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Blue Pill Examplebadabinglove/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 04:09 PM
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Blue Pill Examplebadabinglove/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 03:15 PM
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badabinglove/r/askTRP22/11/15 06:44 AM
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badabinglove/r/askTRP13/07/16 09:18 PM
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badabinglove/r/askTRP31/07/16 04:56 AM
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badabinglove/r/askTRP02/07/16 05:27 PM
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badabinglove/r/askTRP05/09/16 06:03 PM
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badabinglove/r/seduction29/03/15 09:08 PM
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I respect that level of thirst.....that's impressive.
/r/seduction29/11/17 10:52 PM
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Sex is not gross or disgusting. It is a beautiful act. A recognition of our vulnerability in he infinite. What's more romantic than two people sharing the intimacy of literally being joined as one....and in this crazy world I can't think of a place that beats that. Like others have said you may need therapy but at a minimum you need to question your perspective on sexual activity.
/r/seduction29/11/17 10:52 PM
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you are a senior in college that did well. Im glad you did well. What is your major? what is your work schedule? Do you have kids?......ok, you can sit down now.
/r/seduction29/11/17 05:10 PM
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Lol spare time? Working full time and a STEM major leaves about enough free time to maybe get to the gym a couple times a week and go out with friends a couple times a month......
/r/seduction27/11/17 07:59 PM
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Be attractive...don't be unattractive....don't be weird. If you can do those 3 you will get laid without trying. If you aren't getting laid then you are either weird or unattractive. Its not complicated. Its just difficult to see. You can subdivide those 2 categories all you want but that's what it boils down to.
/r/seduction10/10/17 02:11 PM
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If I looked like that dude I would have zero problems with women....
/r/seduction13/08/17 03:51 PM
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It depends how bad it was but my gut tells me to not talk about it but change your behavior and lay back a little bit. If you aren't getting invited out anymore then I think you just chalk it up to a loss and move on to another group for a little while... I don't think I would apologize but then again I don't know exactly what you mean by "too touchy"
/r/seduction07/08/17 05:38 AM
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I'll take a stab at it. A hundred thousand years ago you couldn't fuck 150 men by the time you were a senior in college. It wasn't available. There just was not that many options. It's like asking why is sugar bad for you if you have evolved to like it. It's because the sugar we consume today is an entirely different beast than what our adaptations prepared us for.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 07:36 PM
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Nah mate, if she brings up seeing other people just tell her "that's what I thought this was all along, just having a good time...I thought you knew I was seeing other people..." Calm and casual. Keep the plate unless you don't find her attractive anymore.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 02:49 AM
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i think going silent makes her think you care. I would text her casually like you don't care.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 03:47 PM
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ok thanks
/r/askTRP08/07/17 01:18 AM
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I agree with you. Women always think socially and would know this.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 09:26 PM
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Solid podcast for more than just bjj. Solid life stuff too.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 02:54 AM
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please don't cite Kinsey. That guy was a hack and published horrible unfounded "science" his entire career.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 05:03 PM
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she is having a physiological response to trauma(this is actually a well documented phenomena, google it). She should see a shrink. Also try giving her a glass of wine before you guys start making out next time. She needs to relax. The vagina is meant for penetration and physically would not be painful unless you truly have a thor cock....So have her see a doctor but in the meantime try having a full day date where she gets super comfortable with you, then you guys should drink a little wine tog…
/r/askTRP16/06/17 04:46 PM
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yep, we all have to learn it. Usually the hard way. The only reason I know these things is because I've put myself in similar situations. Now I just shut up but I know what I know and if/when I am in a position to make an impact(hiring/firing/policy/protocol....etc ) I will use my knowledge. I will only argue or give my honest stance on reddit and when voting.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 03:35 PM
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I watched a guy try to argue with my sociology professor about the gender pay gap studies being flawed. That poor bastard had no idea what he was doing.....dont ever challenge people with the power to make your life miserable unless they are threatening your freedom or health. If my boss is a republican, than so am I. If my boss wants to suck off bernie sanders then I like bernie as well...you should be manipulating your environment. martyrdom is something the elite came up with so you would fee…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 02:37 PM
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First of all if you are under a 7 you should be meeting people through other people or at social events. Cold stone day game is for people who are above average looking with advanced social skills. Unless you are in that category I think you are wasting your time and energy.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 04:04 PM
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It's your perspective on masturbation that makes it so strong. If you masturbate all day obviously you aren't going to feel good. If you masturbate a couple times a week that can be very healthy. Obviously you need a healthy life and if you are struggling in multiple domains it's easy to blame it on masturbation. I have to ask, some of the most fulfilled people know masturbate. These leads me to the conclusion that it is not merely masturbation that is the enemy it is loneliness,depression, unfu…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 05:46 PM
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I don't doubt that she saw me as a step up but she was hot, had a lot of options and needed to marry to gain citizenship. She was here on visa. I don't blame her but it still sucked. I probably would have if she didn't show her cards too soon....
/r/MGTOW26/05/17 07:10 PM
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i recently got involved with a chinese girl here in the states. She was super hot and to be completely honest I am super lonely at this time in my life(engineering school and work full time). I logically knew it was stupid to get involved but we had great sex, fun times, and i got some small feelings for her.(nothing major). anyways, she wanted to get married. she was always probing my finances, always asking questions about things. When she figured out I was not going to marry her immediately s…
/r/MGTOW24/05/17 06:48 PM
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Its probably your personality and communication style. Women are VERY in tune with your mental state. Its biology, you can't really fool them. You probably need to go to therapy or do some serious changing internally. I know a handful of guys who look good but are absolutely insane and socially incompetent. A skinny guy with narrow shoulders who knows how to talk to girls, holds frame, and is mentally healthy is going to have a hotter girlfriend than a dude that looks like Brad Pitt but is a spa…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 01:56 PM
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you can tell from her picture that she needs to be chocked in bed and ignored 90% of the time outside of the bedroom. She won't admit it by that chick would do really well in a old school 1950's style relationship. she wants to be a servant she just doesnt know it.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 04:17 PM
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Question, I realize that you must remain dominant and I agree with your analysis but Jesus Christ how the hell is someone suppose to pass shit test after shit test for over a decade. Even the most dominate of men would struggle to do that...
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 09:45 PM
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let them drown. this isn't our responsibility. attraction rather than promotion. the only time you ever give that level of advice is if they explicitly ask what you think or what you would do. then present the above statement with calm rationale.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 04:55 PM
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antidepressants are known to significantly reduce sex drive. this is common. follow your doctors orders and try to build a life so that it is possible to reduce or taper off the meds(only under medical supervision and if the psychiatrist/psychologist thinks you are ready)
/r/askTRP13/05/17 04:33 PM
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bro you either have some mild/moderate depression going on. Low test. a really shitty diet,sleep,work schedule. or a combo. That isn't normal. If I don't cum once a week minimum then I can't stop thinking about fucking, Ill start thinking about manipulating any remotely attractive woman i can get my hands on.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 02:50 PM
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Can someone link the study? I need to read and share.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 04:16 PM
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Can I ask why this is relevant? genuinely curious about your line of thinking..
/r/seduction03/05/17 01:12 AM
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I have to say relying on a known addictive substance for a fixable issue is a little extreme. I completely understand the desire for a easy/quick fix but I can suggest other options. Make sure you have a good routine before bed and stick to hit(google them), as for social anxiety you should really see qualified psychologist/MFT but for the quick relief see a psychiatrist. Your social anxiety tells me there are external circumstances that aren't good or you have some internal battles you aren't a…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 04:08 PM
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I think it's a decent theory. I would add that it's always been only the top 20-25% of men who are getting female attention but the pool of women is shrinking a little bit. Add to that the different avenues females can gain atrention(social media, dating apps..etc) and it all becomes a different animal. I live in Southern California, a Mecca of hotties and I can tell you that even with almost zero fatties around the dating market had become a little more fierce. That friend of a friend you might…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 03:19 PM
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It's in our nature. We are providers by nature. We are protectors by nature. The problem is our environment has shifted. We live in the easiest environment the world has ever known(in the west), thanks to men. So now, our instincts are no longer useful.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 12:20 AM
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Don't subract from your life. Instead take on another pursuit that will eventually require you to drop a habit you want to get rid of. By doing this you will create a domino effect that is much much more effective and easier than attempting to purely abstain...
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 03:50 PM
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I havent smoked pot for 8 years. I used to use it in the wrong way. I am interested in experimenting in the way you have described. Can you tell me more about how you view it and how you use it?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 04:16 AM
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Then don't go. Find a better use of your time. I wish some one had told me I don't have to go if I don't want to a long time ago....I went to so many party's that were uncomfortable in high school because I felt I had to go even though I was in your situation....do something you genuinely find fun rather that forcing this situation....if people text and call just ghost them
/r/askTRP17/02/17 12:17 AM
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Ya but I personally know two. One got married to her high school boyfriend when they both graduated college. She never rode the CC both come from good families and i highly highly doubt their marriage won't work out. The other one only had two boyfriends and is married to the second who she dated for 6 years during college and after. These girls exist. The probability that you'll find one is low. But you can for sure find one close to these unicorns with some effort and patients and hard analysi…
/r/askTRP20/01/17 03:53 PM
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compassion with reality....solid comment.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 08:00 PM
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First of all. Don't argue with professors or people of power if they have the ability to impact your grade. Play chess not checkers. You will accomplish nothing by arguing in class other than put a target on yourself to receive more strict requirements for good grades. Secondly, just be aware of what is being said and have mental arguments to not allow that horseshit to penetrate your head. My sociology professor thinks I'm a feminist lol, but atleast I have an A on my transcript and when I am i…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 04:09 PM
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social engineering. Even people who did have decent fathers might have come from a time period where women were overtly submissive. Today's landscape is different, you must be comfortable being a little ruthless
/r/askTRP04/12/16 02:11 AM
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play casual organized sports. go from there. you need to build a social network through some kind of organized activity. I play soccer on the weekends.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 09:15 PM
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Exactly. as Patrice oneal says " she trying to fag you up!" And the longer your around her the easier it is to become human(a fag) rather than stoic and unaffected.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 03:30 PM
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start now. one of my greatest role models is my uncle(a businessman alpha who played college football). If my uncle told me something, it was gospel in my little head. You have an opportunity to help NOW more than you think.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:51 PM
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everyone here blaming the woman for taking the attention but NO ONE here is blaming the men (or lack of men) in that young mans life. If a male figure in his life would have raised him properly, or pulled him aside he could have been shown things to ease his reality. Instead he got served with some cognitive dissonance, some perspective shattering stuff. The problem with being hit in the face with the reality is that it is hard to digest. He probably will not get the message because it is too mu…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:46 PM
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patrice oniel is the messiah. if you all aren't listening to him you are missing out. his wisdom is years ahead of 99% of the content here.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 09:38 PM
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Women are not innately unhappy, they are children. To understand women you need to think back to when you were a child. When I was a content little boy my parents took care of everything for me(food,housing,entertainment,toys). I didn't have a care in the world. Contrary to what "independent" women say, they really want the content feeling that I described where everything was taken care of and secure. On top of that they need to look at you like you are almost superhuman. I remember thinking wh…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 05:04 PM
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It comes down to risk vs reward. Not what is right or wrong. Want to do semi-shady things and profit from it? Go right ahead and you'll probably be just fine. A lot of people myself included intuitively think that people who bend the rules or fuck people over will get theirs at some point. The reality is that rarely happens and the people who take from this world generally end up in better positions than people who want to do right. For me personally I have to find a balance but I am not above f…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 09:27 PM
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It's simple you need to change your goal. I spend most of my time on a very logical problem solving mindset but when you are out withy friends the goal is not to solve problems so my behaviors and thought will change. You should recognize the same with women, logic is not important or relavent to an interaction with women. As soon as you start interacting with women you should be light, teasing, and unbothered by the teenagers(women). Bringing logic to certain interactions is like bringing the w…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 05:10 PM
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Red pill has officially become no fap and Cosmo combined....
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 05:42 PM
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It's almost like we've been taught we are equals and need to really listen to them rather than listen to our gut which tells us she's just an irrational being
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 03:49 PM
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you just have to filter it man. Its a free place and anyone is allowed to join so obviously there is going to be some static. Just judge for yourself and no need to read more than an half hour a week from this sub. you should be out DOING stuff. train twice a day, prepare your meals, meditate, organize, clean, get a second job, go on more dates....go out there, don't focus too much on here, this stuff is learned through experience and beyond the main ideas, doesn't translate well to words anyway…
/r/askTRP29/10/16 09:32 PM
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I know tons of people who haven't been in relationships and get in one while they are in grad school. what makes them damaged goods? at leas this dude has sexual experience. all he needs is some self confidence, a chill pill, and some life perspective on why he might want to put some effort into something long term. he isn't un-helpable like you are suggesting....
/r/askTRP27/10/16 03:13 AM
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its something you should lie about. Im not saying its something flawed about you but there are things you need to white lie about. Just like a woman would lie about how she never cheated on her boyfriend or how many men she's been with. You should extend whatever your longest relationship was by a little bit and don't bring it up more than its asked about. I am in the same position. Ive had very brief relationships that I wouldn't consider anything major enough to classify a true relationship. I…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 03:06 AM
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I have to agree with some of the comments, that maybe you should mellow out a little. Its a little like blaming police officers for the war on drugs, they didnt create this dynamic. All that being said I got some sweet satisfaction out of your story and I understand your mission.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 05:34 PM
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What do these women think? I've been single for awhile so maybe my point of view is the outlier but why the fuck would anyone just willingly sign up to father someone else's kids? It boggles my mind that people sign up for that level of masochism
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 04:36 PM
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I would have to say it started with not getting laid on high school, then having success in highschool but completely blowing it with a relationship. Then a mediocre college career followed by years of nothing. I'm not a neck beard, I have pretty cool friends and most would t believe what I just typed. I find motivation in this sub and it's probably the only place in the world where someone has legitimately explained the biological nature of human relationships.(the others I've seen are fluffy a…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:40 PM
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I would add to this. I was ignorant about my physical stature(denial is blinding) but the universe and society doesn't care what I don't see. They will treat me objectively regardless of the subjective view I have of myself. There are countless examples
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 05:07 PM
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I completely agree. I think the time under tension is big factor in this and ALSO when you are doing reps methodically you have a stronger mind-muscle connection and you are basically forced to have proper form. so many guys(myself included) get away with cheating reps when they are heavy and explosive.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 09:04 PM
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My posture is pretty good, it's something I work on all the time. I could work on my self esteem for sure though.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 09:45 PM
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I always overshoot the mark on calories when I gain weight. How much of a surplus has allowed you to gain but stay semi lean?
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:58 PM
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this is true. I wouldn't say I'm a skeleton but I am not a big dude. I didnt realize how big people were until a few years ago. I looked up average heights and weights and I am right on the 1970's average for healthy men. But in 2016 the average guy is 190. I thought that was because of obesity skewing the average but when I walk around in public everyone is just bigger in general.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:57 PM
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ya man thats the thing, Ive put on 10lbs before and it sort of felt good to have thick forearms and generally be a little bigger but my athleticism went down noticeably(surfing and soccer). Also I am naturally in the 160s so when I got in the mid 170s it took A LOT of effort to keep that weight.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:54 PM
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right on, that makes me feel better
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:51 PM
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I personally think it is not accurate the way TRP views men as having a harder time than women. All of my super attractive male friends literally have 5-6 females calling, texting, trying to suck their dick all the time. I see no difference between their experience and that of a super hot chick.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 05:13 PM
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I think this concept gets parroted all the time by TRP in general. To some extent I get the point but at the same time human intimacy is a requirement for human fulfillment. I am in better shape, make more money, have more freedom yet I personally am no where near as happy as I was in high school when I had a lot of close friends, a number of sexual interests and a few intimate connections. humans are social primates. You can't rely on a woman to completely fulfill you but I would bet a good amo…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 12:14 AM
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mild medication and cbt for social anxiety. I have no clue about aspergers but do research. I would say the more socialization you can get the better.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 08:36 PM
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the post was an analysis of someone struggling with women and coming to some reasonable conclusions as to why he was struggling. I think I did that successfully. I never claimed to be better than him, but I do know more than him about this subject, in fact if he learned a small amount of self respect he could probably fuck my girlfriend. The only thing that I have found to work really well for inner game is to make sure I am physically fit and to constantly do short CBT exercises where I give my…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 03:55 PM
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I see about 90% of people in my gym, even people with trainers that are lifting weights without proper mobility. They end up with slightly off posture, blown out rotator cuffs, weak knees and ankles. A LOT of people that think they are doing the basic lifts correctly are slightly wrong. If you grew up going to school in america then you spent countless hours sitting in a chair. the probability that you have muscle imbalances is almost a guarantee. I highly recommend seeing a physio before liftin…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:18 PM
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not lifting. If I could do it all over again I would do A LOT of posture exercises for a month or two. Then move into bodyweight exercises while for a couple months. and then Finally start weight training.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 05:01 AM
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move to a younger professionals city(new york, los angeles , chicago, etc etc) and live with other people or in apartment complexes full of younger adults. join sports leagues.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 07:55 PM
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Basically fight club. I watch that movie at least 3 times a year to keep myself in check.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 05:53 AM
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Thanks for the info
/r/askTRP19/08/16 06:15 AM
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Ok I'm game for that. Did you just go to a few before you found one ? Or is there a certain type of therapy that tends to be more old school and less fluff?
/r/askTRP19/08/16 03:42 AM
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I've read on these threads that therapy kind of furthers blue pill tendencys so I wanted to ask this sub for their advice because I believe red pills base theory
/r/askTRP19/08/16 03:35 AM
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I'm new and hardly a red pill man but my experience with oneitis is pretty good. The only thing that has ever really helped it is to try and connect with someone else, and look at other people you know that are obsessed with someone and see how silly it is from an objective perspective and try to carry that logic over to your own life. Also so CBT can help. And lastly you are probably in love with an idealized idea of someone and not the reality of the person or the relationship that actual was.…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 03:31 AM
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Thank you, this is the kind of information I was after. I'd never heard of this before. Do you have any other gems or more detail and more information ?
/r/askTRP18/08/16 06:09 AM
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Not a bad idea
/r/askTRP18/08/16 05:26 AM
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Eat, pray, love?
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:56 AM
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Spend all your money and time on physiotherapy and alternative and tradition treatment of migrains. Without health you have nothing, that should be your only focus until you are back to health
/r/askTRP09/08/16 07:33 PM
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Thats a good point and I think a valid response but how then do you have a family? My friends that have kids say its the greatest fulfillment and joy to raise and provide for their offspring. I don't think I want to miss out on that experience.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 10:42 PM
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I don't think tribalism = incest. Humans are tribal. I guess the underlying concept behind my question was that the further you get away from the tribal experience the more risk you assume.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 09:33 PM
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lol, I don't follow your line of thinking, how did you figure that?
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:20 PM
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unless you are packing a very healthy piece of meat then don't send the pic. you will gain nothing and give her blackmail material. "come over and I'll show you is perfect"......on the other hand if you are packing a good looking unit then send that pic and you'll get a reputation of having a unit and girls will be interested in "being with the big guy"
/r/askTRP07/08/16 06:58 PM
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Dude, your playing games and trying to be above it and she called your bluff and one upped you. Women are fucking masters at this. I had a girlfriend in highschool pretend she didnt know it was me when I called and she knew damn well who I was. Any game you think your playing on them they have already seen or already done themselves. You should have had a mellow, uninvolved conversation and just caught up. or just don't answer the text. The games you played are not genuine, she knows you know wh…
/r/askTRP07/08/16 06:53 PM
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her delts look like bowling balls and her abs are so chiseled you'd probably think you were fucking a dude. Masculine/feminine polarity brah. Its one thing to be in shape, its another to try and be a competitive weightlifter.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 07:20 PM
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Its disgusting. The hot girl I grew up with in high school now posts photos on Facebook of her doing crossfit and its fucking gross, she ruined herself.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 07:02 PM
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have compassion for the suffering. let him ride the ride and if he ever asks how you think about women, give him a small taste of how you perceive female dynamics without pushing/telling him how to act. The best sales tactic is attraction rather than promotion.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 06:58 PM
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what the fuck do people do that don't exercise at least informally? my favorite things to do involve being somewhat athletic.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 01:17 AM
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I have a feeling this isn't as uncommon a situation as I originally thought.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 02:59 PM
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yeah, i don't have much self esteem. I haven't really had experiences that would foster self esteem, actually, I've had more than a few that debilitate self esteem. faking it generally feels and comes off awkward. I am however attempting grow some genuine self esteem.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 02:54 PM
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thank you for your thoughts. A big part of my insecurity is I am in school at 27 and don't have a career. I went back to school at 25 after a mediocre realestate job in my early 20s. I think your right that it will go away when I finally have a decent job doing something somewhat meaningful. I will try the mindset you described when interacting.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 02:49 PM
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Ive started lifting and generally taking care of myself. Anything on the side bar that really stood out to you?
/r/askTRP31/07/16 06:15 AM
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Thats all I do, Ive had A LOT of paid sexual encounters so its not sex. My desperation comes from genuine insecurity. Everytime I get a little bit of interest from a woman I feel this overwhelming sense of "less than" and I feel uneasy and a need to perform. Im am personable with people in general but whenever it becomes a more than friends situation I go blank with confusion/fear/desperation/acting. I appreciate the thought though. prostitutes have given me a very healthy understanding of what …
/r/askTRP31/07/16 06:12 AM
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honestly if your anymore that 20-30lb more than what your frame would naturally hold then you probably look weird to women.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 11:02 PM
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You don't need cologne.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 02:37 PM
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Ive been noticing this more and more. There is a girl in my class who is in the 45th percentile of women. Shes not overweight but just an average looking basic bitch. She constantly swings her bat with a couple of guys in my class who are competing natural body builders. Its hilarious. But the other thing I've noticed recently is that these women get laid by guys way out of there league fairly frequently. They never end up in a relationship with them but just having sex with guys outside their l…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 07:19 AM
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or maybe just not be caught up in childs play. This is a MENS sub mostly inhabited by man children who need help getting away from bullshit like pokemon.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 12:05 AM
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Men above the age of 16 should be prepared to go to war. Are you ready to go to war? if you are then play some pokemon if thats how you like to spend your down time, but your other ducks better fucking be in a row...dont hamster this shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 01:22 AM
2

People hate when you keep it so simple because they want some edge that no one knows about. Well let me give you the secret. Eat roughly 3000 calories of quality food(binge occasionally), go to the gym consistently and work out smart(good form, reasonable weight), be active, be active and sleep well. If you only check those boxes for a few months you will look REALLY good. No secrets man, thats it.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 08:58 PM
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this post and its upvotes makes me question whether or not I can continue to take this sub seriously. Jesus guys, Me and a hot girl in class were making fun of this shit. go lift faggots.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 12:56 AM
3

Do you honestly believe a kid is healthier if his/her mother is not present. I don't buy that for a second just like I don't buy that single mothers are good for children
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 09:19 PM
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there are plenty of sources that refute what your saying. Yes feminism has put a ton of emphasis on motherhood but your lack of objectivity is equally beta.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 04:01 AM
1

god I love that movie. Its literally TRP's message about masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 03:11 AM
1

did you watch the video? I'm interested in what you think and if you perspective has at least shifted a little bit to the more skeptical side??
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 12:58 AM
1

First of all I've been there. Im a reasonable handsome man with a lot going for me and I too struggled with suicidal thoughts, especially during my drug use. It happens. We are human. Im not sure we should be as aware of our universe as we are, it creates our existential angst. Basically you need to figure out if you can squeeze some happiness out of this existence. I decided that I like small pleasures and the thought of doing certain things and hobbies and experiences here on earth that I didn…
/r/askTRP02/07/16 12:54 AM
1

I think when the group of people saw them getting weird by the dumpster she got embarrassed and pretend "passed out" out of embarrassment. or maybe she was way more messed up than just drunk. But one thing is for sure. He is not a stone cold rapist. at most he is a young man who was hooking up with a girl and it got a little weird but without a doubt was almost entirely consensual.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 06:03 AM
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Im starting to understand Islam's perspective on women....this is so ridiculous I'm having trouble laughing at it. Someone please tell me this is a troll post.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 07:42 PM
2

right but my point is that you can't anthropomorphize animal behavior. Animals aren't "gay" in the sense you think of it. I got in this argument before and then a guy cited a study where these goats were exclusively gay and when the scientists analyzed their brains they found very abnormal brain structures that could explain the behavior but instead of seeing that this dude was waving a gay pride flag in my face like he somehow proved how natural it is....all I'm saying is the science is not rea…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 02:38 PM
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here is the former president of the APA explaining what happened to that governing body. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BPgq1c4TYi4
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 02:30 PM
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the APA was infiltrated and turned into a political institution. there was never a series of studies to prove homosexuality is "natural" its all politics. and its bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 07:08 AM
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you should look at the science more closely, including who paid for the data your citing.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 05:58 AM
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animals don't think like humans do, they are literally acting out an urge. you will almost NEVER find an animal that strictly mates with the same sex, a lot of those "homosexual animals" have produced offspring and continue to produce offspring even though they are "gay." beyond that the science is very shaky when you look at it closely. A lot of the animals they were able to study closely that behaved in this manner were found to have abnormal brain structures.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 05:56 AM
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there is no such thing as different sexualities. There is heterosexual and then there are mental disorders. No hate just science. I don't hate people with depression just like I don't hate people that are gay, but the APA has been largely controlled by LGBT groups who prevent and distort science for the last 30 years. Again there is only one sexuality in humans that occurs in healthy people.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 09:48 PM
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this is hilarious because it lacks the understanding that men and women are different. It might have some credence if men and women weren't so biologically different. Women rank men by testing our frame. Men test women by visual inspecting them. They are both objectification. This "art" did nothing but let some guys feel her cooter and allow her to somehow delude herself into thinking she is going to change biological programming.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 09:36 PM
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I personally have similar thinking to you mostly that I would personally want more financial freedom than they do or will have. That being said they will always have hot women around them because they are VERY good with people in general, they always know key people in weird ways, They are natural alphas, and they are physically attractive. They are the kind of guys that could bang justin beibers girlfriend on the down low...
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 04:58 AM
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the 3 guys that I know who pull the hottest women most consistently are: a bell hop at a nice resort, a factory worker, and a guy who is mostly unemployed but swings a hammer when he can. By all accounts they are great with women and NONE of them give a fuck about self actualization, self improvement, balance. Not saying those aren't important and help you to be healthy.....but not exactly the key to alpha
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 02:54 PM
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I've been thinking about this more and more. I live in Orange County and the competition is next level for anything remotely worth spending time with. Do you have any experience moving away from this make believe land where there is more realistic scales of competition?? I'm thoroughly interested. I feel like I'm playing against the casino where the house always wins.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 05:48 PM
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even more interesting is to check out peoples posture! you'll be blown away. I would say only 5-8% of men have good-really good posture. Its something I've become very obsessed with and it has changed the way I lift, run, sleep....check it out.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 05:40 AM
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I always feel better with some cardio. Seems to bring the endorphins out in a different way than lifting does. Question though, have any of you had success with a little cardio while trying to put 5-10lbs of muscle on? Im not trying to gain it in a week but I do want steady progress.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 05:29 AM
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Do I need a specific education or certificate to do this? Ive always wanted too.....I have yellow fever x2
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 02:54 AM
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I think it might be too much of contrast from their original culture. I would go with the highly respectable, accomplished black man look. I think that might work better.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 02:52 AM
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the hypocrisy is hilarious. Quick question though. Of you who have dated cum dumpsters like megan fox. What is it like? I've had sex with very attractive women but never relationships. I can't imagine it being worth the hassle but I'm curious about what the average day is like? how many times can you give her a facial before its not worth it anymore.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 12:51 AM
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Wow. just watched an hour of that. Pretty insane stuff. I am actually surprised that we don't hear about more judges being killed by fathers who get the shaft of the corruption. Especially that fagget psychiatrist who was extorting people. I can only imagine the level of rage I would have and the willingness I would have to take matters into my own hands. craziness.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 10:57 PM
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your last paragraph is NEVER brought up. Honestly if they were that familiar with each other I don't understand the outrage. Ive woken up to a blowjob in college from a chick I gave a little too much attention too. I pushed her away but I would never even think to somehow give her problems. This whole brock story is way more tame than what is presented.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 11:53 PM
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thats good. I meant no offense. Just attempting to explain the subtlety of the mindset. Being overly rigid is not confidence and IDGAF. moving toward your goals aggressively is important but being overly rigid will make you tense and people pick up on that energy as well. something to think about.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 10:49 PM
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if you can't blow 100 dollars every now and then for a good time then you should rethink a few things. Its not a big deal. nothing should shake you up. your a man.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 10:43 PM
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its subtle but that makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 08:23 PM
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A friend of mine had a kid with a woman and was not married to her. they got in a fight and she left with his young daughter and he essentially has ZERO rights. Its a nightmare. I know not to get married for any other reason than kids but it seems to me that if you are going to have kids you better get married. Do what you can to make the marriage as solid as you can (best mate possible, best financial situation, etc etc..) but I think there is more risk in not getting married.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 08:19 PM
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I disagree. Obviously if you are going all the time or you actually think that you are gaining something from the experience you are in the wrong BUT if your thought process is something like "lets grab drinks and talk shit with one another, the atmosphere of it being around naked prancing women just makes it fun. its nothing to be taken seriously" then there is nothing that needs to be shamed or corrected. You are currently on a blue rock traveling 107,000 km an hour around a fire ball. Lighten…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 08:05 PM
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Can someone explain this dichotomy. How do I simultaneously demonstrate that IDGAF but at the same time initiate conversation/meeting a woman. this confuses me.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 08:01 PM
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thankfully ill never put myself in these situations thanks to my education on the topics BUT I'm shocked at the how much this happens and ex-wives doesn't mysteriously disappear.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 06:43 AM
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Bpd is also known as "multiple traumas disorder" meaning that it is developed because that person has had significant or consistent trauma as a young child. This completely inhibits their ability to form genuine personhood and are instead religated to learning what other people do to seem normal but underneath it all they are a giant ball of fear/rage/trauma/neglect.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 12:45 AM
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be careful with that. Im not sure about the specifics but I know these types of loop holes are being closed quickly and not without penalty. Make sure your information is VERY current or you could be looking at some fraud charges.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 08:49 PM
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the most genetically superior humans are attempting to mate. not sure whats complicated about that. TRP explains this, its your job to present yourself(lifting, frame, grooming, social standing) knowing this knowledge.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 06:26 PM
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That's not true. My friend is a stud. His woman is HOT. They are both level headed and know their values are equal. The only time your comment applies is when people are not right mentally(brainwashed feminist/ daddy issues) or they are trying to date out of their league.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 05:29 PM
1

Honestly his situation is dumb. You should know the rules going in BEFORE you get married. Ask yourself if you are ready and want a legal contract with that person.(if you aren't having kids marriage is literally retarded). This person is an idiot who wants to put a condom on after he's already busted in her.....the damage is done. If anything this is an example of what not to do.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 04:15 PM
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If you find you have bad posture chances are you have weak feet/calves and this misalignment and weakness travels up the body. Also your core is probably very weak. do exercises with the intent on correcting your posture. I remember I couldn't believe how weak i was. My calves/feet were soooo weak. My glutes went dormant and needed a lot of attention. and my core was so weak I could only do a proper form plank for 10 seconds, if that. Don't be surprised if you find you are similar. Start reading…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 06:15 AM
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as someone in their late twenties, herpes doesn't have the sting it used to in college or especially high school. I don't have it but at this point i don't understand the big fuss. I know people who have it and its honestly not that big a deal, not sure why the stigma got so giant.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 06:06 PM
1

ok so from my understanding postpartum depression hits women out of no where after they have kids. What would cause such a drastic change in brain chemistry? Or are people with mental illnesses having kids and it only gets caught and diagnosed afterward?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 01:32 PM
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can someone explain to me what biological/evolutionary purpose "postpartum depression" has?? from my point of view(uneducated on the subject) it seems like the woman feels disillusioned by the reality of a child compared to the fantasy she imagined; which creates turmoil. basically giant hamster.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 03:38 PM
1

klokov is an olympic weightlifter. He does oly lifts and I'm sure some assistance work. He looks the way he does because oly lifting is all about explosive athletic movements. its easy to get jacked when all you do is deadlift, squat, and OHP explosively.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 06:01 AM
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Fighters cut a lot of weight for weigh ins... Most 170# fighters walk around at close to 190-200. Conner walks around at 170 and cuts from there
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 03:59 PM
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You should check out some of the Chinese weightlifting team and/ klokov from Russia. If you trained oly lifts and ate right you'll look like Hercules
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 02:33 PM
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connor mcgregor. if he got close to 200# he would look dumb. Him at 170-175 looks pretty damn good.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 07:10 AM
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I hear what your trying to say but I think everyone needs to be honest with themselves and look at their frame. I'm a 5'10" Irish/German that got the Irish frame. For me my ideal weight is going to be around 180-185max. Bulking like a power lifter would look retarded with my frame. Plus I play soccer and surf so being meatball is dumb for me. For my frame is rather go for the fight club look. For others the manham might be the call. Be honest with yourselves and your hobbies
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 07:48 PM
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women are entirely self-involved, meaning they think everything is directed toward them in some way. She most likely genuinely thinks you are playing a game with her when you don't text immediately so she in turn plays this make believe fantasy game thats all in her head. A way to solve this is to text her back immediately sometimes and then other times (when your actually busy) just get back to her when you can or have a free minute. Her hamster thinks your playing a game.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 06:22 PM
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Exactly. I've literally watched this hot Asian girl I know settle down with a millionaire because "he can provide a life for me" yet somehow people on this sub think that is alpha.....no, alpha is the guy who bangs this chicks with nothing but himself(no money,fancy clothes, cars...etc) if you have both then your golden. I thought the beta myth of money=women was Well understood around here ???
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 09:26 PM
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maybe, but money doesn't command their respect. I have a good looking(natural alpha) friend who works in a high end hotel who is constantly getting offers from trophy wives/girlfriends..(even the escorts hit on him)
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:41 AM
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I'm always surprised by the level of intellect in this sub. I thought the same thing as I have read many many books for my own issues and you hit the nail on the head. this man was most likely traumatized as a child or adolescent(abandoned, beat, molested, unseen) and this woman drew out the trauma within.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 11:49 PM
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being as cheesy and feminine as this dude is equivalent to seeing a hot chick who spits loogies, forgets to shave and has BO....its repulsive
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 08:32 AM
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yeah I just cringe and laugh everytime he posts something on social media...hes so lost he doesn't even know he's lost
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 09:25 PM
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I should have clarified, I know him and our circles of people run close enough together that I know most of his personal details. His thoughts that he expresses on Instagram is what finally made it click for me as to why a guy that good looking and fit wasn't crushing it. Before posts like the one I quoted I was confused, but being that blue pill explains it
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 07:10 PM
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your right, but its still a solid example of how frame significantly affects female attraction
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 04:48 PM
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i 100% agree that certain level of income brings a lot of comfort and security. on the other hand, I know id rather bang models on the regular and not make as much money. as I commented with a previous poster, 3 dudes i know well that have incredible sex lives are a) a bell hop at a resort b) factory worker in surf industry C) unemployed after getting fired from petsmart. They are the opposite of beta providers and they fuck the women we all dream of, and by fuck I mean they tie them up, give th…
/r/askTRP17/04/16 05:58 AM
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what do you mean fake it? he literally is the bell hop when they meet him. He has been an alpha his whole life so his game is rock solid. he gives the tingles to ever girl he meets. he isn't faking anything.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 04:27 AM
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i totally agree with the personal freedom aspect but think its important to note the three most alpha dudes i know(regularly bang magazine quality women) are a bell hop at a resort. a factory worker(surf industry). and unemployed after getting fired at petsmart.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 04:21 AM
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not entirely making the connection. are you suggesting they have some sort of discipline or some other quality that has the byproduct of money? I'm interested.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 04:17 AM
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right but that "loser" is the alpha were trying to adopt and understand. If trp was false then all I would have to do to get women is be rich/provider, which we know isn't true
/r/askTRP17/04/16 04:16 AM
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I agree with that perspective. just not the money=pussy. which is somewhat true but not necessary if your alpha.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 04:14 AM
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one of my best friends is a bell hop at high end resort in laguna beach. He makes about 40 grand a year and bangs so many multi-millionares(pseudo alpha) wives its ridiculous. In my estimation believing that money is somehow a core objective is a common blue pill pit fall. I get the freedom part, but you all seem to equate money=freedom=pussy, which, in my experience isn't necessarily true.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 04:13 AM
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yeah I like your plan. both.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 11:48 PM
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that was kind of my dilemma. clothes, cross fit, soccer league, sports equipment, good food, etc all costs money. i think ill find the balance between all of that and paying the debt.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 11:46 PM
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yeah paying the debt seems to be the majority answer. appreciate your input.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 11:44 PM
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good idea. didnt think of that.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 11:43 PM
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balance. good point. thank you for your response
/r/askTRP16/04/16 11:42 PM
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meditate on her humanness. Meditate on the fact that she is a decaying organism that was never perfect, merely just another hairless ape on a blue rock spinning in the middle of god knows where, like the rest of us. people are not special. some are just nice to have on the journey but the high shelf your putting her on is illogical. focus on what makes your thought illogical and the fantasy of her will change.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 06:36 PM
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I'm new to this but a handful of the friends Ive had throughout my life were natural alphas. I saw them ignore phone calls like your talking about. The reason seemed to be that they already knew what the conversation was going to look like and they didnt want to bother themselves with the BS of the cookie cutter conversation they had heard 1000 times before. It was more nonchalant annoyance than being a beta characteristic.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 02:00 AM
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This dynamic didn't change the desire to pass on genetic information.The loathing is a consequence of not doing so.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 03:28 AM
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In tribal societies(99% of human history) the nuclear family was not a thing. Kids were raised by the tribe, not just a mother/father.(its a hard concept to grasp given our current society). Because of this, women almost always would be impregnated by the alpha male and the other males would help raise the child. So if you present Beta male qualities, Her biology views you as someone to help raise children, not someone with the genetics that should enter her womb.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 08:04 PM
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controlling a girlfriend with boundaries is beta. If she's not willfully submissive to you then your doing something off a little bit and should review the TRP content and analyze your behavior. Sounds like you were involved in an insecure/unhealthy relationship. Power is Subtle. If you can't control subtlety then you don't really have it.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 03:38 AM
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Yeah I figured. Just keeping the basics drilled in my head is the best way to adopt the information.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 10:00 PM
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Yeah Its interesting because that time period in my life was always a sort of mystery to me. I never had the terminology or philosophy to explain why my life was so much better back then. I could never figure out why "everything was just working." The information on this sub makes everything understandable. Im just hoping I can implement this knowledge into concrete results.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 09:59 PM
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Good question. Ive wondered that myself. Almost like once a woman has entered your frame is possible that she will override her biology? I'm not sure but thats an interesting question....
/r/askTRP22/11/15 09:56 PM
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Makes a lot of sense. Almost like that old Native american story about which wolf you feed is the wolf that lives.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 09:54 PM
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There are two different kinds of insults in social situations. The first one is playful insults, in which you should role with it and keep an IDGAF attitude like you tried. Then there are insults in which someone is attempting to use you to socially elevate themselves. In this case I usually give this person an extremely calm(the kind of calm you have before you give a sly smirk, but without actually smirking) expressionless look.no words. maybe a single syllable "hah" and continue a different c…
/r/askTRP22/11/15 07:20 AM
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don't get butthurt because I called your hero (mystery) a fag....I was just helping the clueless guys that think PUA will help them when in fact they probably have a lot of other things they need to take care of before "neg + kino a HB9".....
/r/seduction29/03/15 10:59 PM
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no worries man, trust me Ive been lower than most and have also been more competent than most.....no amount of PUA technique can help if you haven't gotten into a good lifestyle beforehand and gained a reasonable amount of self assurance.
/r/seduction29/03/15 09:50 PM
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No, just wanted to make it clear to the clueless people that PUA is not even worth trying if you haven't even reached a certain level of competence.......are you really suggesting that a complete social retard go up to a woman a book store and try to create a conversation after reading a few things ???
/r/seduction29/03/15 09:48 PM
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