Is eating pussy beta?

horologist2018 · 2018-12-17T23:45:10+00:00

It's not beta. It all depends on what you want. If it's something you are totally against, then don't do it.

Lots of us on here salivate at the thought of eating pussy. I know I do. I fucking love eating pussy. One night stand or not; if it's hot enough for me to put my dick in, it's hot enough for me to put my mouth on it.

Not everyone is the same. Some guys are repulsed by it. Some guys will only do it with a LTR. Some guys will only do it with a FWB that he knows isn't fucking other guys. Some guys eat pussy like mad men (me).

Do what you want. I offer no actual advice here, except to tell you: Eating pussy is NOT "beta."

Shittybillyall · 2018-12-18T00:04:50+00:00

The only pussy I eat is LTR's I know it's clean and safe and can give them a couple orgasms before I rearrange their guts. I'd never go down on a random hook up or plate tho.

MGRaiden97 · 2018-12-18T00:04:22+00:00

Girls like when you can eat them out to orgasm

So no I'd say it does not make you beta

kcxvi · 2018-12-17T23:44:01+00:00

“if you suck pussy you’ll suck anything.” -Corrado Soprano.

But no it’s not “beta”

comounamanzana · 2018-12-17T23:45:16+00:00

try to see if you like it, some people do, some don't

freew33zy · 2018-12-18T03:12:51+00:00

Eating pussy to earn back BJs is beta. Eating pussy by itself is not beta.

cobravision · 2018-12-18T00:28:05+00:00

Only if you lick that shit like a beta

Rkingpin · 2018-12-18T00:45:53+00:00

Now she's gone "on strike" don't eat that pussy until she asks nicely like a good girl.

This is a test of frame.

"Can I get what I want from him by withdrawing what he likes?"

Reframe it by making her almost beg, then it becomes

"she asked like a good girl, so I was nice to her"

jerrymcguiver · 2018-12-17T23:59:05+00:00

A man wants what he wants. I eat my wife's pussy when i want to get her that much more into it. When she has harder orgasms later her pussy spasms out on my dick that much more. So from eating her out I get more pleasure. Idgaf if it feels good for her it feels good for me.

Doing it as a negotiation to get yours sounds as good as doing the dishes to get yours.

My wife once told me the same line back when i was a bp afc. I ended up eating her out often. But she would stop me at times or not want to "clean up" so i could go down there. All just basically to avoid having to do what she didn't want to do. Which is to say she's not attracted to you enough to keep sucking your dick. You been together long enough for her to play the I don't need to impress him with daily bjs card huh? Long game and dread is needed if you want bjs to continue after that phase.

vandaalen · 2018-12-17T23:59:38+00:00

My LTR has gone on strike from giving me head because I refuse to eat her pussy.

Twelve levels of dread.

MartinVDK91 · 2018-12-29T02:32:08+00:00

Never have done it on FB, FWB or plates. Just LTRs, but just after they gave head.

FireDrillem · 2018-12-18T00:24:39+00:00

If she’s worth an LTR AND she sucks you off, WTF! Be a good sport.

That being said, holding back as you did can be a good thing provided that you play your cards right.

Do NOT eat her out to “earn” resumption of BJs. In fact, frame it as if it’s a privilege for her to suck it. (Easy to do in Role Play mode).
Do it on your terms and at a time that you determine. This is a pivotal moment. Don’t blow it (no pun intended).

It’s kind of a “submissive” posture but sometimes necessary in a sex laden LTR.

I usually have a 3:1 suck-eat ratio.

Title	Is eating pussy beta?
Author	2fassy
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Comments	12
Date	December 17, 2018 11:32 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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