Found myself catching feelings for one of my plates ive been seeing for about 2 months. She likes to barrage me with nudes and follows up with something like “u don’t think I’m sexy?” If she doesn’t like whatever i respond with. She’s done this since the first week i met her. In all we’ve fucked about 6 times or so.

Flaked on a date before she went out of town for the weekend and has gone silent since.

Unfortunately the BP has gotten the better of me over the past few days and I’ve been finding myself overly obsessing. Saw her post some drunk fucks dancing on her story for what i interpret as attempt at dread.

You can save the whole oneitis spiel, i know that this is what it’s devolved into. I have other plates but i have this horrible tendency to get oneitis for the hottest one.

I know for my own good and sanity i probably need to next her and realign. In the event she circles back around how should i handle it?