Ive had this question come to mind more and more. I can remember being in high school and the social/dating scene felt intuitive. We all knew each other, we had grown up with each other, we were essentially a modern day tribe. The older I get the further away I get from any semblance of a tribe and when I meet people I know almost nothing about them compared to the people I grew up with. That nice girl might be the hometown slut that had 3 abortions in high school but I would never know because her tribal history is uknown to me. So my question is really, is this whole dating and creating family with people you don't know really all that natural? Shouldn't you marry young with people you know vs dating and maybe getting lucky but not knowing someones history(true nature). Enlighten me on your thoughts.