamed herself so badly that I didn't do any work. She had nearly no LMR and constantly hinted at wanting it. It was great to have the easy lay, but the huge downside was that I didn't learn shit about game from her | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Do any of you semi-autistic, red-pilled guys here have success stories?I worded that poorly, it should have read as: act in a red pill aware manner, in whichever way I choose to socialize? Edit: and to also just go for socializing without worrying, to just do it? That's what I meant. But yes, I'd agree I've had terribly crippling self-limiting beliefs, thank you for being blunt | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 07:14 AM |
| 5 | Should I always smile to strangers?Definitely, I didn't mean lying of course, genuine comments only | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 01:04 AM |
| 8 | Is it ok to call a plate “fat” in an effort to try and make her lose weight?It's hypocritical as fuck, but that's because women are so solipsistic, their worldview is centered on themselves. If a chick told a guy to lose his cellulite, it would suck to hear, but he'd be like, "yeah I'm actually fat and need to lose it". At least in his head | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Can I stop this plate from breaking?Unless you made an explicit agreement to only be with each other or heavily implied it, then don't apologise. It shot your value way up but then you handed her your power on a silver platter. Now if you get with other girls, you're fucked. Keep it in your frame or avoid getting yourself into these situations | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 12:53 AM |
| 14 | Is it ok to call a plate “fat” in an effort to try and make her lose weight?No, this has literally no chance of working. If Brad Pitt (or her favorite male celebrity) told her this, she might lose the weight to get the once-in-a-lifetime, major celebrity D. But you're not Brad Pitt. She'll resent you and feel shitty. She'll never act normal around you again. Find a new plate | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 12:48 AM |
| 4 | Should I always smile to strangers?That's an interesting outlook, I'll have to try it out of curiosity | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Why incels even exist?In countries like the USA, it is barely regulated because it is not legal here (where I am). So it's really up to the guy or the hooker here. Never had one and I don't plan on it. But I suppose in other countries this issue isn't as prevalent. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Should I always smile to strangers?That's good to know, I'm sure the fact that you're passing by (or acting from a slight distance) probably takes the pressure off of them to react as well. I'll have to try this, thanks man | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Should I always smile to strangers?Interesting, does this work off campus? I've graduated from mine, and only sparingly visit the campus near my new city to do occasional academic work there | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Should I always smile to strangers?What's their typical response to these types of comments? Ever get bad reactions? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you semi-autistic, red-pilled guys here have success stories?Yeah, that's the one, I'll check it out again | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Any advice for gym approaches that don't annoy women?I'll keep that mindset, thank you | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Do any of you semi-autistic, red-pilled guys here have success stories?That's a good outlook. The Asian playbook one? I read it when it was new, but a refresher would be great, I'll look it over again, thanks for the tip | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you semi-autistic, red-pilled guys here have success stories?I appreciate it, I'll remember that. Quick question, of curiosity do you have any good openers that seem to work and feel natural for someone who struggled with autism? Edit: for girls of interest or making male friends | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why incels even exist?Not everyone is willing to stick their dick in a random by-the-hour prostitute who's had miles of strange dick in her. I wouldn't play Russian Roulette with my junk either | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you semi-autistic, red-pilled guys here have success stories?Replied to my own post by accident | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Do any of you semi-autistic, red-pilled guys here have success stories?Thanks for the input. I can definitely do well once I get started. I'll put more energy into observing in those initial moments before launching into a flow. I'll see how that works | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you semi-autistic, red-pilled guys here have success stories?Thank you, I honestly didn't realize I was consciously avoiding it until after your first comment. I've actually become quite aware of general social norms, it's mainly just relating and conversing. The norms I struggle with per se are that it's entirely acceptable to ask questions like "how was your weekend" etc. I have it ingrained that I can't converse like that because it's wrong. I'm not sure what the origins of that thinking are for me. Maybe it's because I just never have and so it feels … | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Do any of you semi-autistic, red-pilled guys here have success stories?So practice? Did you just power through the conversation failures and not think too hard about it? I've made the mistake of becoming risk averse and avoiding conversations to avoid social failure | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you semi-autistic, red-pilled guys here have success stories?I've applied it in every other area, career path, lifting, developing frame, not tolerating dysfunctional behavior, etc. It's just the social aspect that gets me. I have an ingrained difficulty. So, just go for applying it and worry about everything else later? Like not giving a fuck what people think and just act socially within the scope of red-pill strategy and awareness? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you semi-autistic, red-pilled guys here have success stories?What a success story? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you semi-autistic, red-pilled guys here have success stories?What do you mean? Send what? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you guys kick girls out if she being heavy on the lmr?I'm not sure the answer, but you may want to reward the last sentence of the question, it's a bit unclear what you mean | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Any advice for gym approaches that don't annoy women?Right, I'll keep that in mind, or at least have neutral comments immediately after to avert them being on alert before dropping additional wording. It was tricky because she was between me and where the exit headed, and she was facing toward the exit. I would have had to circle back around to talk to her or stand there till she looked up and noticed which would've looked bad. Overall, I learned a lot of great strategies from everyone on this post. I'll just fade for now and maybe say hi to her s… | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Any advice for gym approaches that don't annoy women?I do that all the time, lmao | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 08:01 PM |
| 5 | What motivates you to keep seeing a girl if you have to use a condom?Dude, get a vasectomy if you ever don't want kids in the future. If you do want kids, just put up with the condoms for now. You're playing with fire just to want to experience some male-tingles. Your sex life has the potential to bomb out in a burning pile of family court ramming if you're not careful. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 08:00 PM |
| 1 | best response when girlfriend sends selfies and nudes?Genius!! Have 50 upvotes! | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Any advice for gym approaches that don't annoy women?Thanks for the response, for what you said here: She would recognize you and not feel worried your going to tap her on the shoulder again. But that’s my perspective Are you saying that's probably what will happen now, or what would have probably happened if I did it differently? Yeah, this was my first approach of my whole life, was spontaneous, and had almost no real game plan. It's a huge gym with a ton of people, I'll honestly just ignore her probably cause I didn't do this in the most optima… | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for gym approaches that don't annoy women?Thanks! I'm trying to strive to be more talkative and carefree with people like you were in this video. Were you always like this? If not how did you get to that point (in short)? That's a good tip about talking during coincidental rest sets. I'll have to try it sometime! | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 04:41 AM |
| 2 | LTR is slightly cross-eyed, otherwise gorgeousI know what you mean, thanks for the candid reply. A lot of guys are insecure about what people think. It sounds like you know what you want, I wish you luck in how this happens between you two | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Any advice for gym approaches that don't annoy women?Great points! The general sense I'm getting across this post is to be lower key at the gym, and to break the ice while leaving them with room to explore talking to me and wondering about me. Thanks, I appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Any advice for gym approaches that don't annoy women?Definitely, u/Gordod26 had a good answer. Your response is great as well, I plan on just focusing on making good connections with guys in the gym and casually making benign comments to girls. I'll just see what happens when I'm a familiar face who hasn't done an "approach". I liked your suggestion about gathering social proof and looking for signs like making an effort to talk to a guy as a girl. I'll focus more on the concept of license to talk, rather than seeking to talk. Also, thanks for the… | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 03:58 AM |
| 1 | First approach ever, next step? (at the gym)Jesus, I had no idea this would get so many comments. I'm honestly wondering if the machines, even expensive ones in a medical clinic, are that bad. I don't know, I can't grab fat anywhere except on my lower ab area. I don't have any in places that I can successfully pinch fat or even much skin at all. I don't know the answer to anyone's comments to be honest | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Any advice for gym approaches that don't annoy women?Thanks, I really appreciate the long, thoughtful comments! I was hesitant to straight up cold approach, hence why was wondering the correct way. These are all great points. I'll focus more on guys, I need more guy friends anyway. I'm friendly with a lot of staff so far. I'll think of more positive, but more benign comments to make to girls to introduce myself casually. There's only one girl I've "cold approached" and I was pretty mild. Scare quotes because it was mild. Can you tell me if I fucke… | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 03:38 AM |
| 2 | LTR is slightly cross-eyed, otherwise gorgeousWhatever you decide man. Just do it gently, because she didn't give herself a cross-eyed eye. This is a long reply, but please read it for your own benefit, you'll grow from it With all due respect, and I mean respectfully, it only matters what you want. Don't go by what other people think. The truth is no one really cares unless they're a tool or an ass-hat. That guy that is dating the women who lost her leg, no one cares. That girl dating the dude with an eye-patch and a glass eye, no one care… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 03:04 AM |
| 1 | First threesome, need advice!I'm slow on this one, what do you mean by your comment? Haha | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Any advice for gym approaches that don't annoy women?Thanks, that's about what I was thinking. Any tips for what to do after breaking the ice with a greeting and smile? | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 01:23 AM |
| 1 | First approach ever, next step? (at the gym)I don't know either. I'm 127 lbs right now. I've never gained weight in my life except for muscle these past few months. People in my family and extended family are all fat or chubby except practically me. I've never gained weight no matter what I ate prior to lifting. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 12:57 AM |
| 1 | First approach ever, next step? (at the gym)Were 2 different machines wrong in a row? One was a high-end one at a healthcare facility. I legit can barely grab any fat on the fattest part of my stomach, and what I do grab, a good amount is skin and not fat. I'm not exaggerating. If it is that low, I'm as surprised as you are | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 12:45 AM |
| 1 | First approach ever, next step? (at the gym)That's great advice, I'll have to go for teaseable, cocky-funny observations and topics instead of validational ones. Do you think it's too late to turn around my initial interaction with this girl into more of the tone you suggested? (I mean I don't even know whether it was ultimately positive or negative in the first place since I'm not in her head). | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | First approach ever, next step? (at the gym)I definitely thought 12% was your average guy who's not even chubby. I legit asked the medical assistant if the machine was accurate. I was blown away | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 12:00 AM |
| 1 | First approach ever, next step? (at the gym)I am shitting you not. I had to take a health screen for my job and I also did a body composition assessment at the same gym. I am literally 4.9% and was absolutely dumbstruck when I saw that twice | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 11:58 PM |
| 1 | First approach ever, next step? (at the gym)Also, what's the point of confusing her? Is it so she doesn't immediately have her defenses up? | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | First approach ever, next step? (at the gym)I've always been skinny lmao. One of the reasons I'm trying to bulk. I still am not gaining fat even though I'm definitely seeing muscle size boosts and my weightlifting numbers go up. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 11:55 PM |
| 1 | First approach ever, next step? (at the gym)Right, I could've been more playful and teased her about it right out of the gate, that's way better. Instead I made it clear that I was focused on something about her and had an opinion about it without much drive to take any further actions. Good to know | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 11:53 PM |
| 1 | First approach ever, next step? (at the gym)You said girls will react positively if the guy is good looking. Put my description in comments in case that was relevant to what you said. And if that changed what your advice would be like | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | First approach ever, next step? (at the gym)Hmm, I'd like to have it. I'll try to come up with a way to polarize. I need to prep for being fine with rejection. I've been rejected through social circle "beta game" before (prior to TRP), but not cold approach yet | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 11:41 PM |
| 1 | First approach ever, next step? (at the gym)People have said I'm good looking since I was little, I've also been lifting for 4 months now. 4.9% bodyfat 6'0". This was more of a see what happens/get over approach anxiety approach if anything. Anything I could and should have done differently? Edit: I put my stats in the comment in case it matters | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 11:38 PM |
| 1 | First approach ever, next step? (at the gym)It's possible, her initial smiled seemed pretty genuine, but you could be right. I really didn't have a game plan at all if I'm being honest. I just wanted to do it for once and become a familiar face so that I wouldn't be a random guy next time. Any tips for what I could have done instead of the weaker approach style I did? Any tips for how to get her number next time? | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 11:32 PM |
| 3 | I have a male therapist right now, and even after one session, I'm seeing huge growth in terms of my EQ just from being vulnerable. Would getting a second female therapist help me deal with my social anxiety around women? Anyone with experience who can give me advice?Tell me about it. I am a psych major and not one was LTR material. The only normal girl, psych-related field is family systems and human development. It's a somewhat different major and they seemed okay | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 10:50 PM |
| 2 | How do you go about splitting the bill with a chick?Ideally, she'll reach for her purse/wallet of her own volition. Some girls do and it shows that they take responsibility and don't expect you to wine and dine them through life. Treat it like your own shit test to her, to see what kind of a girl she is. If she doesn't even try, just say, "I'll take care of the first date". Why not push it, I mean you'd save money? Well, you could try to bring it up, but then the trade off is you lose one of your best and earlier shit tests that you can give her … | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | LTR is slightly cross-eyed, otherwise gorgeousThank God this sub has some decent people commenting | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 10:38 PM |
| 2 | LTR is slightly cross-eyed, otherwise gorgeousWoah, I wouldn't tell her. Most times I wouldn't say hold back a comment, but that's kind of fucked up. I'm sure she'll fix it one day when/if she has the means. If a girl is fucking up her own appearence, bad clothes, fat, shit body language, then whatever. The eye comment is just a low blow though. If you don't want to deal with it, make an excuse and next. You don't have to resort to that | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 10:36 PM |
| 7 | I have a male therapist right now, and even after one session, I'm seeing huge growth in terms of my EQ just from being vulnerable. Would getting a second female therapist help me deal with my social anxiety around women? Anyone with experience who can give me advice?I wouldn't get a female therapist, I'll tell you why. I've had them. Most are damaged women themselves. One was an old bitchy woman that purposefully used anger provoking language while I was talking about an ex that I had unresolved damage over. Some other ones were just plain unable to relate to any problems I had because women don't have to deal with the struggles of a man in a blue-pilled world. Maybe there are good ones out there, but the ones I had were either damaged or just great at list… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 10:29 PM |
| 4 | How did women react to your first kino attempts vs. how you expected they'd react? (Reality vs. Expectations)Thanks man, this is actually my first Reddit post ever, I appreciate going out of your way for the acknowledgement, wasn't expecting it | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 10:13 PM |
| 5 | First threesome, need advice!You're an F? | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 09:59 PM |
| 1 | SemenretentionI put almost no effort into wording it in a more comprehensible way lmao | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 09:55 PM |
| 1 | SemenretentionUnejeculated semen is reabsorbed back into the body. You might get a negligible amount of testosterone back. You won't have a flush of oxytocin from jizzing, so you won't get a more cuddly, vulnerable vibe to you post-nutting. Therefore you'll still have more energy and unreleased sexual desire. Really it's not much, but you'll have more desire and women can sense that vs being more tired and beta post-nut. Don't read too far into it Edit: meant to reply to OP lol | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 09:52 PM |
| 4 | Former, broken plate now wants to be "just friends"I'm not entirely sure how to answer most of your question, but blocking just looks butthurt. I wouldn't do that unless she continues to barrage you with really needy and annoying shit after you handle it in a good way. And if you already said to stop. Insta-block just seems bad | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 09:42 PM |
| 3 | How did women react to your first kino attempts vs. how you expected they'd react? (Reality vs. Expectations)Thanks man, I read it a while ago, but a refresher would be good. I'll check it out agan | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 08:50 PM |
| 3 | How did women react to your first kino attempts vs. how you expected they'd react? (Reality vs. Expectations)Right, I'm so new to it that it seems special when it shouldn't be. Thank you for pointing out that element that is floating around my head. So far I'm stuck at shoulder touches (easy enough) and I've never initiated kino prior to that. All the girls I've ever dated all gamed themselves almost entirely and I went through the bases without having to escalate prior. I never had to apply it to be honest. I'll just have to go through the process of kino escalation and see what happens | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 08:38 PM |
| 6 | How did women react to your first kino attempts vs. how you expected they'd react? (Reality vs. Expectations)I'm fully aware, I'm genuinely just curious | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Time to jump ship?There's your answer right there. You answered it yourself if you can see it | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 12:54 AM |
| 1 | How to trigger emotions?Accidentally recommended book to OP, but still good. Book of Pook | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How to trigger emotions?Book of Pook. It's very inexpensive for a book recommendation Edit: meant to reply to a comment, but still a good read for triggering emotions | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 09:55 PM |
| 1 | I've never touched a woman before, where do I start?It's fine to go for the shoulder touch. I've just gotten into touch, myself. Done about 8 shoulder touches, including full palm of hand on shoulder. I've either gotten neutral reactions or smiles. I wasn't trying to game though, but it was practice getting their attention to talk to them (they weren't looking at me) | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Does cutting the date short work in your favor?I wouldn't wait a week. Strike while the iron is hotter without coming across as needy. She might auto-reject herself if you wait that long. At the least, text her your number (if it's already the day after the date). Edit: I don't know about how long to wait to hang out, but I mean don't leave the number hanging that long* | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 09:16 PM |
| 2 | "What do you want from this?" she asked on the second date."dead"? Haha | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 08:43 PM |
| 9 | "What do you want from this?" she asked on the second date.He's right, this girl sounds like she has more red flags than a Chinese parade | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a girl your friend has previously fooled around with?Fuck no, not as an LTR anyway. Knowing she could re-fuck my friends (from social circle and hanging out together) and being sexually aroused every time they're together while we're dating would be cancer. If just a FB or FWB then who cares. I would not upgrade above plate | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Hypertrophy or Strength training?My personal trainer and I were talking about this. You can do a month of strength (1-5 reps) I do (4-6) though. And then do a month of hypertrophy (he says 6-12) but I do 8-12 reps. Of course reps is based on weight, strength will be heavier weights than hypertrophy. The plus of alternating, is that the strength month will let you lift way heavier for when you switch to your hypertrophy month | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I died a bit inside today...Let your friends have whatever mediocre, blue-pilled goals they have. But that being said, I agree that it's mediocre and astonishing, but not surprising, that their goals are so low | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Is a high N count automatically disqualifying?Like Bobbie, said, depends what you want. But if wanting LTR, huge red flag | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to get a plate to lose weight?I feel you, I had an ex, that while she didn't blow up, did put on a little bit of a gut, and even then it was a noticeable drop in SMV for me. If the sex is still good enough to be with her at her current weight, you can at least try. No harm if it's still worth it. But yeah, it might be a lost cause otherwise | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to get a plate to lose weight?It's hard to get a girl to lose weight of her own volition by trying to influence her and is playing with fire comfort-wise. You could try to dropping small, subtle comments about your own weight (like body fat %) in the middle of talking fitness overall. But be sure to gloss over it quickly without time for her to contribute. You could take her to do more cardio-based activity dates. Cook good-tasting meals together that are low-calorie, good macro meals in hopes that she'll make it (cause it t… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Becoming relatableI don't think it's hardwired though. The brain has a coping mechanism called plasticity. The brain can alter it's neural connections even around surgical removal of brain matter. It'll take some time. But so does any major social or life change. Take some time to think about it, and gather more opinions. I'm just one person's opinion though. I have personal obstacles to my own opinion, but nonetheless, I see it as a near-future outcome for myself despite it. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Becoming relatableI understand. I can only speak to what ive mentioned. I still struggle with closing etc. I had an extremely rough set of experiences with girls while in formative years and it still fucks with me. I'm getting better. So I can see if this is a disappointing response. But overall, I do mean that yes, I went from relating to only damaged women to I can carry good conversations with normal ones and I do get IOIs from normal chicks now. I've internalized a lot of the red pill, but still working on th… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Becoming relatableI was unintentionally vague, I mean any females ranging from acquaintances to friends, to women showing IOIs. They just all generally seemed more sane the more I loosened up and related better to other well-adjusted men. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Becoming relatableI'm glad you definitely identify it as a comfort zone matter. Popular things can be annoying, because they can seem stupid or low effort (path of least resistance to more people), but often, some things are popular because they have well-liked elements. It's hard to relate to how people enjoy these little things in life (like jokes on 'Friends') when you're dealing with serious emotions internally. It's okay to let go and give in to some elements while retaining your opinions on other elements o… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Becoming relatable2 things: 1) Psychiatric diagnoses are a reference list of symptoms in the DSM-5 (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual). They're a checklist of symptoms designed to best describe a specific, identifiable disorder. Many have overlapping symptoms. It's possible you are on the spectrum, or as you said, just spent a lot of time alone. I would look up the "DSM-5 criteria" for Asperger's syndrome. I'm a psych major, but not qualified to diagnose whatsoever, it's just a suggestion to explore yourself and … | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Becoming relatableHmmm. I don't think there's anything wrong with not liking certain genres or seeing some things for what they are (rooting for players that aren't even you or your friends). Some of your preferences seem on the more narrow end (not appealing to the masses). But oh well. I'm on the autistic spectrum (high functioning) and I used to have similar thoughts and favored more specific interests. I don't know if that describes you, but it sounds like what I was like in a way. I didn't relate well to peo… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls never sit next to me in public?I'm honestly rarely in locations that max out seating, so I can't speak from experience. But women are generally a lot more risk averse compared to men. Socially and romantically, many don't like to make the first move, and are cautious of strangers moreso than men. In the animal kingdom, males make the mating displays in most species. I don't think it has anything to do with your looks. Women just aren't going to approach the way men would, and if they were to just sit near or next to you, it's… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Becoming relatableHmm, can you elaborate on what stands out from you and other men (your average guy so to speak)? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 07:06 AM |
| 4 | Becoming relatableTry making stable male friends. Or obtain stable male role models to learn from. It's often said you are most like your 5 closest friends. As the quote goes. Relate to people (males) first becuasd same sex is by default more relatable already Edit: added: I used to draw attention from damaged chicks, and I started just not tolerating them. Started having better self control myself and at least my female friends started to be more stable as well. It mostly starts with emotional regulation and jus… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 07:02 AM |
| 2 | F in chat lmao [FR]It sounds like this was by choice and not failure. If you think you made the right choice by not fucking over your buddy at his place by being rude you didn't fail. It's about your perspective in this case Edit: grammar | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend wants to meet male friends when we travel together, what should I do if I don't want it?She's officially told you, "I don't respect your opinion". She's giving you a nuclear level shittest. Leave before she cheats or branch swings. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 06:09 AM |
| 0 | This was done through text, but I could see how it would apply in person. Holy shit, I feel like I've been redpilled and I'd like you guys' insight on if I'm being biased or if this is really the case.No problem. Honestly, most people are superficial in dating but wouldn't admit it. I can't attest to the difficulty you are describing. However, from posts of other redditors, it does seem like they can pull it off with the right game and improvements and vibe | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 03:34 AM |
| 1 | This was done through text, but I could see how it would apply in person. Holy shit, I feel like I've been redpilled and I'd like you guys' insight on if I'm being biased or if this is really the case.I'm honestly not as much of a vet as it seems, I just have a really good grasp on mindset concepts and a lot of the principals and reasonings, lurked for a long time, now contributing Don't do surgery or costly options. Not worth it and you'll feel like a fraud. Clothing and outward appearance is that fasted but not necessarily cheapest SMV increase. Behavioral fixes like demeanor are quick and free but require self-awareness, and by making it habit Lifting, career, social takes more time but wi… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 02:57 AM |
| 4 | Why do girls never sit next to me in public?gotch, Women rarely approach, call it sexism or what have you, but women expect men to. Women send IOIs to men they want to approach them instead of doing the work themselves. They might approach covertly, like asking favors etc (damseling) or overtly (direct) in some cases. My point is that it's not common and those are a few reasons, but not an all-encompassing description | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 02:33 AM |
| 9 | Why do girls never sit next to me in public?How do you sit? Do you look anxious and look around a lot? Do you look at the girls specifically to see where they're sitting? Do they then notice you noticing them while they're picking a seat? Just sit in public and be cool. Try not to sit in a defensive manner (legs crossed, or making anxious movements). Just be you. Without seeing you, I can't say, buy just go about like normal and see what happens | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 02:24 AM |
| 3 | This was done through text, but I could see how it would apply in person. Holy shit, I feel like I've been redpilled and I'd like you guys' insight on if I'm being biased or if this is really the case.You've been so blue-pilled -as 99% of us were- that when you finally see how things work, it's shocking. That's how deep the lies are, enjoy your new cheat codes | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Push back on self improvement from othersNo problem | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 01:44 AM |
| 2 | TRP's Thoughts On Calisthenics?I meant to ask about your specific PF as a question, but I messed up my earlier comment Edit: and no problem! | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 01:38 AM |
| 3 | TRP's Thoughts On Calisthenics?Wow, for the PF near you, there's a bench press/squat rack etc. with an empty bars that you can add plates to? And not just Smith machines and dumbbells? That's news to me, or just specific to that particular PF | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Push back on self improvement from othersYou're making them realize that they are average and not having upward mobility. It's a defense mechanism. Treat it like a shit test and ignore or agree and amplify. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Push back on self improvement from othersBecause a lot of people do not believe they can improve their circumstances or value with specific steps (why do you work out so much) and have poor discipline and only seek what is pleasurable (rice tastes bad). Just say, "I have goals I am trying to meet". Or "it feels good being healthy". You'll get these responses no matter what because so many people are such defeatists who can't see or don't care if their life stagnates at just average Honestly, just do you, because you'll never run out of… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 01:11 AM |
| 5 | TRP's Thoughts On Calisthenics?You can start at planet fitness or an equivalent for about $10. Ultimately you will want to move to a gym with free weights, as PF does not have barbells. I've had free weight gyms for $25, but a lower gym will not be bad for newbie gains. Just be safe and learn proper form and don't lift too heavy. Leave your ego at the door when you lift | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 12:46 AM |
| 1 | TRP's Thoughts On Calisthenics?Edit: accidentally replied to main post | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 12:45 AM |
| 1 | FB I went on vacation with last month says she wants to just be friends as she's "figuring out" where talking to some other guy is going to lead to. Do I:Next her mentally, perhaps not in actuality. If she still puts out who cares. But she plays games and it becomes a hassle next actually and not just mentally edit: I obviously can't read, ignore my comment | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 12:24 AM |
| 1 | “what’s your body count”Does this actually matter? Assuming you do everything else correctly in the red pill, have a decent number, and can dread her successfully, does it matter how many lays you tell her if she knows damn well that you can get more easily? Edit: I understand the rule #2, but I'm genuinely wondering if it ultimately affects you that much | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 12:21 AM |
| 1 | TRP's Thoughts On Calisthenics?Lift. What is the reason you are avoiding lifting weights? Edit: restructured my comment | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 12:05 AM |
| 3 | How to bust out of the LIMBOEscalate and polarize. If you stay in limbo she's gonna move on to a Chad that does those two things | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | I’m mildly autistic and have trouble initially talking to people, but after 20 mins I’m fineI'm on the spectrum, too. I have Asperger's, which is high-functioning autism, as you probably know. The best I ever do when I talk to people at first is try to be unfiltered. You mess up the first few times going unfiltered, but you learn new patterns. When I try to analyze my first interaction minutes I fuck myself over. You have to go with the flow of your observations and first instincts or it's tough Edit: added text: Honestly, being as a semi-autistic person, you have thoughts that neuroty… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 09:46 PM |
| 1 | What are the best mobile apps to use for general self improvement and organisation.Sure thing man, I love that app | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 09:20 PM |
| 4 | How to find something to talk about with women?Don't forget to tease and role-play. It adds things to talk about. Tease: when she does something less-than-perfect (or way too perfectionistic) it's an easy tease opportunity. You can tease differences in taste, too. "Ew, you like XYZ, that's gonna be a deal breaker for me" etc. You get the point. You can tease on a variety of things if you are not being so serious Role-play: You can just make up random, spontaneous roles out of thin air. If she does something you don't like, you can talk about… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | I got some troubles declining events I don't really care - help neededIf you don't have plans on that day: "I think I might have plans on that day, I'll check" then go make interesting plans and let them know you were busy like you thought If you do have plans on that day already, which you should be, because you're the prize and your life should be badass and interesting: then be honest and tell them you have plans Either way, orient your reason on that you already have plans, preferably actually fun plans | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 09:07 PM |
| 3 | What are the best mobile apps to use for general self improvement and organisation.Underarmour MyFitnessPal. It's great to when you first start lifting to keep track of calories and macros, and is free for basic essential features. You can scan barcodes for exact nutrition counts. Just be sure to have a food scale to be accurate. Microsoft Excel Spreadsheets for mobile. Why? You can keep track of various things. I keep track of my lifting numbers on there. And if you wanted to keep track of stats, like which approaches work etc or other data, you'd be able to if you're a stats… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Please Proxy Fuck Me With Your Phallic Metal InstrumentI see your point,women getting tatted isn't some devious or overtly, intentionally stupid decision. You make a great point of describing her reasoning and circumstances. But I think the broader point is that these women ultimately, usually carry nothing but downsides in the end with getting a tattoo. Small ones are debatable as to wether it matters. Overall though, it doesn't add any positives to a women's descion making abilities or appeal | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | FINALLY AN LTR WORTHY GIRL!!! But How Do I Maintain Frame and Keep One-itis at Bay?You recognize AWALT but seem to be setting that notion aside to a degree. Given any reasonable opportunity to do so, she will AWALT. Treat her like she has already AWALT'd in your mind. Just don't treat her like she is blatantly doing AWALT-like things, but just have the the mindset that she has edit: it sounds like you have a bit of a unicorn-outlook and makes me wonder if that's seeping out of you in a subtle, subconscious, but noticeable way | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Does Finally Accepting TRP Lower Your Sex Drive?No, it doesn't, but perhaps the truths of the Red Pill are recently depressing you. Depression, sadness, and apathy in general will lower your sex drive and other biology function efficiency (like appetite, alertness, etc). You're fine man, just take some breaths and accommodate yourself to the pill for a bit | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Is there even a point to cut?Cut enough to look better, then gain more muscle, then cut again. If you're concerned about losing it all at once, do it in shorter phases to where you won't be "small" as you see it Edit: I've never had to cut (high metabolism?) So take this advice with a grain of salt | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 02:33 PM |
| 27 | Need feedback on looksYou don't look bad, I'd say you're better than average. If you hadn't posted how you felt about yourself, and I just saw your pictures randomly, I would have never assumed you felt that way about yourself. Improve your status and demeanor, lift, improve your frame and outlook, because how you perceive your ideal and current looks is surely undercutting the qualities I just mentioned, that you should aim to improve instead Edit: I do think you look more masculine with a beard, but so do a lot of … | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 02:23 PM |
| 2 | How do you reset your unconcious behavior patterns?That men develop a sense of 'toxic' shame around being masculine, sexual creatures. To take charge and not be a rollover who seeks approval. The source of the societal reasons for lack of male guidance and how to overcome this shame | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 02:04 PM |
| 1 | How to not stick you dick in crazy when they're all crazy?All women are somewhat crazy because they are routinely heaped with praise and attention for breathing and having tits and a vag, but deep down they know they're not special unicorns. They're living a constant delusion and will always be insecure and unsure of themselves. That said, there's a difference between that source of crazy and crazy that stems from horrible father figures, rape, being beaten, heavy drug use, and disorders. You can stick your dick in ordinary neurotic femaleness but not … | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Implications of being dumped by low-SMV girl?View it this way, you fucked up by dating an ugly chick by choice, not because you got dumped. There are countless, even trivial reasons, a girl will dump a guy, and it probably had to do with your behaviors, not your visible SMV (looks). Who knows, maybe she was aware of the large difference and dumped you to spare herself from being dumped by you | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 01:50 PM |
| 1 | The more alpha I become the more enemies I makeMajor self-improvements make other men realize how stagnant their own states are, especially if they are defeatists who don't think it's possible to have the successes you're having. That said, it's hard to say how to stop it without knowing your overall demeanor and other factors that could be contributing to this situation against you | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 01:45 PM |
| 2 | I try too hard. Help me outWhat happened recently just before you started slipping back into the anger phase? It sounds like some other things were going well besides that | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 01:39 PM |
| 3 | AWALT. Lesson's you can learn from Chanel Miller and Brock TurnerI wonder how this exact situation would have played out if everything stayed the same, except for escalating in such a putrid location. I doubt she would have ever been "Emily Doe" if he had just taken her to an empty frat room and 2 guys didn't incidentally walk by to see an "attempted" dumpster-rape | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Self loathingNo problem, this stuff always passes with the right effort and attitude. And remember, there are always people worse off who would kill to at least be where you are in life right now. Edit: accidentally replied to original post instead of comment reply | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Advice for oneitis?No problem, and she probably did notice some improvements that shifted her behavior, just probably not enough to have the desired effect. I'd reevaluate defecating where you masticate if the job aligns with your desired ultimate career field or is an immediate stepping stone to your dream field and you need good references from it. Any women can use HR like a weapon. Pychologically, avoidance of something causes you to think about it more. Think of some solitary tasks or ones she has no part in … | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 01:08 PM |
| 2 | The problem with women that have tattoos, and why its a major red flagI've never even seen a good small tattoo on a woman. It's strange, but it's almost like tattoos are like clothing in a way. If a woman's got nothing on, it still seems like its covering her up a bit. It's just distracting in my opinion. Tattoos just take away from the female form | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Should I text a girl I had a good time last night even though the hook up was kinda trash?If you're just trying to to get proof, just apologize over text, don't lie. Why make her think it was great? Unless you are still or were quite attracted to her and want to meet up again | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 03:40 AM |
| 1 | RespectPart of it is the Halo effect, attractive people tend to receive more perceptions of positive attributes for being merely more attractive. It's also size and strength, it creates perceived dominance in a variety of aspects | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 03:28 AM |
| 5 | Advice for oneitis?If it's getting toxic for you: I.e. sucking your soul out one drip at a time, taking up too much of your time thinking about, costing you actually chances with other women or blinding you to the fact that other women are sending you IOIs, you have a couple of choices: Polarize: Make a reasonable move, be more flirtatious and get her to take a stance on you. It doesn't matter if she rejects you, because if she's not into you, she won't be at some other random time point. Next: has she passed you … | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 03:19 AM |
| 5 | How do you escalate with a shy girl after you isolate her?This, even if she "takes the pill every day" | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 11:52 PM |
| 3 | How do you escalate with a shy girl after you isolate her?If she genuinely has not been with anyone before, be prepared to instantly attain alpha status with her by default and be prepared if she becomes overly attached. It does happen with fresh virgins | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How do I overcome addiction?It ought to work with pornography as well, however there is scientific debate as to whether pornography addiction is a valid addiction. So I can't say for certain it applies. Additionally, the vast majority of males view pornography, so it depends on more if your friends or people in your social circle also view it out in excess or use it in out-of-control amounts. It depends on whether they talk about it often, share it with you, remind you of it, etc. But it's a common enough behavior that you… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Self loathingRemember how this makes you feel and also realize that one day you won't feel this way anymore if you keep improving. Think of it this way: the pain and discipline you have now will propel you to be a phenomenal person in the future. Know that this will be the feeling you look back on and not one that you'll be stuck on forever. Memorialize this time as the fuel you needed, rather than the situation you're drowning in | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Fuck buddy says she loves me and wants to be my girlfriendIf you're not exclusive then who cares? It's not disrespect. I suppose the only disrespect here is that she says she "loves you" while fucking another dude. It's not real love anyway, even of you look at what love is through a red-pill lense it doesn't even meet that threshold so it's bullshit anyway in this instance. She's with another dude too, keep her around as long as it's enjoyable and plate additional women as well, not just this girl alone | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 05:33 PM |
| 10 | Falling hard for girl with baggage, how to deal with this?That's the problem, she checks off a lot of your boxes and has some great submissive traits. But you have to look at the broader picture. Whatever pleasure she is offering now is going to go downhill once she starts wanting more comfort and greater commitment. Once she starts to show the crazy, it'll hit you out of nowhere and you'll be even deeper in your feelings than you are right now when it happens. There are less damaged, submissive women out there without kids. I'd make up some bullshit (… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Looking for escalation guideMy bad, I missed that word in your description. I'm not aware of any guides per se, but you should have a cocky-funny vibe to your voice and deeper intonation (speak from your chest not your nose). Don't speak too fast and make sure your voice has good enough volume to be heard clearly. As for words, use innuendo where appropriate if she's responding positively to you, tease her part of the time you are talking, refrain from saying blue-pilled comments, and pass shit tests. Make her laugh, too | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 01:05 PM |
| 5 | Looking for escalation guideGoogle "DiCarlo Escalation Ladder: Concise and Emphasized" and click the Reddit link for it | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Now I understand why you don't co-habitateThank you for the correction! It was something I knew but spaced my mind when I posted this | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Plate told me to check on herUnless you're significantly responsible for her well-being: like getting her hammered at your place with booze and then she tries driving home, or some comparible example, you shouldn't feel compelled to check on her | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 11:04 PM |
| 7 | Help handling Title 9 sexual assault allegation?Lawyer if possible, save all texts and messages you have from her. Some universities have been successfully sued recently for denying due process to male students. Lawyer up | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 10:52 PM |
| 4 | AWALT Shocker (somewhat personal experience)It's shocking until you see it enough times. Never have so much trust that a woman won't AWALT at some point Edit: grammar | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/19 03:20 AM |
| 8 | Common female fantasies/turn ons they don’t speak about?I had an ex that liked handcuffs, spanking, dressing up as a school girl. Didn't realize women were into that stuff prior to dating her | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 02:56 AM |
| 6 | How do I overcome addiction?Psychology Major, at a minimum replace the addictive substance etc. With another positive activity that gives you a natural high and endorphins: ie. Exercise, spending time with friends, etc. Break off all of your friendships or relationships with people who also engage in the addictive behavior or substance. No matter what your will power and resolve is like, social influence is extremely powerful. Do this ASAP If you can't gradually reduce it while replacing it along the way, go cold turkey. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Extreme tiredness and low mood ruining my chances with girlsI started getting off energy drinks/energy shots and now I just take one serving size of panax ginseng and mix some caffeine mix into my water in the morning. I have energy all day on most days I do this | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 11:31 PM |
| 2 | How do you get over the sting of having made a beta faggot of yourself in the eyes of a girl you really liked?Move on and improve. It sucks to leave her behind in the trail of shame you paved for yourself. But get other girls and chances are she might be attracted to your new social proof and preselection from other girls wanting you. But don't do it to win her over, do it for yourself. If she comes back great, but that's not your goal | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 11:29 PM |
| 1 | If a random girl locks eyes with me I have a lot of trouble holding it. It just feels shameful and creepy and I feel like it causes me to miss out on potential opportunities how can I fix this ?That sounds good, so even if they look away immediately, you just wait for them to look back? Then call them over? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 11:17 PM |
| 5 | Now I understand why you don't co-habitateMy thoughts as well, terrible job of screening and not wrapping his dick before laying a low smv woman | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 10:01 PM |
| 1 | If a random girl locks eyes with me I have a lot of trouble holding it. It just feels shameful and creepy and I feel like it causes me to miss out on potential opportunities how can I fix this ?What was the next step you took after eye contact? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 09:32 PM |
| 6 | I did an experiment with my Tinder profile and it resulted in a crazy successThis is an interesting experiment This honestly goes to show that regular (appropriate?) pics and a bio description aren't necessarily enough for women to gauge interest through the LED screen of their phone. Looks like a stimulating photo gave women a more animated sense of how they'd expect to feel if they were with you, and tingles > self-established boundaries | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 09:15 PM |
| 11 | Now I understand why you don't co-habitateThis is definitely why you don't cohabitate unless you're married; even then, marriage is risky in itself. This guy failed from the moment she told him she had such a shitty list of hobbies for a woman. Is this their kids or just the woman's children. If single mother he definitely fucked up there, too | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 09:04 PM |
| 11 | Now I understand why you don't co-habitateA noble career in this day and age sadly. I hope you can help some men out of some dark places in the future | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Women's boundaries are different depending on men's attractivenessGood point, we tend to attribute additional successful values and traits to others while seeing our own failures as specific flaws in ourselves | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Women's boundaries are different depending on men's attractivenessIt's amazing -but not surprising- that women will tell themselves to not miss out on an alpha and break the rules "I value my career and wouldn't risk it! But I might not get a Chad's dick if I don't take this chance right now, so it's okay this time!" Meanwhile, if she can get a guy of a non-Chad's SMV outside of work, why break the rules? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 08:42 PM |
| 5 | I Can't Save Her, Can I?It probably overloaded your protective instincts and tanked your emotional state somewhat while you were simultaneously in a state of heightened and focused sexual arousal. Sounds like it was just an acute clusterfuck of emotions and sensations that you were not expecting in the slightest. It all came in while you were in a state of openness. It'll pass | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Plate denies sexWas the setting (a car) probably in public, too, setting off her anti-slut defense? Just a thought | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Anger phase?Because at some point you'll realize it's female nature and while AWALT applies, not all women are equally as bad as the worst examples. You'll use your red-pill knowledge to excel and improve your life. At some point, it'll show and you'll also learn to enjoy women through the lense of your newfound successes. I was pissed and despondent when I first found the red pill, but the anger fades as you learn to play the game of Life with new eyes | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Burning bridges or letting them decay?Don't burn your bridges unless someone is genuinely fucking you over, showing serious or repeated disrespect, or general poor treatment. I would just let any subpar and unfulfilling bonds decay, no arguments or anything. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Can someone describe the term "beta bucks" to me and from where it is derived? Specifically, how is "bucks" defined?Bucks, as in cash (as one interpretation of the word bucks). Example: Billy beta bucks paid for his girlfriend's college degree in full, and after she graduated, she cheated on him with alpha fucks behind his back and then left beta bucks | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 08:44 PM |
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