Is becoming beta orbiter an irreversible process?

aftsov · 2017-05-19T09:31:02+00:00

Think of it like this:

Sexual attraction is like that math rhyme rule:

"5 and above you'll give it some love (give it a shove), 4 and below you let it go" Thats for rounding numbers.

Girls like you on a scale of 1 - 10.

If the girl likes you 10/10, you can have many orbiter tendencies she is willing to forgive.

If you are 5/10, you have less room for error.

If you are at 2/10 initially, you can raise her up with some game of course, but is it worth it? Also, brings me to the next point:

The reset

If a girl likes you 10/10 and then you act beta and she drops all the way down to 4/10, then you move on and she moves on and forget about eachother, then two years later you meet again, she'll be back to 10/10

This is very crude, but it works as a general rule

_the_shape_ · 2017-05-19T11:42:28+00:00

Reframe your question to read: "so long as you consider me to be beta orbiter material, out of necessity, I will consider you to be an absolute waste of time."

mallardcove · 2017-05-19T11:43:40+00:00

Yes

Better off scrapping her and finding new women

Questionablechoice · 2017-05-19T12:38:09+00:00

In general unless you have a significant break between now and when you re-engage it's a lot harder to get out of the orbiter viewpoint.

First impression are generally pretty strong. Cemented first impressions by actions take much longer to break.

Gradual change is hard to notice than instantaneous change.

So in general the path to self improvement is gradual.

quicklogaccount · 2017-05-19T13:10:23+00:00

No, not irreversible. If you do it right, it takes no effort at all.

Work on being attractive and fuck around and get abundance, thirst and scarcity are disgusting for women;
Once she sees you as a sexual man, she'll shit test your new frame. PASS it;
After you have established yourself as a sexual man she'll try to exchange validation. At this point just create sexual tension and escalate.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-05-19T14:13:56+00:00

No. You just have to be seen in alpha light. Stop contacting her, improve your looks, be seen displaying high value, be seen with social proof, be seen with other girls. You just have to change how you're perceived.

She doesn't consider you a sexual being. All u have to do is be seen under that light. Of she sees u making with another chick, you're suddenly on her radar.

MattyAnon · 2017-05-19T17:05:24+00:00

See sidebar: "There's this one girl...".

Don't even try and fix your orbiting situation: just stop orbiting that girl, and DATE others instead.

Title	Is becoming beta orbiter an irreversible process?
Author	demigorgon666
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	May 19, 2017 9:20 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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